How is it illicit, immoral and illegal?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Lets put aside that Shorvari is still alive n has faked her death...
Mr Paarth is a widower. If any girl, bar dancer be it, wants to marry him with the consent of his whole family...what's immoral?

Marrying a man, even if we know that there won't be shared love, but a strong friendship, for the sake of giving a child a mother n father, what's illegal in it?

Being a bar dancer earned her such hatred, tagged as cheapo, goddess... i like Teni character a lot. She wants only 1 thing...the happiness of each n everyone. N for herself too, what's wrong with that?


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Posted: 7 years ago
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if she teni want happiness then she can choose un married man or divorcee . but why she is want happiness in married man. .she wanted parth even when shourvari was there .which is immoral


marrying unmarried to widower is not illegal . but here teni use advantage of shourvari request . not even try to convince shourvari to tell truth parth about brain tumor. just blindly following shourvari request and want to marry parth this is problem



she even did not try to convince shourvari to go for proper. treatment of brain tumour u can survive with proper why do u think so that u will die .

bus shourvari ke haan mein haan milaaati Rahi which is also problem


shourvari ke haan mein haan Milana that means she does not want to loose chance to marry parth which is immoral
Edited by surabhi01 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Marrying a widower with just the consent of his family is right? What about his personal interest? Doesnt he require time to move on or introspect?!And marrying for the child? Really? If she has so much mamta..it shud be undettered irrespective of whether she marries parth or not...this conditions of marrying parth will make me give mamta sounds utter bullshit..for a woman if she really loves the child in her womb...nothing can be a hindrance in showering her love and affection..unfortunately for teni this care and love comes with a condition which evidently is parth marrying her...so how is that right? For teni love seems to come as a bargain..its not a innate feeling specially her sudden motherly feelings for this kid...moreover i also believe that a person shud be kaabil enuf for becoming the life partner of the other person in question..just because she carries parth's child it doesnt make her his ideal wife..she lacks maturity..she lacks the social status(yeap..call me whatever you want to for telling this) and she lacks behind in every quality that parth wud have seen in shorvari and made her his wife...showing illogical things like any tom dick harry marrying a guy because she loves him and is the surrogate of his child doesnt make things right or look good

Being a bar dancer didnt earn her the tag of a cheapo or goddess...its her doings which is tagged innocent and immature by some people who love her so much is what makes her look cheap...the makers are making the story look like she is the ultimate fairy god mother without whom the whole family especially parth and shorvari cannot survive which we are not liking...hence we call her goddess..i dont see goddess to be a bad name for teni...because the way she is worshipped by the family forgetting their daughter in law in just two months post her death shows the status of teni in that family at the moment...

And teni is doing it for everyone's happiness? Really? Is parth happy with what she is doing? Her demands and making him do stuff against his own wishes will make parth happy? Parth being shorvari's husband has every right to know the reality of shorvari atleast post her death(everyone has assumed her to be dead) If she wants to keep everyone happy then what about shorvari? Has she kept her promise of revealing her truth to family now that she has assumed her to be dead? She will use the video as a weapon to make parth marry her once he denies getting married to her..that is again making teni look selfish and people will definitely hate it as to how she is using things to her situation which again will be termed as innocent and unintentional...
And coming to illegal illicit and immoral...a biological father who is being forced to marry the surrogate giving the reason of a baby is morally right is it? And why werent these moral legality questioned by you when shorvari was alive and teni did some extremely cheap stuff back then? Like i said before..assuming someone dead doesnt really make them dead...tom if shorvari comes back alive or is alive somewhere on the planet still makes the marriage illicit and illegal...
Just like how because of your love for teni you find everything she does to be for happiness for everyone...we find that she is in her lalaland living all the happiness that was rightfully shorvari which this same shameless family didnt give her for years...we find tat teni has got shortcuts for every happiness she wanted including the man she loves(who is married to someone else) because she is a fertile woman and find it unfair with how a woman who is infertile is treated by this same bunch of hypocrites...we dont like her for coming in between a much in love couple even if its unintentional...no one is obligated to like teni mata here just because she is shown as surrogate and loves parath..

Just like how you want to assume shorvari is dead and hence this wretched couple parth teni are now legal and stuff...we also believe that shorvari isnt dead unless her face was shown..and for us irrespective of shorvari being dead or alive...parth teni will remain illicit illegal and immoral...period...
Edited by Shambavishivam - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i just want shorvori to come back, then we will see how much care for others happiness teni shows.
i think by 'she cares for everyone happiness' you mean how she included shorvori in her threesome because she could have fantasize parath only but she didn't because she wanted shorvori happiness too.

my problem is not with her bar dancer status at all! problem is her being surrogate and wishing to involve with child's father. she was selected to bring their child in world not to stay in their house forever like she wishes. she is capable and physically and mentally healthy so she should be able to support herself but no she wants an easy out. if she goes back after giving birth to her old life which is bar dancer, believe me i would admire her because then she would choose to be independent and strong.

