shivaay's cold shoulder bang on and how I see Anika!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Shivay is doing what i would have liked anikha to do..after the forced marriage. .stand for oneself... he get it she had a reason but what she did broke him ..hurt him and he wants answers why ..he accepted what he feelas ..he knows what she feels but how can ge just forget ..anyone would want an proper explanation. .

Lets go back to the begining of this relationship seriously there was no justification for his cruel actions. .but she any way forgave him and just totally killed her selfrespect... she saw someting and understood his actions which were wrong but she judt let it be..eventually he did realised and gave anikha what she diserved. .respect. .trust love ..family. ..there were still many things they had to work on. ... but he taked and never lied and said yes nkk is his weekness but he'll fight. .they were building a life. .and were filling it with happy Ness..there were still lots of things to do .lots to say..he knew he was wrong the foundation of this marriage was wrong. .he tryed to change that. .he was finally happy. .and bam she broke everything. .

Blind trust.?? No he doesn't have that yet. .did anikha trust him enough everytime ..yes she has always supported him..but she had her share of doubts too.. she was never sure about anything she just thought this is frindship and one day he'll leave her for her status . she always had this low self esteem about her self...even after everything she still could not fully trust him enough ..

Sacrifice. .pls that was very coward of her to just give in and do what pinky wanted

Remember how during daksh. .shivay was also in kinda same position. .wether to choose anikha or his sis and family reputation. .but be did not give in ..he fought he took a risk there was still chance he could fail he tryed his best .. if shivay would have done what daksh wanted would u guys have wanted anikha to just forget and be with him have blind trust and start a new life .. no right ??

..now I m not saying he is perfect. .yes he is a stuped egoistic man... .he was cruel. .but he tryed to change and be better . .it's not like he clamed to be some Prince charming. .rem the conversation he had with her ..that they will discuss everything and work in this relationship together. .not let things come in between. . excepted his weekness .. but did she..never ..and i don't blame her her past is tragic and the way they got together and all his blames it's not easy ..and he never said it will be easy he told her to give him time he'll be her shivay. .she still had her insecurities always thought somehow low about herself..in this relationship. .and never shared her internal conflicts with him..he also took things for granted. . He finally though he'll make a start he wanted a new life with the girl who stole his heart. .this was there relationship his and her and she broke it..and omru were big idiots to support this..Sepration happened. .anikha comes back ..gives speech I'll be biwi no 1 ..omru says well make everything ok ..but did they no they just taked and played stuped games.. anikha totally just lost it..she literally confessed she was wrong. .playing games farak..engaged drama is wrong. .she knows how he feels..and said she'll tell him..her tadi is wrong. .but as he came back brought the guy gave a lil cold sholder back to square one...and shadi drama on again..people are like he is pushing her he ... like how?? Ok don't tell him pinks truth ..but it's not like he is making her marry on.gun point. .what's the point of even showing i have moved on and repeatedly throwing it in his face.. atleast she can tell him i can't tell u the truth why i did what i did. Its hard we get it

..but atles after realising and confessing all the drama is wrong stop it tell him alteast u r not really engaged. . He can't force her ..to marry like dude he knows enough to understand u had a reason so if u can't give him the truth..atleast spare him from your i moved on have a new rich fianc ..crap .. which u started. . . stop playing games and after saying i admit my tadi is wrong..come back to showing tadi and be a hypocrite. ..

Edited by shinelove - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago

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@itsmyattitude,fary,blackorwhite&shinelove: thankyou so much for dropping by and writing those very valid and to the point things and also very sensible yes sensible is the word because all the examples you folks have given are being very conveniently ignored in order to justify the wrong doings of a person in name of sacrifice.

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itzMYattitude

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: angel_nonu

Just for saying that why are you giving 50% to your siblings when it is your hardwork and your siblings are not interested in it, you throw your wife out? really? not pushing her but he let the thing go under the carpet and they were pretty normal aterwards thats what my point was
blind trust means you trust her words enough. What did he do in NT matter? since she took pinky name he sent NT off why? why didn't he wanted to know culprit with NT further when annika took pinky name.
i assume he send her becoz the whole matter was dragged he wasn't interested in knowing the truth anymore and it was affecting his relationship with anika.

