Dear Vyom, ever heard about 'Self respect'?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Needless to say, this is coming after watching the promo for tonight's episode.

Joke all you want about it but I see some serious issues with both the characters- Vyom and Shiv! But I won't be talking about the latter in this post, I've done that already and have promised myself to wait till the episode airs and then provide my judgement.

Here I will only be talking about Vyom. He seems to be a classic case of "Like Father Like Son". Only, Rajan's controlling and obsessive nature is out there for all of us to witness and judge, while the son has been hiding it under layers of saccharine sweetness and cheesiness and it only threatens to show itself when his subconscious believes that Sharanya is falling for him.

Whether Sharanya threw him out of her life out of anger/disgust or out of fear for his life is secondary, point is, it makes no sense for him to beg like that to her to take him back!

How about showing some dignity and walking out from her home and her life with his head held high? Let her come back to you!

Don't even get me started on the serious need for Vyom to give people the space they deserve, I swear I might end up cursing more than formulating coherent sentence. But self respect doesn't come from teaching, it comes from within. Even after everything she told him, he still went to her house in the middle of the night like the lovelorn puppy that he is! I'm so done! 😡

So what that she was terrified? She has her whole, albeit useless, family to come running for her when the Ghost strikes. She has Nawaab, above all! Vyom is slowly but surely becoming Rajan 2.0 and that's not good news! He is shushing Sharanya gently or aggressively when she is asking him legit questions or talking about her past, depending on the situation. This needs to STOP!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Vyom seriously needs to stop being Sharanya's pooch! I wish he gives his love and time to Madhavi..he broke his mother's heart only to get heart broken by Sharanya he deserve it.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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He should atleast show some self respect... Why don't he want sharanya to find her past... If only he was in her past and if sharanya would have been relax by talking to Odhni then why he was so aggressive on her... He should stop it ASAP... He is proving he is rajan's son... Only love is not important... But he is he'll bent in sharanya accepting him as her love...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: afreenaamna

Vyom seriously needs to stop being Sharanya's pooch! I wish he gives his love and time to Madhavi..he broke his mother's heart only to get heart broken by Sharanya he deserve it.


Forget about Madhavi, how about he starts to get his career back on track? 🤔

Thing is, a person with no self-respect is very unlikely to earn respect from others. I admired him so much during the party scene where he gave Sharanya the cold shoulder, eventually making her hold out her own hand to him for a dance. Where is that Vyom?? 😭
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree completely no self respect toh banda spineless
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Men like him who thinks they're useless without a girl indeed deserves the thrashing. I disagree about Rajan, Rajan indeed has a lot of self respect. He not only puts obsessed madhvi at her place but even his greedy family members. His weakness is his son but he's not a doormat to anybody whereas Vyom has conveniently given the floor to Sharanya to insult and trash him whenever she waalnts. Worst is both of them are alwats unapologetic. Love is selfless and yes obsessive but it's not greater than your dignity, the day vyom realizes that I am sure he can be happy even if sharanya doesn't ever love him back.

In Vyom's defence all i want to say is that he has seen a disgusting and selfish family around him where nobody loves each other. The way mashvi expresses her love to vyom.is also not very appealing because as a mother she's more like giving him a lecture of her self pitiful life. If you constantly insult the woman your son loves then you cannot earn anything instead you are making him more scared and weaker in his love. On top of that his father keeps on giving him false hopes of love and marriage with Sharanya and as he considers his father as a shield he's unable to even judge that no matter how much a father promises you can't win something which is not fated.

Lastly worst is sharanya's parents who puts the final nail in Vyom's already respect less constant chant of love saga. He's made to believe that he's sharanya's and her parents made him believe that. So it's more like whole universe is being a cupid for his love but sharanya does not bother.

It's good that he will have an outburst today. I hope he's going to sharanya's home only to blast her and probably reply to her "get lost" and not because he wants to be taken back. Maybe by fate he will end up seeing her being in trouble and forget his agony and anger and not drag this anymore.

I still believe that vyom is someone who needs love, the kind of love his parents give him is not positive at all if their son is scared to lose a girl and think his life will end. He's not moulded enough to mix with people or accept a loveless life again. I think it bothers the shot outta him that why can't i ever get acceptance when my love is acknowledged by everyone but still not the one whom.i want.

