She is better than me. I didnt had the courage

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Posted: 7 years ago
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This line defined today's episode. To bring about change you need courage. To challenge the norms of patriarichy you need courage. Many woman in our society has power just like Satrupa still they stick to the image society set for them. Even now to the most successful woman CEO or any other woman the question asked is how is she balancing home and work. Do we ask the same question to males. If a female actress get married from next month every paparrazi and tabliod will be discussing when she is starting a family.
Individuality of a woman is getting respected only these days. Her right to decide whether she needs to marry, whether she should have child etc is only getting discussed now. Very recently people are looking at ladies outside the prism of wife and mother and as an individual.

So Satrupa's words carried a lot of weight. Yes she had power, still she was within the system. She didnt change the system. Even in a marriage that didnt had much love, she stood by it. But Anami is a girl who will go any extend for her principles and values. She withstood hunger which is very difficult for someone to withstand.Even in FB Madhoo says Anami cannot withstand hunger. But Anami withstood, she withstood hunger for her principles drinking only water.
But then she might have to break it as I feel Dadi will make her do it. Today she told dadi dont do unnecessary zidh which is harmful for her health. She told dadi is taking ice cream and eating stealthily. But she herself came to take water and not taking food for long will not help anyone. Anami showed she is a woman of grit and at this point it is enough.

When hunger is getting discussed it was good to know Adhiraj has a bitter past with Lal Mahal. A past his sister dont want to hear in the family. Their mother is no there. So feel the past is connected with their mother. As someone said is Adhiraj's mother Baldev's sister, or it is something else.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Efforts and courage are not enough without purpose and direction.
-John F. Kennedy

Yes Anami is better than Satrupa. The reason is simple. She is the next generation of Satrupa. Every generation is better than the one before.

In her mind she does not have anything to lose. She has been raised by the set of parents that believed in giving wings to their child. They have taught her that do not bow to wrong. Anami has been fighting goons from day 1. She was appreciated for that effort of her. If you remember when she came back fighting those goons her parents were worried yet proud of her. None of them told her otherwise.
They raised a courageous kid against the norm of the society.

Once her vision will be clear Satrupa will give her the purpose and direction to get back that paghdi of lal mahal. Till then we just have to wait what will both ploy against each other.

The scene with pagli panditayan was very touchy scene. The love and care with which she has been raised is worth of all the praise. 👏

Adhiraaj and his family is a mystery so is Narottam. The guy is really a wild card.
I loved how dadi remembered Vatsalya just by Anami's touch. The makers are slowly giving the other characters too a doubt.
Shouldn't they all be going for DNA test instead of all the babal they are doing at haveli?

PS - Just realized its the second day in row. Our timings match. Its a pleasure to read and comment on your post😃
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@Bhavi the biggest plus of Anami is her upbringing away from Lal Mahal where as a lady she didnt had to maintain social etiquette. Murari and Madhoo bought her up without any gender bias giving her same freedom of choices they will give her son. Yes the scene between her and Pandithayan was touching. Madhoo telling she will go to doctor 😆. Actually it so reminded me of my teenage days as I also loved bhookh harthals till my uncle found some way to break it 😆😆
I watch the show next day morning in hotstar while travelling to office as the timing makes it difficult to catch it on tv, and mostly put the analysis along with that.

Narotham at times gives me a lot of creepy vibes to be frank, but then I dont want to completely distrust him either. But that scene was symbolic today. It was night. Anami goes inside and Narotham comes outside. Will Anami's coming inside Lal Mahal make Narotham go and then will he create issues.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Excellent review of the episode by you, Shruthi! 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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amazing review
I love reading your analysis for each epi
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thanks Sweta, thank you devil_heart, by the way I love the Teddy in your DP. It's so cute 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shruthiravi

Good to see you here. Have been a constant on your posts in the other forums too, including EHT, and needless to say that I love your posts.

Fabulous review for a very riveting and progressive show in its own might. The fight for power and acceptance between Satrupa and Baldev along with the ego clashes makes up for a refreshing watch and the way Satrupa is one step ahead is indeed applaud worthy.

Anami on her part will do what Vatsalya had started and bridge the gap between Satrupa and Baldev, being an able ally to Baldev.

And Adhiraj is gonna be the game changer between Satrupa and Anami.
indeed, a riveting show.
Edited by Ecrivain. - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Lovely post ... I look forward to your analyses every day.
That sentence caught my attention too... Anami is even more courageous than Satrupa, according to Satrupa. Satrupa wears a mask with Anami ... she does not let her true feelings show, as she knows Anami will seize on any sign of weakness to fight her. So she fuels Anami's hatred for her, as it serves to make Anami stronger for the real fight ahead.

Satrupa did get power within the family, despite being the daughter-in-law ... but see how tenuous her position is .. as she is not 'part of the family' ... i.e. not related by blood. Baldev and Pujan, although they have done nothing to earn the right, except merely be born into the family, have the right to throw her out ... for a supposed mistake she has committed. Anami will have that advantage ... of being related by blood, once that is proven ... but she will have all the other disadvantages of being a woman.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Ecrivan yes it is a very progressive show and till now it has not shied away from questioning the ethos
@Diya yes, the fact that Satrupa was given power was she could be disrobed of power at any time as she was not beti of the family but bahu.

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