If annika pointed finger on pinky and he thought it is a MU then he should have found the culprit who was with NT and then should have clear annika's MU. he saw video and asked annika to explain what she was doing there ans when she started saying that she was following pinky he shut her up to say sorry in private. After pinky=annika scene he went pass her by totally avoiding her, this is called blind trust? she insulted his family for one day and all his blind trust went through the window? he didn't even think once after that incidents that there could be some reason. Even after she was in OM now, He lectured OmRu how they can't be together and wasn't even ready to think about why she did this. but now since tia split it out so he is thinking of it now.

I am not at all saying that he is wrong in finding truth but their relation did not broke only because annika doesn't had full trust on her but bcoz he also doesnt had specially when it came with respect to his family. When OmRu could figure out and push her to tell the reason of her asking about shares why couldn't he?
he is doing the very thing in his own SSO style. The only difference it anika wasn't hesitant to break the news to omru but she is when it comes to shivaay

I am also sleepy and sorry If my reply got it like shivaay vs annika but I didn't intent it to. my point was only that annika is right at her point and so did shivaay. they are fighting their inner demons.
and mainly my intent for reply was to the title 😆 I too liked what he said in room but i would have loved it if he would have said it when he walked in and annika told her heart out to him but all he has done is to bring viks
Infact for once I want to see how shivaay actually reacts to truth and hope HS doesn't make mockery out of it
i dont know i can be wrong but i think this is pinky's drama shivaay is still very much her own son. Pinky just wanted anika to leave shivaay and so she has done that but may be m wrong but i still want to think this way 😆

see i have a n entirely different idea about this relationship. Shivaay and anika were two entirely different characters. When the show started anika was projected as an angel and shivaay as a devil right? So as a journey from hatred to love shivaay had way more obstacles in his way than anika. To accept anika he has to go through alot of stuff keeping in view his character from episode 1.

Shivaay use to choose his brain in a heart vs. brain game. U cant find and understand love this way. He changed his whole concept just to have some place in his life for anika. A person whose obsessed with NKK, shown alot of flexibility in his character just for her. As a person its not easy to go away from ur basic nature. HE DID. But when he started changing (the very initial level) - choosing ur heart means continuous nagging in ur brain that u r wrong, dont do this. That was the reason all the mistakes (or sins whatever u want to call them) happened like daksh MU (and he even confessed in that scene that he was trying to trust her). Because his brain somehow said see thats what i was saying u fool, u follow ur heart and now ready to get shattered. He after sometimes start realizing his mistakes and started overcoming them (may be way too slow in that but he did).

Anika on the other hand was girl who was deprived of any love in her entire life, going through alot. But at the end what she wanted was a shivaay of her life. People said have some self respect and leave him blah blah. But for me she knew shivaay way more than that. She knew the inner turmoil he was been through.

So for me in this journey shivaay was the one taking 180 degree turn when it comes to his character.

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So coming to the current track what hurt me the most was the fact the whole journey of shivaay (that i have stated above 😆) came down crumbling because of one wrong decision of anika, omru and family involved in that drama. U nullify the whole battle of him just by one act of urs yr. They should have used there brains before doing that That truth wouldn't have hurt way more than what shivaay's going through right now. once again shivaay's brain wins over his heart And his very own family wasn't able to understand him that hurts way more than it should. I wanted them to back him in his journey, he was changing for good, it will take time (that anik, omru and audience never want to give). but instead everyone's like in testing mode he changed 100% or not. Thats not an overnight process. So judge him that he is still 20% wrong forgetting that he improved 80%.

Anika on the other hand has no clue right now what she wants?

She left OM, both have separate ways living there lives. Noted

Then she came back knowing shivaay's not same anymore (i dont know what else she was expecting) "only to bring his tadi back". Shivaay's tadi is back by some foolish way she thought will work and she started living there? WHY?

Now when shivaay is marrying someone else she's like dont. Y? U dont want to come in his life and u dont want to let him live with someone else? what exactly she wants? To live under the same roof without any proper relationship for the rest of the life?

Then all of a sudden she told him the truth saying we will fight it together and m with u in this shit

Next morning she again changed her mind and wanted shivaay to be in relationship without ever knowing the truth?

So many U turns just in a span of 20 episodes? I want anika to first sit peacefully and make up her mind EXACTLY what she wants. I love shivika but this unjustified act? M sorry i dont know how people are relating and defending this its beyond my understanding.

M really bad with words so dont know was able to explain or not but i tried 😛

Edited by itzMYattitude - 8 years ago