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Posted: 7 years ago
Chakor, your replies were to the point, you kept your expectations simple and related to what matters most: love, trust and respect.


Coming to your question. My society is more open than in Rabia's case, so phone calls are the norm, supervised home visits. Unless the couple come from conservative or rural backgrounds, engaged couples do go out for lunch or cinema. But the level of intimacy is kept very low, even holding hands would be considered inappropriate and definitely no dirty talk. Personally, I'm prudish so I'd be uncomfortable even with romantic talk.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: meshmesh

Chakor, your replies were to the point, you kept your expectations simple and related to what matters most: love, trust and respect.



Coming to your question. My society is more open than in Rabia's case, so phone calls are the norm, supervised home visits. Unless the couple come from conservative or rural backgrounds, engaged couples do go out for lunch or cinema. But the level of intimacy is kept very low, even holding hands would be considered inappropriate and definitely no dirty talk. Personally, I'm prudish so I'd be uncomfortable even with romantic talk.

Awww it's so sweet of you!
And yeah! Those three points matters a lot in every relationship according to me.

Oh cool!
It's easy to relate to this point!
Phone calls and lunches, it's all a good thing!
Oh oh so here we have a shyyy shy girl!
Best of luck for you when it happens! ;-)

- Chakor
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: meshmesh

Chakor, your replies were to the point, you kept your expectations simple and related to what matters most: love, trust and respect.



Coming to your question. My society is more open than in Rabia's case, so phone calls are the norm, supervised home visits. Unless the couple come from conservative or rural backgrounds, engaged couples do go out for lunch or cinema. But the level of intimacy is kept very low, even holding hands would be considered inappropriate and definitely no dirty talk. Personally, I'm prudish so I'd be uncomfortable even with romantic talk.

Interesting dear!
Thanks for sharing this with us!
I think most of the girls who will face that situation in an arranged marriage case will be shy and not comfortable to talk more than few words before we get to trust the person and know him more. It's my POV.

And I think I would like to hold hands if possible but I don't know what reaction it would have. May be I will shiver or goosebumps LOL
As I have never put myself in those kind of talks, I really don't know how I will react. It's going to be difficult!

But all I wish is to talk to the person more than just HI/BYE and get to know him a bit before marriage!
That would be a good beginning!
And of course things will depend on from where he is going to come LOL
And if I get to see him in live(no video call) before all gets fixed 😉

- Maithili
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Posted: 7 years ago
Hello!

I had super fun chatting with you all!
Thanks for taking your time and being with me!
Happy life to everyone!

Love you al!
See you if possible!

- Chakor
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Posted: 7 years ago
Hey buddies!

Finally this chat session comes to an end here!
Thank you for everyone who participated!
I got to know few things through this chat, thank you buddies!

So the next session will be for next week!
And I will try my best to update TTW soon!
Until then enjoy your time in the beautiful forum and I will enjoy my time in my training session!

See you buddies!

- Maithili
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Posted: 7 years ago
Hey hey hey!


How are you all?
I don't know if you all got to chat with my dear friend, Mrs. Rascal (Please don't tell her that I called her like that, she will kill me if she gets to know I call her hubby like that).
If you didn't chat with her, no problem, her friend, me, I'm here as she is busy with her Monkey man! Oups sorry, I mean the man who got her through a KISS Game!
He is my bro but I would say he is my enemy in real life.
He just changed my bff to just bf or even f! Poor me!
That's the solo reason I'm here to find new friends! Don't take me wrong! :-(

So let me start with the introduction!
Hello! I'm Tina! You all can call me Tinu if you want!
As you all know, me and my dear friend were together for all these years but since the time she entered the house as the DIL, she is so busy in running behind her hubby.
I mean she spends all her time with him only.
So I too dumped her and got to go out a lot with Dinesh as we are planning to work together as our ambitions are similar, business planning!
I really don't know how come he became best friend of that Monkey man when he is really a gem and he is more like Chakor when it comes to understanding.

Ho ho oh that explains why both are hell bent behind him! I think he is my bhabi's long lost brother and both are devoted to Suraj as they are related! That sounds right!
Am I right? Right!
I stop blabbering here itself else I will eat your mind for the rest of day!
I have got 2 days leave from my business plan as I have to prepare the Godh bharai(Baby Shower) of my deary dear!
Dinesh is also here so I can take time to chat with you all as he will be preparing the function with me!
So let's chat!
As said, I will be busy now and then but I will try my best to stay with you all!

So see you all whenever you can! :-)

- Tina

*******

Hello!

How are you all?
As few of you wished, I have asked Tina from KISS to chat with you all!
Hope you all enjoy the chat!
It will be until Wednesday evening only as KN from Flechazo will be here on Thursday!

Will be posting TTW by this evening or tomorrow!
Don't know yet!
See you all soon!

- Maithili
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Posted: 7 years ago
Hi Tina
How is your life going with sukor & new friend
My question is do you give any hint to suraj about chakor's feelings

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Posted: 7 years ago
Hi Tina,
How are you?

Thanks for taking time to answer our questions, so here are my questions:

You're twins and twins are supposed to have a special connection more than regular siblings, did you suspect that Suraj has feelings for Chakor?

What's the thing that irritates you most about Suraj?

You and Dinesh seem to get along very well 😉.
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Posted: 7 years ago
hello Tinu
thanks for coming to,have a chat with us,you are sweetest friend any girl would wish for😃

how are you and how is life after a new member in family with whom you had such close bonding?😊

And how is your brother,has he changed post marriage?😳

and hey what about the Dinesh thing,something brewing???😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
@katheriene


Hello!

Life is going very very actively!
Mostly with my new friend than my all time friend as we are planning to go on our own business plan.

And time with Sukor are only between them as I become invisible when we are just 3 of us or 4 with Dinesh, so nothing to say but when Mom and Dad are there, she is the all time favorite bahu and he, the leg pulling master for me.
Let's leave that sad story of mine else you will become mad hearing it my new friend.

A tricky question it is, so taking time to think!

>> Did you give any hint to Suraj about Chakor's feelings?

Hmmm I didn't really give any hints to him as I promised to my deary but there is a lot of possibilities that he got to feel it as we are twins!
Sometimes he get to feel my pain and me his and that was a kind of way that I got to know that he was feeling really really sad when we went to our trip.
And as I followed his movements so closely, I got to see that he was behind my bff so often and there was something special that he has for her, so I kidnapped his friend the night when I got the chance and got to know what my bro is feeling.
You might ask why I didn't ask him directly, if I asked him and if he said he loves Chakor, I would have hugged him and cried that she is all yours only and Chakor would have killed me that instant itself, so this was the safest way for me to proceed and I'm happy that everything worked.

Did you get me?
You should by now as your are my friend!
And for that reason, I have a question for you!
What do you like in me?
With your reply I will get to know if you are really here to be my friend or just to be in contact with Mr. HanddySomme's sister as most of the people do!
So will be waiting waiting!

- Tinu
Edited by maithu_ - 7 years ago

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