Harman's Fight For his Love Continues

Before writing my take , just want to make few points about my style of writing 😳 .. Whenever I write a take for any show , I always try to analyse deep about the behaviour of particular characters whether they r positive or negative .. Its easy to blame the culprit and sympathise with the victim but equally difficult to try to understand the psychology of the culprit and the reason behind why she did what she did or even more difficult to understand the psychology of the victim when he continues to battle for something that one might feel is not worth it ..So I try to analyse on both these points ..In fact when I started writing takes for this show , I hv written in detail about Preeto's psychology too as a mother .. Mayb I would hv written in detail about Surbhi too if the actress was a better one .. And yesterday I even wrote in detail about Saya's sudden change in behaviour and what CVs might hv planned for her ... So yeah I just love analysing the different mood swings of characters and thats what I do in my every take 😆..

So please when u read it , dont think I m taking sides or anything .. For me both HaYa r important and it breaks my heart to see Soumya not understanding or trusting her Harman ji 😭 .. But what has happened cannot b changed , so rather I will try to analyse why it has happened and what can b the outcome of this track in future 😃 ..

Lets talk about yesterday's episode now .. For me best part about this track is 15 mins of HaYa and just 2-3 mins for Singh family with cherry on the cake-- no Surbhi 😃😆 ./. This is what I always wanted to see in this show.. I m glad finally CVs hv realised the importance of Vivian and Rubina and giving them ample scope to perform 👍🏼 .. Yesterday's episode was no different as we saw the clash of the titans yet again between both .. Harman's raw intensity vs Soumya's Rage ..The way both had that internal fight going on with their eyes was a treat to watch ...

Harman is not a quitter to just give up on his love ..He is someone who knows how to fight for his love and defeat the hate .. So he enters the kinner house with the excuse of Annadaan(Grain donation) for his Love puja 😆 when his actual intension was to signal Soumya that he will never let her hate win 😉😳 ; So when Soumya finally comes to donate the rice in his bag , he grabs her hand tightly , gives that naughty smirk and lets her know that its better to stay united in love or else he can b a dangerous rebel when it comes to the game err I mean puja of love 😈😆 .. I just loved the tussle of their eyes in this scene .. His raw intense gaze vs her fierce eyes filled with rage ...To b honest I was bored of their extra sweet looks to each other .. So mayb somewhere I m enjoying this raw intense phase in their relationship knowing well that soon it will b role reversal too once Soumya realises her mistake and its Harman's turn to throw all the attitude 😛


Harman then begins the love puja but poor Panditji was wondering what mantras to read as such puja dont even exist in Shastras 😆 .. Well such puja only exists in Harman's special love Shastra 😉😆 .. Thats where I simply adore Harman for always coming up with such unique ideas .. We all might say Soumya dont deserve Harman , he should leave her etc etc but only Harman knows what Soumya means for him and only he has the right to decide what all he can and will do to win her back 😳...Its very easy in life to just give up and move on if the love of your life goes away from u ..Even Preeto though Harman will do so and was celebrating in advance .. But what Harman is doing now is unthinkable and thats what makes him the ultimate lover and a gem of a person 👏...

Once Harman sees Soumya is going out with rest of the kinners , he leaves the love puja on ultimate bali ka bakra Varun's shoulder 😆 and starts stalking his Gulabo 😎 ; What follows next is another treat for HaYa fans like me who is really enjoying the tashan of their intense gaze and the internal battle that both r fighting with their eyes ; Harman was pissed off when those guys were asking Soumya to dance like other kinners but Soumya refused to do so which yet again proves that she can never become Tarana 👍🏼 ; Only when she sees Harman's interference , she realised that its affecting him and so to further rile him up , she said she will dance as by that time both already started the battle of their eyes with each other 😆 ; Harman too understood that she said so just to rile him up and so he vents out his entire frustration on that useless chap by giving him multiple slaps 😆 but notice even while beating up the guy , he kept his eyes fixed on his Soumya only as if he wanted to give her a message through his eyes that "U r only mine and dare u dance in front of anyone , I will kill them all and u will b responsible for my madness " 😈 ; He kept beating up the guy but his eyes depicting that raw intensity and rage was fixed on his Gulabo only just to show her the extreme to which he can go for her 😳 ; Soumya realised that he wont stop unless she leaves from there and so she quickly left but I could see her moist eyes as she realised the extreme to which he can go for her ..This is where its hurting Soumya so much that he can beat guys on roads just for her but he cannot accept her identity in front of all ..Why ? .. I know we can argue that she should hv trusted Harman and tried to find out the reason herself but then there will b no story and Harman will hv nothing to do either if Soumya on her own solves it all 😆..Sometimes compromise of certain characters becomes important for a good build up to the next phase of a love story ..



Now comes the main confrontation scene ... Harman Vs Kinners .. Let me break it into 4 parts .. I will mention what I noticed in the entire scene ..