P.S after seeing teni infatuation towards parth, and her openness, toward him i would not wish surrogacy even on my worst enemy.
Edited by Famishah - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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First of all Parth's wife is alive so whatever any other woman does him will be considered illegal and illicit. And since she is alive, I don't want to think otherwise.

But if Parth was really widower and he himself wanted to move on from his life, then what Teni and his family was doing could have been justifiable. But here everything is being done against his wish, by emotionally blackmailing him, by using his unborn baby as the means to convince him. On no moral grounds it can be justified.

To add to it, a relationship which is based on lies instead of mutual trust and understanding isn't right.. If Teni is really so keen on being his support system and she thinks its possible only if she marries him, then she should first show guts to tell Shorvori's entire truth to him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Famishah

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i just want shorvori to come back, then we will see how much care for others happiness teni shows.
i think by 'she cares for evreyone happiness' you mean how she included shorvori in her threesome because she could have fantasize parath only but she didn't because she wanted shorvori happiness too.

my problem is not with her bar dancer status at all! problem is her being surrogate and wishing to involve with child's father. she was selected to bring their child in world not to stay in their house forever like she wishes. she is capable and physically and mentally healthy so she should be able to support herself but no she wants an easy out. if she goes back after giving birth to her old life which is bar dancer, believe me i would admire her because then she would choose to be independent and strong.

P.S after seeing teni infatuation towards parth, and her openness, toward him i would not wish surrogacy even on my worst enemy.


Totally agree on what you said about her bar dancer status. In fact she was more admirable and relatable when she was a bar dancer than as a surrogate/would be Bhanushali bahu.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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First thing, no one said she's a cheap coz she's a bar dancer. In fact PaRi fans have liked her very much when she was simply a bar dancer. She was sensible and had maturity back then.

She's been named a goddess and Cheapo now since her actions with Parth , ever since she started to develop feelings for him has been cheap. Right from that Mastani track, she being physically close with him regardless to the scenarios they were, and finally this last dori tying scene. She asks a guy such a sensitive favor who lost his wife two months back. I would call that cheap.

Forget about Shorvari being alive or dead, if at Teni cares for everyone equally, she'd have never left Shorvari suffer the pain of that tumor all alone. She'd have told Parth and the entire family what she's suffering from and would have tried her best to get her saved. Even if the tumor wasn't curable, Shorvari needed love, care and affection from everyone more than anything. Even after all this she doesn't care to clear Shorvari's name. She's not yet showed the video to Parth. These actions of hers aren't supporting the statement that she wants happiness of everyone. She's not that selfless as she pressnts. her to be.

About the illicit part, Others have said everything better than me. Lav & Famishah @ Great post👍🏼

Edited by SudHaVeN- - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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and teni is not marrying to parth because cause she want to give name of both father and mother child .she is marrying because to parth because she wanted parth for herself and that is why she is taking advantage of shourvari absence fully fill her own need

Edited by surabhi01 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehr05

Lets put aside that Shorvari is still alive n has faked her death...

Mr Paarth is a widower. If any girl, bar dancer be it, wants to marry him with the consent of his whole family...what's immoral?

Marrying a man, even if we know that there won't be shared love, but a strong friendship, for the sake of giving a child a mother n father, what's illegal in it?

Being a bar dancer earned her such hatred, tagged as cheapo, goddess... i like Teni character a lot. She wants only 1 thing...the happiness of each n everyone. N for herself too, what's wrong with that?


The answer lies on the hand: because she's the surrogate mother, a third class girl without rights! The one and only right she has is to deliver the wanted child and after that to disappear from the screens! To marry an surrogate is illict, immoral and illegal but to rent her womb is quite normal. This is more then ironic... However, SSM production is doing a great job, with each episode the message is more and more obvious... 👏
Edited by NatalyMusketeer - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Looks like people are confused about rights of surrogates. Being a surrogate doesn't give anyone rights to break the biological parents home. And an unmarried surrogate asking a favour from a married man which no unmarried woman will be comfortable doing, will be immoral only.
How sad that even her supporters want to see her with a man who will never love her and turn a baby producing machine, instead of seeing her moving on from that phase in her life and living her life independently.

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