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I joined this forum just to comment on posts.. never thought that I will write a post explaining anything. But then if everyone is showing their anger n hatred so openly that they even don't hesitate to bash Rubi by tagging her just bcs they found her character wrong then allow me also to pen down my thoughts. I thought to write this post yesterday but then saw last night's episode n thought now everything is explained but alas some are never going to understand anything but still I am writing this...
Saumya's every relationship demanded some compromise bcs of her identity. Nimmi saved saumya n kept her with herself but how.. confined in four walls with no knowledge of outside world n not even about her real identity. She had also accepted that 21 days challenge of saya. Maninder is saumya's father n I think he also love her but in his opinion he prefer to kill saumya or send her to kinner world bcs he think this is d only solution for making her life easy. Remember his dialogue when he was sending saumya with saya before 21 days that this world is devil for her n she will be tortured here only. Surbhi also shows her love for saumya but when time demanded to take a stand for saumya's rights she end up snatching her every right of a wife n dil n even forced her to suicide. Nani love saumya but she made surbhi more great even after destroying saumya's life as she also think saumya is not worthy to have these relationships. Saya love saumya but she just want her to keep her in kinners world as this only thing she learned from society that saumya can only live there peacefully n her mindset will never let her believe harman fully. Saumya's all these relationships claim to love her but they demanded compromise to love her bcs of her identity crisis. But these relationships are not choosen by her n nor they have to face any challenge in order to accept saumya in fact if nimmi mannu wanted they could have made saumya's life more beautiful but they choose to leave her daughter in hell just bcs of societal rules.
But but but... a normal man like harman if chooses to love a kinner n marry her n stay with her then his life itself became a challenge. His needs , his parents wishes, his society status everything comes on stake. N if there is even 1% doubt in his mind regarding his relationship with a kinner then he should end it as this doubt will one day or other is going to end everything only so better do it in time. By saying that harman loving saumya only bcs she is beautiful n things have been changed with time n by refusing to accept her with her real identity for which he was alwz ready, harman unknowingly expressed his doubts only which lead saumya to decide that this relationship is meant to be broken only. We audience know what saumya meant for harman n infact preeto n saumya n even others know that harman loves saumya but everyone is putting harman in the list of ordinary men n thinking that his love is just a matter of time n it will flew away in air later as how can a man live his entire life with a kinner. In real world also falling in love with someone is not a big deal. They fel in love, get heartbreak, then forget n just move on. This is the story we saw everywhere n it's so common. Preeto knows harman love saumya madly but she still arises questions like after sometime he will think of his heir n then he will marry someone else, he is loving saumya bcs of her beauty only, if saumya will break his heart then he will leave her etc etc. N these questions are right also as any normal man will do this only. Surbhi also chose to marry harman even after knowing that he love saumya bcs she also thought that loving a kinner doesn't mean that he will not accept a normal woman as his wife. She was also thinking his love is just a matter of time n he will accept her one day. N why am I taking only characters name... aren't fans also thinking harman as an ordinary man... yes of course that's why we take his love as his favour n ask him to leave saumya as she never valued his favour.
Some say that should harman die to prove his love for saumya... well then no. He doesn't need to prove his love but he needs to prove that if he says he love a kinner that means he is mentally n emotionally strong enough to stick by his decision n he is well prepared to face all the challenges of society. He needs to prove that his love is just not a matter of time but a lifelong promise to live with his better half n no matter what he is never going to leave her. More than saumya, shakti is story of harman's struggle. For saumya, things are very simple either she will be with harman or saya. She was living with harman bcs she was believing on his love but the doubt which she got by his rejection made her leave him n also bcs of the question that how can she destroy a perfect man's life. I am not saying that saumya will never accept harman's love... she will but I think she still hasn't gain the confidence on him n on his love n till the time she doesn't get the point loud n clear that if harman says he love her then he mean it.. he literally mean it, she will keep choosing path to separate from harman. We ask saumya to prove her love for harman but I think we hasn't reached to the point where she can believe harman's love then how will she fight for him... The girl whom was tagged not even worthy to stay alive that too by his own father then how can she believe that her hubby harman is not going to leave her in future.
People are getting angry that saumya became preeto's puppet but then preeto doesn't tell any lie. She has alwz risen genuine questions reagarding haya relationship which seems quite true for any ordinary man. Now it's harman who has to prove to not only preeto n saumya but to fans also that how unique he is when it comes to loving his gulabo. N I think the current track is for this only... when saumya will put all efforts to gain hatred from harman, so that he decide to move on leaving her behind, but will end up getting love only... n also she will keep reminding him how he will not get anything from her but he will then also not leave her so that means by the end of this track she will gain that much needed confidence on him n on his love when she will witness how perfect their relationship is even after her being so imperfect.
Enough... I wasted so much time in writing this post.. even after knowing that people here are so stubborn that they will never understand anything.
