Saumya's Physical Trauma Vs Harman's Emotional Trauma

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Last 2 episodes were quite torturous fillers for me with nonstop sufferings of HaYa whether its Saumya burning her hand under Preeto's orders or Harman pouring his emotions out in drunk state while the evils like Preeto continue to hv the last laugh

Problem with our creatives is they always start a track on a good note but then drag it such extremes that it becomes difficult for viewers to even watch it ...Same is happening with this HaYa MU track once the likes of Preeto and Surbhi started getting involved in it 😒

Yesterday I noticed there r 2 different opinions on twitter when it comes to Harman and Saumya's pain in this track ..

One set of fans feel Harman is suffering the most as Saumya is not ready to understand or trust his love despite Harman doing so much for her ..Another set of fans feel Saumya is suffering the most as she is hurting herself physically just to go away from Harman for his happiness , so that he can live with his family ..

I always try to see both sides of the coin and this is my opinion on whose pain is more in this track ..

Without being bias , I feel more than Saumya ,its Harman who is suffering the most as emotional trauma is always more dangerous than physical pain ...Right now Harman is actually going through emotional trauma after getting nonstop rejections and accusations from his wife and the worst part is unlike Saumya , here Harman has noone with whom he can share his pain because obviously he cannot pour his heart out to the likes of Preeto or Harak or Varun who r all his enemies whereas Saumya can still talk to the likes of Saya or Surbhi or Nani whenever she feels emotional , something that Harman cannot do because the only person with whom he used to share his emotions has turned against him today thus leaving him all alone in the crowd 😭 ; No wonder every night he is getting drunk and talking to his own self to release his inner pain 😭, it can actually damage his liver too ; Even yesterday he got drunk and told himself that it will b his biggest defeat and will feel completely letdown by himself if Saumya gets hurt and at the same time we actually see Saumya hurting herself by putting her hand in boiling water ...Though it was painful to watch both in pain , but the scene did leave an impact especially how CVs played it in parallel with Harman's self talks about his biggest fear and Saumya turning his biggest fear into reality by hurting herself ..


This is where I feel more bad for Harman because in the last scene he completely freaked out when he sees Saumya's burnt hand and when he finds out that she burnt her hand so that he could not tie her up and if needed she can even cut her own hand just to get rid of him , he was left speechless and in complete shock as his silent expression in the end said it all when he saw that extreme aggression in Saumya's eyes against him 😭 .. So in a way Saumya ended up blaming Harman for the cause of her pain and this is where I feel Harman is suffering more emotional trauma than Saumya here as he is made to believe that she is suffering all the pain because of his force when in reality we all know its Preeto who actually asked Saumya to go through this pain but of course Harman wont know that and will blame himself further for Saumya's pain which is resulting in his mental and emotional breakdown which I feel is more dangerous than physical pain ...



As soon as Harman sees Saumya's burnt hand , he rushed to get oinment for her and was in complete panicdriven state , he even guessed that Preeto could b behind it but Saumya once again brutally rejected his concern by refusing to take the oinment and directly blamed him for his miseries thus letting Preeto go scotfree again ; This is another reason why I m not able to feel much for Saumya because she is actually letting the evil win over the good by constantly safeguarding Preeto's deeds


Its not like I dont feel for Saumya at all .. In fact I really felt bad for her when she was reeling in pain after burning her hands and was all alone in the hall when that idiot Ballu was letching for her secretly 😡🤢 ; But my main problem here is Saumya's decisions r not her own when few episodes back she made it clear to Preeto that she wants to leave Harman for her ownself and not for anyone else .. Where did that Saumya vanish then ?? Whatever actions Saumya take to push Harman away from her , should b her own decision but instead I can see Preeto's influence all over Saumya ; From sleeping separately in couch to burning her hand , not a single decision here is being taken by Saumya but its all Preeto's evil brainwave ..right ? 🤔 ..This is where I keep asking "Why Saumya why" ? I dont mind her doing extreme things to make Harman hate her as long as its her own decision to do so like she decided he will pay her for everything which was her own decision and so not once I questioned it but when Preeto is taking all the decisions for her and she is simply following it like a mute doll , I hv a problem ..