It's really hurtful because I know how it kills you inside to be in such a state. Vyom should definitely leave sharanya and let her come back to him and he should ask her to wait then. I hope they show sth like this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArshiKiMahi

He should atleast show some self respect... Why don't he want sharanya to find her past... If only he was in her past and if sharanya would have been relax by talking to Odhni then why he was so aggressive on her... He should stop it ASAP... He is proving he is rajan's son... Only love is not important... But he is he'll bent in sharanya accepting him as her love...


That's exactly what I've been yapping about since the beginning. He is definitely not 100% forthcoming about the past. What's worse is that he doesn't even let Sharanya explore it on her own since he fears she might stumble across something that'll render him a liar.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeAmo_Messi

Men like him who thinks they're useless without a girl indeed deserves the thrashing. I disagree about Rajan, Rajan indeed has a lot of self respect. He not only puts obsessed madhvi at her place but even his greedy family members. His weakness is his son but he's not a doormat to anybody whereas Vyom has conveniently given the floor to Sharanya to insult and trash him whenever she waalnts. Worst is both of them are alwats unapologetic. Love is selfless and yes obsessive but it's not greater than your dignity, the day vyom realizes that I am sure he can be happy even if sharanya doesn't ever love him back.

Rajan is a force to reckon with! I'm definitely not comparing Vyom's doormat nature to Rajan. It's the want to control, the want to shut Sharanya down when she is actually asking genuine questions or sharing her fears, the want to keep her to himself instead of letting her get herself together after losing 5 years of her life and memories!

In Vyom's defence all i want to say is that he has seen a disgusting and selfish family around him where nobody loves each other. The way mashvi expresses her love to vyom.is also not very appealing because as a mother she's more like giving him a lecture of her self pitiful life. If you constantly insult the woman your son loves then you cannot earn anything instead you are making him more scared and weaker in his love. On top of that his father keeps on giving him false hopes of love and marriage with Sharanya and as he considers his father as a shield he's unable to even judge that no matter how much a father promises you can't win something which is not fated.

Like I said, self-respect comes from within, regardless of the upbringing. An unhealthy upbringing spawns an equally unhealthy idea of love, but that has nothing to do with losing your dignity. Sharanya does what she does because Vyom leaves her with no other option. Vyom needs to realise this and pull himself together instead of behaving like a classic rich, spoilt brat who takes his anger out on inanimate objects when denied something. 😒

Lastly worst is sharanya's parents who puts the final nail in Vyom's already respect less constant chant of love saga. He's made to believe that he's sharanya's and her parents made him believe that. So it's more like whole universe is being a cupid for his love but sharanya does not bother.

It's good that he will have an outburst today. I hope he's going to sharanya's home only to blast her and probably reply to her "get lost" and not because he wants to be taken back. Maybe by fate he will end up seeing her being in trouble and forget his agony and anger and not drag this anymore.

This is you and me being highly optimistic. 😆 Par ummeed pe duniya kaayam hain, so let's see. If I can reserve my judgement for hot bhoot, I can certainly do that for our cute sociopath. 😆

I still believe that vyom is someone who needs love, the kind of love his parents give him is not positive at all if their son is scared to lose a girl and think his life will end. He's not moulded enough to mix with people or accept a loveless life again. I think it bothers the shot outta him that why can't i ever get acceptance when my love is acknowledged by everyone but still not the one whom.i want.

It's really hurtful because I know how it kills you inside to be in such a state. Vyom should definitely leave sharanya and let her come back to him and he should ask her to wait then. I hope they show sth like this.

PREACH!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Lilith ..
Exactly Vyom does have an idea of controlling things and good part is that sharanya is not taking his shit and has finally shut the doors for him. It bothers me that vyom finds everything so simple that he can shush sharanya from her past while make a future with her? He knows the past and if it's really very ugly then i don't know what to say.

Vyom is a curious case and i would love to do a thesis on my baby because initially I used to think that the ghost has the mind f**ked (pardon my language ) character but now as the show is progressing it's coming off like Vyom will throw me under the 50 shades of his freakhole character and I must end up loving Vikram some more. I am still a fan of anti heroes like sujal and sahir, Vyom should be my next one. Sharanya needs to calm down the ghost's hormones now, he's being jumping too much lately.

I don't want him to be positive but someone with lots of shades and layers. And i am definitely loving the current obsession. . I hope he slaps his creepy chacha ASAP.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Lilith.



Forget about Madhavi, how about he starts to get his career back on track?🤔

Thing is, a person with no self-respect is very unlikely to earn respect from others. I admired him so much during the party scene where he gave Sharanya the cold shoulder, eventually making her hold out her own hand to him for a dance. Where is that Vyom??😭


Rich dad son..udhao Baap ka paisa 🤢

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