1) Everyone noticed Harman was badly humiliated by all the kinners including his wife Soumya but what I noticed was Harman was fighting bravely like a lone warrior against the entire herd without anyone's help and thats what makes him a winner because in the end there can b only one winner and not multiple .. Its easy to come in a herd and taunt the other person because he is alone but its extremely challenging and difficult to confront the entire herd and yet come out looking like a winner just like Harman after he challenges Saya that he will take his Soumya back at any cost and will see who wins in the end , Saya's kasam or the power of his love 👍🏼 .. He had the last say in the entire Scene 👏 .. I know many wanted Soumya to defend Harman here and stop the kinners from insulting him but I m glad she did not and Harman alone takes on the entire kinners because it actually gives scope to Vivian as an actor to perform rather than just stand behind while his wife does all the defending .. Also if Soumya started defending Harman so soon then the separation track would hv ended there and then which obviously wont make sense 😆 nor will it lead to the next track which will b all about Soumya's redemption and how she wins Harman's heart again .. So its all part of story telling .. Let the track unfold 😳



2) Everyone noticed how rudely Soumya spoke to Harman but what I noticed was after he left , she actually confessed how much she loves him and will keep loving him all her life ..I think this is the first time she actually confessed that she loves him 😲 .. Earlier she always used to b in denial about love and just say its attachment .. But yesterday she directly said she loves Harman after he left ..Thats why she even crossed her fingers while faking anger and hate in front of Harman ...And while confessing her love later , I could feel that extreme passion and pain in her voice when she said how much she loves Harman .. It was painful for her to say those bitter words to him or see him getting humiliated because she did see how his eyes became almost moist when she said she does not love him 😭 .. She is equally suffering in all this but its just that she wants to hurt herself and Harman at the same time ,,

Today she rudely told on Harman's face she does not love him .. But this is a open loop in terms of story telling because tomorrow when she will realise her mistake and redeem herself , she will complete the same loop by confessing her love to him .. Every track has a start and a finish .. If this track started with Soumya misunderstanding Harman , then it will end with Soumya realising her mistake and going through a redemption phase too .. Thats what I call a good story telling .. If we always expect both to b forever understanding , then there will b no story ..



3) Everyone noticed the words that were said by Soumya or kinners to humiliate Harman but what I noticed was Harman's words here when he told Soumya that fights and misunderstandings happen between every husband and wife but that does not mean one will leave house or start hating your lifepartner 👏 .. Only after this Soumya told those bitter words about how she does not love him but unlike Soumya , here Harman does not misunderstand her based on what she said .. Unlike Soumya who took Harman's words on face value, he does not take her words of hate on face value and knows she is saying all that in anger ; Hope Soumya does realise this in future that she should not always take everyone's words on face value only but try to find out the deeper meaning behind it .. I m sure she will learn from her mistakes .. we all do that .. its human .. Harman is more matured here in the relationship and so he understands Soumya better than she does .. its a phase which will eventually make Soumya matured too after she realises her mistake ..

4) Now the only problem I had with the entire scene was just one dialogue of Soumya which I feel could hv been avoided .. Its when she told Harman that if u want to love anyone , go and buy a pet , u can shower all the love on that pet .. Here she is not really insulting Harman but her own self too as she is comparing herself to a pet and trying to indicate that Harman kept her in his house like a pet .. I felt the dialogue was a bit too strong and mayb dialogue writer could hv given something else here because basically what she meant was that Harman's pampering and his Gulabo rant made her weak and dependent but now she wants to b independent which actually makes sense as u expect someone to say all this about being independent when she is angry and hurt but somewhere I felt the pet dialogue dint look convincing with what she actually was trying to mean here 🤔 ..

So these are my 4 observations from the confrontation scene and like I said in the start , I always love to analyse scenes and characters instead of just grouping them in the categories of culprit and victim .. So thats what I did here 😳


Last but not the least I prefer Soumya misundertanding Harman anyday over Harman misunderstanding Soumya simply because if the later happens then it gives a moral victory to Preeto .,.. But yesterday when I saw those 2 mins of Preeto sitting like a looser as her son has crossed all limits of madness in love , I felt sadistic pleasure seeing that defeat in her eyes .. And this is where I m loving the track because what goes around comes around too 😃 .. Similarly In future I do expect Harman to b angry on Soumya after the misunderstanding clears and then Soumya making all the efforts to convince him and finally confess her love to him ... I will enjoy that track as much as I m enjoying this track 😳 ..

Precap looked funny as Harman is safeguarding the kinner house outside with his love puja 😆and Soumya tried to sneak out but gets caught by him I guess .. It looked almost like a cat and mouse game to me 😆...Will wait for the episode ..