Can CVs avoid showing such inhuman stuffs like two aged people HarPreet r waiting in their room to hear their Bahu's screams after she burn her hand just for sadistic pleasure 🤢 ; Thank God Saumya dint scream and gave that sadistic pleasure to HarPreet but I would hv loved it if she refused to put her hand in boiling water either under Preeto's orders ; I really cannot buy the excuse of she is doing it for Harman's happiness because nowhere he will b happy seeing her in pain and Saumya hv seen it in trio track itself that he can never b happy with any other girl , so if she believe by doing all this , she will give future happiness to Harman , then she is being delusional here especially after she already tried doing that in trio track .. So I would like to believe that she is doing it for her identity only but then if she is doing it for her identity , then she should start taking her own decisions and not be forever dependent on Preeto ... What Saumya doing right now by hurting herself is actually suicidal and one can never sympathise with the ones who commit suicide without thinking about their loved ones , its a selfish act in my opinion 🤔 .. So all I want here is Saumya should stop blindly following Preeto if CVs really want the general viewers to feel for Saumya's pain too .. Let her hv a mind of her own if this is her fight for her identity

Harman can tolerate anything but cannot see Saumya in pain or Saumya hurting herself .. So this is where I see Harman slowly breaking down and finally giving up on Saumya so that she stops hurting herself .. Again I feel Harman here will suffer the most because Saumya can still cry her heart out in Saya's arms , but in whose arms Harman will cry his heart out after loosing his wife ?? ...One small blunder Harman too did I feel , that is he dint try enough to actually clear this misunderstanding 🤔 .. Here also I wont buy the excuse that he did try to tell her but she dint listen because he had ample time to tell her at nightime when he used to tie up her hand whole night..isn't it 😆...But CVs will not think practically like me because they want to drag this MU more , so obviously they will make it look like Harman tried but she is not ready to listen but if I see practically then he just hv to say I saw a kinner dieing in my arms that day , and bas MU over 😆...Even then I feel Harman is suffering the most here since the time he saw that kinner's death followed by Saumya going away from him and still continues to misunderstand him .. So he has been in that emotional trauma for quite longtime which is not really good for anyone's health I feel 🤔

HaYa office scene was cute one but I feel it got spoilt by overdose of dupes again as Saumya was feeding to Harman's dupe and Harman was eating from Saumya's dupe's hand 😆 ..So impact of the scene itself was lost there ; I m really tired of telling now that please dont use dupes for HaYa moments but looks like its falling to deaf ears 🥱 ; Saumya showed her little concern for Harman here when he starts coughing and she panicks , even gives him water and pats his back 😳 , but Dupes spoiled the complete moment for me ; Hardly we get such moments where Saumya's hidden love and concern for Harman comes out and when we get such scenes , dupes spoil it 😆 ; Also CVs will never move beyond food romance I guess 😆 ; I know in office u cannot show anything more but still I wish CVs b a little more creative while writing HaYa scenes 😳


HarPreet taking help of Ballu's father to buy kinner house and make all kinners homeless might b build up for future track as Preeto might use this to blackmail Saumya by telling her to leave Harman if she wants kinner house back 🤔 ; So this explains why Saumya will again leave Harman and even go to the extent of threatening him to consume poison if he dont let her go which will result in Harman finally letting her go as per SBS Segment .. Its good in a way that he finally lets her go , at least she will stop hurting herself now ...

From precap looks like finally this Harman and Surbhi divorce chapter will b closed as Harman himself might take panchayat's help to declare the truth in front of all.. pheww small mercy 😆


Overall I could not really enjoy any of the last 2 episodes mainly because of Preeto dominating and calling the shots for Saumya again and as usual HaYa's never ending sufferings as CVs plan to drag this MU more
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Jyoti.
Good to read ur take. The office screen is as usual spoiled by the dupes 🤢
Sad to see haya in pain and I too feel Harman is the who is suffering more than soumya. He is all alone with no one to share his pain with except that sharaab 😭. This will eventually make him break down.
Hope Harman end this varbhi mrg drama soon .
Ballu is such a ungrateful creep😡
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Amazing analysis jyoti❤️
preetoo & harak were disgusting in yest episode
and soumya is really brainless to follow her blindly 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Amazing analysis as usual Jyoti...Hatts off to you for
your time and patience in bringing out opinion of
both sides...Yes...I totally agree...here...inspite of
Saumya's physical pain...which is no less...
Harman's pain is greater...he has no one to
confide in ...no one he can trust...and he
continues to get refuge in that bottle...a pity...
and still find strength to fight on for the love of his
life...inspite of constant and continual rejecteion
from her...and to see the extent she can go to...
to actually willingly burn her hands was the
worst slap for him...

As regards Saumya listening to Preeto...is the
biggest drawback of Saumya from the very
start...Cannot wait for her redemption now...