Anyway, if people just wanted to complain only n if they r in no mood to understand anything.. then also I am absolutely OK.Afterall it's not my loss as I am at very much peace n enjoying shakti with my gorgeous vivina n beautiful haya.
Saumya's every relationship demanded some compromise bcs of her identity. Nimmi saved saumya n kept her with herself but how.. confined in four walls with no knowledge of outside world n not even about her real identity. She had also accepted that 21 days challenge of saya. Maninder is saumya's father n I think he also love her but in his opinion he prefer to kill saumya or send her to kinner world bcs he think this is d only solution for making her life easy. Remember his dialogue when he was sending saumya with saya before 21 days that this world is devil for her n she will be tortured here only. Surbhi also shows her love for saumya but when time demanded to take a stand for saumya's rights she end up snatching her every right of a wife n dil n even forced her to suicide. Nani love saumya but she made surbhi more great even after destroying saumya's life as she also think saumya is not worthy to have these relationships. Saya love saumya but she just want her to keep her in kinners world as this only thing she learned from society that saumya can only live there peacefully n her mindset will never let her believe harman fully. Saumya's all these relationships claim to love her but they demanded compromise to love her bcs of her identity crisis. But these relationships are not choosen by her n nor they have to face any challenge in order to accept saumya in fact if nimmi mannu wanted they could have made saumya's life more beautiful but they choose to leave her daughter in hell just bcs of societal rules.
But but but... a normal man like harman if chooses to love a kinner n marry her n stay with her then his life itself became a challenge. His needs , his parents wishes, his society status everything comes on stake. N if there is even 1% doubt in his mind regarding his relationship with a kinner then he should end it as this doubt will one day or other is going to end everything only so better do it in time. By saying that harman loving saumya only bcs she is beautiful n things have been changed with time n by refusing to accept her with her real identity for which he was alwz ready, harman unknowingly expressed his doubts only which lead saumya to decide that this relationship is meant to be broken only. We audience know what saumya meant for harman n infact preeto n saumya n even others know that harman loves saumya but everyone is putting harman in the list of ordinary men n thinking that his love is just a matter of time n it will flew away in air later as how can a man live his entire life with a kinner. In real world also falling in love with someone is not a big deal. They fel in love, get heartbreak, then forget n just move on. This is the story we saw everywhere n it's so common. Preeto knows harman love saumya madly but she still arises questions like after sometime he will think of his heir n then he will marry someone else, he is loving saumya bcs of her beauty only, if saumya will break his heart then he will leave her etc etc. N these questions are right also as any normal man will do this only. Surbhi also chose to marry harman even after knowing that he love saumya bcs she also thought that loving a kinner doesn't mean that he will not accept a normal woman as his wife. She was also thinking his love is just a matter of time n he will accept her one day. N why am I taking only characters name... aren't fans also thinking harman as an ordinary man... yes of course that's why we take his love as his favour n ask him to leave saumya as she never valued his favour.
Some say that should harman die to prove his love for saumya... well then no. He doesn't need to prove his love but he needs to prove that if he says he love a kinner that means he is mentally n emotionally strong enough to stick by his decision n he is well prepared to face all the challenges of society. He needs to prove that his love is just not a matter of time but a lifelong promise to live with his better half n no matter what he is never going to leave her. More than saumya, shakti is story of harman's struggle. For saumya, things are very simple either she will be with harman or saya. She was living with harman bcs she was believing on his love but the doubt which she got by his rejection made her leave him n also bcs of the question that how can she destroy a perfect man's life. I am not saying that saumya will never accept harman's love... she will but I think she still hasn't gain the confidence on him n on his love n till the time she doesn't get the point loud n clear that if harman says he love her then he mean it.. he literally mean it, she will keep choosing path to separate from harman. We ask saumya to prove her love for harman but I think we hasn't reached to the point where she can believe harman's love then how will she fight for him... The girl whom was tagged not even worthy to stay alive that too by his own father then how can she believe that her hubby harman is not going to leave her in future.
People are getting angry that saumya became preeto's puppet but then preeto doesn't tell any lie. She has alwz risen genuine questions reagarding haya relationship which seems quite true for any ordinary man. Now it's harman who has to prove to not only preeto n saumya but to fans also that how unique he is when it comes to loving his gulabo. N I think the current track is for this only... when saumya will put all efforts to gain hatred from harman, so that he decide to move on leaving her behind, but will end up getting love only... n also she will keep reminding him how he will not get anything from her but he will then also not leave her so that means by the end of this track she will gain that much needed confidence on him n on his love when she will witness how perfect their relationship is even after her being so imperfect.
Enough... I wasted so much time in writing this post.. even after knowing that people here are so stubborn that they will never understand anything.
Anyway, if people just wanted to complain only n if they r in no mood to understand anything.. then also I am absolutely OK.Afterall it's not my loss as I am at very much peace n enjoying shakti with my gorgeous vivina n beautiful haya.
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