First of all let me post a picture of this girl who is insanely beautiful even in the weirdest costumes! Except for the cute embroidery and mirror work on those blouses everything else is unglamarous starting with the ghunghat, the most unappealing drape of saree and those knuckle duster rings on her hand! So it must be her inner light that shines through! She is poetry, she is love, she is romance! I don't blame Shaurya getting all poetic when trying to remind Mehak of the moments they spent together!
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Sami's face is glowing and her jaw line looks more defined now after losing some weight. She should just relax her shoulders and not square them as much but still stand tall. When she stiffens her shoulders it makes her neck look short. She should try to be in her best shape always. Not to please anyone but for herself❤️.
Coming back to the story, each scene in this track where Mehak rejects Shaurya, reminds me of all those times when he trivialized and mocked her love before. Karma has an interesting way of testing people. Its your turn to burn in love Shaurya Khanna! Karan does it in the most beautiful way! Those tears brimming in his eyes! Not that I want men to cry all the time, but I like men who have aheart, who are vulnerable, who are not assholes, who can shed tears for others.
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Talking about burning in love, I never completely understand the madness surrounding love, may be because I never went through the process of dating, love, heartbreak etc. I just chose the guy I want to be with and I bask in his love all the time. I did feel miserable when I had to stay away from him for 3 months and I would cry for no reason. Whenever I see the Karwachauth scenes in tv shows, I wish there is some kind of spiritual procedure that makes sure that both of us die together instead of one dying before the other. I do fear losing him and more than that I fear leaving him alone in this world if I die ahead of him. Mine is more of a peaceful kind of love where we never had to fight to be together, but we just fight through life together as a team. So just to understand what's the deal with this kind of crazy painful love, I was looking for some expert video that intellectualizes the feelings displayed in romantic novels, movies and tv shows. Ted talks is a good platform where people from different walks of life share their knowledge/experiences, so I googled "ted talks love" and I found these interesting videos. These videos reminded me of a post I made long ago about the importance of happy hormones in the well-being of a person. 😛
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYfoGTIG7pY[/YOUTUBE]
There are other videos of this talker related to the topic of love which are informative too.
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMWYQRKuc5M[/YOUTUBE]
After watching those videos and thinking about it, I came to the conclusion that human animal is the most needy animal of all. We never grow up! We want to be cuddled and pampered our whole lives like parents do! I love it when my husband hugs me and says " I don't know what I am gonna do with you" like a parent and plants a kiss on my head. May be I chose to be with him instantly because I saw a good daddy in him😆, to have a family with and also to be pampered like a little girl for the rest of my life. May be it was my mating drive after all😆! Animals don't usually look for pampering and cuddling once they grow up to be adults. Its not always about sex really that we cuddle with the partner, but we do it to feel loved. Its a good feeling! I don't know why other animals don't do it. They are just too damn independent.😆 Male and female animals usually don't even stay close if its not mating season. Pardon my silly thoughts here, but tits don't play an important role in sex for any other animal except for human. Tits are associated with motherhood and nurturing. I guess deep down we all look forward to nurture and to be nurtured when we enter a romantic relationship. Its a happy feeling for both parties. We crave that high all through our lives. So when that happy feeling is taken away people experience depression and withdrawal. That became a long post because of the videos. Thanks for reading.