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I will mention 3 points which r disturbing me in this track...😃


I totally agree wid u on this that they start off good but then by the time the track comes to an end they turn it on to a khichdi wid no head & tail exactly my thoughts ! 😉 & It started of well wid Harman buying saumya & bring her back home as her ghulaam wat spoiled the track is unnecessary interference of preeto which wasn't necessary 😕 & it's totally illogical if u see from viewers POV 😵

Look Harman bids the highest on saumya & buys her brings her as ghulaam & he keeps this condition that he will free her only if she pays him back the 20 lakhs which he spend on her...Ohk alright , she agreed & the tashan track started off really well wid Harman being all cold towards saumya & getting things done wid a bossy attitude till then I was liking but then they turned Harman soft during anniversary time I felt after anniversary he"ll be back to his Malik mode but he didn't return to that mode after that...Which is why I'm unable to relate wid Harman also nowadays coz he keeps switching sometimes he's cold , sometimes not 🤔 I don't like the way they keep changing his character as per their convenience no matter if viewers r loosing connect wid the character they don't seem to bother lol 😃


Secondly I didn't get how saumya started dancing to preeto's tunes ? & became her puppet even this is not making sense & viewers r not fools they can easily understand that writers r just forcing preeto on this track...I was finding it more logical when saumya was doing things for her ownself & not preeto , then why r they portraying it that she's preeto's puppet ? It would've made more sense if she fought for her identity & people would relate more to saumya but they it spoiled it by showing her as preeto's puppet coz she says she's doing it for Harman but it doesn't appear like that...Shes contradicting her own words here Coz she's blindly following her orders...& Even gives her bedroom details to preeto which is gross 🤢 & again it's reminding me of the trio track which was the worst till date...😡


Lastly why is saumya selective abt people ?????? She said she doesn't want to maintain any relations wid anyone right ?😕

But then why she pleaded to preeto for surbhi's married life ? So it means that applies only to Harman & for the rest of the family she will fullfil her duties ...😳 If she doesn't want any relations wid anyone then she shouldn't fulfill any duties as a sister also...Why is she making only Harman suffer ? I don't get it...🤪 neither it seems logical to me...Isn't she contradicting her own words ? If she only sticked to her words & had same attitude towards everyone including harman ,then I would've understood her but here she's contradicting her own words which is looking illogical again 👎🏼


Thats my rant lol...On this whole khichdi they've made in the last 2 months 🤣 hope I didn't bore u wid it...😆
Edited by Naazu695 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naazu695

I will mention 3 points which r disturbing me in this track...😃


I totally agree wid u on this that they start off good but then by the time the track comes to an end they turn it on to a khichdi wid no head & tail exactly my thoughts ! 😉 & It started of well wid Harman buying saumya & bring her back home as her ghulaam wat spoiled the track is unnecessary interference of preeto which wasn't necessary 😕 & it's totally illogical if u see from viewers POV 😵

Look Harman bids the highest on saumya & buys her brings her as ghulaam & he keeps this condition that he will free her only if she pays him back the 20 lakhs which he spend on her...Ohk alright , she agreed & the tashan track started off really well wid Harman being all cold towards saumya & getting things done wid a bossy attitude till then I was liking but then they turned Harman soft during anniversary time I felt after anniversary he"ll be back to his Malik mode but he didn't return to that mode after that...Which is why I'm unable to relate wid Harman also nowadays coz he keeps switching sometimes he's cold , sometimes not 🤔 I don't like the way they keep changing his character as per their convenience no matter if viewers r loosing connect wid the character they don't seem to bother lol 😃


Secondly I didn't get how saumya started dancing to preeto's tunes ? & became her puppet even this is not making sense & viewers r not fools they can easily understand that writers r just forcing preeto on this track...I was finding it more logical when saumya was doing things for her ownself & not preeto , then why r they portraying it that she's preeto's puppet ? It would've made more sense if she fought for her identity & people would relate more to saumya but they it spoiled it by showing her as preeto's puppet coz she says she's doing it for Harman but it doesn't appear like that...Shes contradicting her own words here Coz she's blindly following her orders...& Even gives her bedroom details to preeto which is gross 🤢 & again it's reminding me of the trio track which was the worst till date...😡


Lastly why is saumya selective abt people ?????? She said she doesn't want to maintain any relations wid anyone right ?😕