Once again Vivian and Rubina nailed their acts .. Reason why we r feeling such strong emotions of love and hate for Harman and Soumya respectively is because both actors r flawless in bringing out the emotions and intensity of this track perfectly 👏👏

Well said...trying to gauge Saumya's thoughts as you

Jyoti I love your retakes episodes bcz I know that you're very objective and you're treating all characters with care ;i like your psychoanalysis for all caracters;i like how you're taking every detail with great consideration and i like especially tout deep thinking and maturity. ..when i read your posts i'm usually like this

Originally posted by: zubeada

awesome analysis jyoti ❤️

i like Harman do everything by his own

tht was my dream in kinnar track but tht time they inserted surbhi forcly and i just hated it

but this time hes alone thankfully

I agree .. during kidnap track Surbhi was always tagging around .. we must thank Varun here or else u never know , Surbhi might hv tagged Harman here too 😆

I m glad that Harman is like a one man army in this track ...

Originally posted by: anitarani

Well said...trying to gauge Saumya's thoughts as you

have explained...only that pet dialogue completely

put me off...But yes...a great relief to have less of

Preeto nautanki...to see defeat in her eyes...and

yes stellar performances by Vivian/Rubina..

yes like I mentioned . that dialogue could hv been avoided .. mayb makers want to take it to the extreme so that we actually hate Soumya for sometime .. so that later when her regret and redemption phase starts , we could connect to it ..

Originally posted by: Flora15

Jyoti I love your retakes episodes bcz I know that you're very objective and you're treating all characters with care ;i like your psychoanalysis for all caracters;i like how you're taking every detail with great consideration and i like especially tout deep thinking and maturity. ..when i read your posts i'm usually like this

Thanks a lot for this amazing review ;i haven't time for making one bcz i'm enjoying vacations with family ;the Phone is all the day in my hands & i'm traying to do what i can. ..Can't say other thing with your retake bcz i share your point of view and the clash of titans is still working and increasing from episode to an other but i have something that i see it different ;as you know i'm usually seeing things from Saumya angle ;i think Saumya is my weakness point 😆 When the angry Saumya told Harman you if you wants love ;adopt and animal and love him as you want ;she said that bcz when she misunderstands harman by saying her he can't love any kinar roaming in road ;he can only sympathize with her ;the ruined Saumya wanted hurting Harnan like he hurted her deeply ..Bcz if he loves someone with sympathy it's better adopting an animal .SaumYa is saying all that with anger and out of her heart only to give Harman the same pain may be he will give up running after her..Saumya if you notice when she talked that she hates Harman and if he wants love it's better adopting an animal ; great part of her speech she's looking in an others side and not directly in Harman eyes bcz when you love someone you can't lie him if you talk him directly in his eyes.

I wants talk more with you about the episode but I want be equals with all and replay their posts😆

Keep shunning with your amazing posts 👏 👏 👏❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Flora enjoy your vacation and come back recharged for next episode take .. will b waiting for it 😃

I guess u hv a point here .. yes its more like if u can show sympathy for kinners which he himself said during their fight , then he can even adopt a pet and sympathise with it in the name of love ... but its too strong of a dialogue .. yes she said it in hurt but I hope when she realises her mistake , she recalls these harsh words and makes up for it .. only then this track will look complete .. the more pain she gives herself and Harman , the more impactful should b her redemption phase 😳

Flora enjoy your vacation and come back recharged for next episode take .. will b waiting for it 😃

I guess u hv a point here .. yes its more like if u can show sympathy for kinners which he himself said during their fight , then he can even adopt a pet and sympathise with it in the name of love ... but its too strong of a dialogue .. yes she said it in hurt but I hope when she realises her mistake , she recalls these harsh words and makes up for it .. only then this track will look complete .. the more pain she gives herself and Harman , the more impactful should b her redemption phase 😳

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Flora enjoy your vacation and come back recharged for next episode take .. will b waiting for it 😃

I guess u hv a point here .. yes its more like if u can show sympathy for kinners which he himself said during their fight , then he can even adopt a pet and sympathise with it in the name of love ... but its too strong of a dialogue .. yes she said it in hurt but I hope when she realises her mistake , she recalls these harsh words and makes up for it .. only then this track will look complete .. the more pain she gives herself and Harman , the more impactful should b her redemption phase 😳

Originally posted by: MaryamMary

Yes ,Jyoti & Flora,

it will be look blissful for both HaYa when together after this phase of separation, both will regret saying those harsh words to eachother

true all couples or any humanbeing during hitted arguments, do say some harsh words unknowingly

to eachother , if there is love, then those are forgiven & forgotten..

Loving this track, as Jyoti says, only HaYa holds the stage...we love it

True Aunty.. Couples fight only because they love each other .. This track is all about Harman showing his extreme love for Soumya and mayb making her realise that he loves her inner soul too .. I hope next track is just the opposite with Soumya proving her love to Harman with her grand love confession .. 😳