But then why she pleaded to preeto for surbhi's married life ? So it means that applies only to Harman & for the rest of the family she will fullfil her duties ...😳 If she doesn't want any relations wid anyone then she shouldn't fulfill any duties as a sister also...Why is she making only Harman suffer ? I don't get it...🤪 neither it seems logical to me...Isn't she contradicting her own words ? If she only sticked to her words & had same attitude towards everyone including harman ,then I would've understood her but here she's contradicting her own words which is looking illogical again 👎🏼


Thats my rant lol...On this whole khichdi they've made in the last 2 months 🤣 hope I didn't bore u wid it...😆

Well pointed .I completely agree with you.people forgot completely the soumya 's pain or her journey in the show now ,as shakti has became the story of harman's pain and journey.Despite of being humiliated ,tortured by everyone in harak house ,soumya character is the most hated character in this track bec she always overlooked their humiliations and covered their crimes in front of harman. She has been always preeto's puppet.she will ever be. she blames only harman for everything,i dont know how is harman responsible for varbhi marriage or harbhi divorce,she only forced harman to get married to surbhi,did she take pachayats permission for that? did they take panchayats permission for varbhi marriage? then why do they want harman or pachayats to declare their divorce or varbhi marriage? .
I would have appreciated soumya ,if she had stood for her dignity ,self respect and slapped balwinder for molesting her instead she chose to hurt harman by her words who is beating balwinder. This is where we lost emotional connection with soumya character and started disliking her.Writers made it look like its harman's one sided love.Honestly soumya never loved harman as much he does .Her love always came with a condition,it always her kasam,her sacrifices,her wishes,her feelings.How abt harman's wishes and his feelings ? she never bothered abt his feelings as much she does for her choti.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Brilliant post and analysis jyothi. Thank you so much for this unbiased take,
you just echoed lots of viewers thoughts.
Couldn't agree more than this .
Thankfully,i am not watching this ridiculous and painful episodes as it is getting worse day by day.
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Hmm.. so the question is who is suffering more n what is actual reason behind saumya's behaviour... ok..let me put my pov on these issues...

Well both harman n saumya r suffering n I can feel for both very well...in fact they even made me cry in this episode. In this whole track of saumya trying to make harman hate her, saumya is having a plus point i.e. she knows very well that harman loves her so much so she knows that she is not hurting him by hurting him only but she even hurt him by hurting herself. She knows that these situations are painful for both of them. But somewhere harman has not this plus point, though his heart knows that saumya loves him n he even knows that saumya herself is confused what she actually wants but saumya's continuous rejections, her harsh words n some extreme actions like selling herself just to go away from him n now this burning hand just to be away from harman are putting doubts in harman's mind that saumya is actually not happy with him n she really wants to go away from him.. n here this thought is suffocating him that whom she loved more than his life will be happy to live without him n so finally he will free her when she will take another extreme action by threatening him of taking poison.

Now coming to second question, well in my opinion, it's neither for harman's future nor for her identity... I think she has made up her mind that there can be no future of her relationship with harman n so doesn't matter how much it will hurt them, they just have to part away...n I agree this point came in her mind by preeto's words n alongwith her I think everyone played their part by continuous taunts to her n harman, harpreet's melodrama all the time that how saumya has snatched their son, kinner's taunt also on haya relationship...so I think more than harman's love she saw everyone's problems with haya relationship. N that's why I feel that even if saumya will come to know the reason of harman's denial n that kinner death issue then also I don't feel she will come back..yeah she will regret that she think something else but I don't think she will run behind harman as u all people wants.. I think when something drastic will happen to harman n when she will get the point loud n clear that without her harman will actually die...then only she will decide to never ever leave him.

N yeah.. these cv must stop showing these inhuman things n plzzz no more bd in haya scenes.
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Originally posted by: LuvRUBI

Hmm.. so the question is who is suffering more n what is actual reason behind saumya's behaviour... ok..let me put my pov on these issues...

Well both harman n saumya r suffering n I can feel for both very well...in fact they even made me cry in this episode. In this whole track of saumya trying to make harman hate her, saumya is having a plus point i.e. she knows very well that harman loves her so much so she knows that she is not hurting him by hurting him only but she even hurt him by hurting herself. She knows that these situations are painful for both of them. But somewhere harman has not this plus point, though his heart knows that saumya loves him n he even knows that saumya herself is confused what she actually wants but saumya's continuous rejections, her harsh words n some extreme actions like selling herself just to go away from him n now this burning hand just to be away from harman are putting doubts in harman's mind that saumya is actually not happy with him n she really wants to go away from him.. n here this thought is suffocating him that whom she loved more than his life will be happy to live without him n so finally he will free her when she will take another extreme action by threatening him of taking poison.

Now coming to second question, well in my opinion, it's neither for harman's future nor for her identity... I think she has made up her mind that there can be no future of her relationship with harman n so doesn't matter how much it will hurt them, they just have to part away...n I agree this point came in her mind by preeto's words n alongwith her I think everyone played their part by continuous taunts to her n harman, harpreet's melodrama all the time that how saumya has snatched their son, kinner's taunt also on haya relationship...so I think more than harman's love she saw everyone's problems with haya relationship. N that's why I feel that even if saumya will come to know the reason of harman's denial n that kinner death issue then also I don't feel she will come back..yeah she will regret that she think something else but I don't think she will run behind harman as u all people wants.. I think when something drastic will happen to harman n when she will get the point loud n clear that without her harman will actually die...then only she will decide to never ever leave him.

N yeah.. these cv must stop showing these inhuman things n plzzz no more bd in haya scenes.

I don't find it relatable if she thinks she doesn't have any future wid Harman coz then it will look like whatever Harman did & has been doing for her since the beginning including accepting her, loving her & fighting for her & going against his parents & society doesn't mean anything to her...& it will completely go off track coz the show itself is abt Harman breaking stereotypes & going against society so that doesn't make sense here 😕 & thats why I can't relate to saumya's character...& Why can't she see Harman's pain logically she should only care abt wat Harman feels not the whole khandaan but instead she think abt everyone except Harman it's totally opposite 😳

& I agree wid u...That saumya might not return even after knowing the truth so some major drama might happen to make her realise his worth, Now only coming to know the truth won't change any thing, So I think something wil lead to Harman getting shot & saumya comes to know the truth at the same time leading to HaYa reunion & As he said earlier too during the kinnar track that if needed he will take bullet for saumya too...So there's a possibility of this happening & it should happen coz thats the best way ofaking her realize his worth when she will experience the fear of loosing him which she never did earlier...& It better be this only 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naazu695

I don't find it relatable if she thinks she doesn't have any future wid Harman coz then it will look like whatever Harman did & has been doing for her since the beginning including accepting her, loving her & fighting for her & going against his parents & society doesn't mean anything to her...& it will completely go off track coz the show itself is abt Harman breaking stereotypes & going against society so that doesn't make sense here😕& thats why I can't relate to saumya's character...& Why can't she see Harman's pain logically she should only care abt wat Harman feels not the whole khandaan but instead she think abt everyone except Harman it's totally opposite😳

& I agree wid u...That saumya might not return even after knowing the truth so some major drama might happen to make her realise his worth, Now only coming to know the truth won't change any thing, So I think something wil lead to Harman getting shot & saumya comes to know the truth at the same time leading to HaYa reunion & As he said earlier too during the kinnar track that if needed he will take bullet for saumya too...So there's a possibility of this happening & it should happen coz thats the best way ofaking her realize his worth when she will experience the fear of loosing him which she never did earlier...& It better be this only😆

Well.. this point I saw in the show only.. saumya herself said once that their relationship has no future. All the peoples around saumya icluding her darling sis has only made her realise this thing only that haya's relationship is not only harmful for the whole family but for haya also... so in this negative atmosphere how can she develop a complete opposite idea from all that no.. she can lead a happy life with harman...n nobody will be affected with their relationship in negative way.

I know shakti is about breaking stereotypes by showing how haya relationship will work against all odds... but for that first saumya need to gain the confidence in harman n his love so that she can stand strongly against all those who will taunt her for ruining a normal man's life as she is a kinner so she don't deserve marital relationship. These kinds of people n situations will keep coming on her way n to fight with them first she needed to be confident that the man with whom she is living loves her so much that without her he will die... I know everyone wants saumya to prove her love for harman but how can she when she is still in doubts about harman's love as she think that harman's love is not strong enough to accept her with her real identity n somewhere she started feeling that there are some doubts in his mind for their relationship. First she need to know that what she actually meant for harman which I guess we audience know know very well but saumya is still unaware that to what extent harman can go for her. The day she will get this point loud n clear she will stop running away from him n then only she will start taking a stand for him n for their relationship n thereafter this show's actual message will be delivered.

Harman is normal.. he is strong enough to fight for his love but saumya has to go a long way to come to the point where she will stand equally with harman for their relationship. She has to get so many things like kinners are no different n this society has no right to separate them, a parent should not be affected by the fact that their child is either a boy girl or a kinner, she n harman can live happily together n their relationship will never get affected by her identity, children are not needed to make any marriage successful, harpreet can also live happily with a kinner dil as their son is happy etc etc...
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