Well..cannot comment anything based on just the olv..But i dont understand why chakor is being put to test and suraj is being judged as impulsive..So, just writing down my views..
SURAJ..many say that his respect for chakor is the reason for maintaining distance., BUT I strongly believe that its his PAST that controlled him..He bowled me over when he told chakor that the reason vivan let her go is bacause of her Jagathmata avatar..He understood her so well even before he loves her.,and the best thing is he accepted it..Even before he realised his love for her, she was all over him..He thought she was his need., but when she fights he loses even while hez winning..when she cries he unknowingly offers his shoulder to lean on..All of a sudden "The Suraj Rajvanshi" has got to just "suraj". When she decided to leave the haveli, it was then he understood how much he loves her. When he decided to drink the posion, it was then he understood to what extent he can go in the name of love. She means the world to him and also he very well know that "Suraj ko Chakor se zyada pyaar koi nahi kar sakti hai".
Its not because of jealousy or insecurity that he over reacts, Its clearly the "Fear of loosing some you love the most". The best part is he questions her in private whereas chakor always questioned him in public..But still suraj never took it to heart and handled her with such chivalry.
Chakor..no one was there by her side since her childhood, not even her parents..it was Ishwar who held her hand and threw some light into her darkness..A girl who conceals all her sorrow in her heart shed tears for the first on his death coz it was a pain she couldn't handle..After ages it was Suraj who held her hand again, cared for her when shez in pain, rescued her when shez helpless. She fights only with him coz she know hez gonna let her win, she know hez the only one who handles all her mood swings..She always took care of others coz she know therez Suraj to take care of her..She loves him to an extent that even after being humiliated during makarsankranthi came back to haveli just to help suraj..She never gave a damn about herself..For her, it was always suraj suraj and suraj.
Though many say she misunderstood him, I totally contradict..She trusts him the most, she beleived suraj to be the father of imli's child coz suraj he himslef told her..if those words have come from somebody else I bet she never would have believed..Infact she threw away her self respect (which is the most important to a woman) at the cost of suraj and held imli to be solely responsible for being pregnent (now i get why chakor is still a virgin)..
About the current scenario..
Suraj do not have a problem in chakor going to ajay but hez bothered with ajay coming to chakor. That's when he turns ON his Suraj Rajvanshi mode, in this mode not even chakor can handle him. He cannot even bare someone staring at his lady love. Not Ajay, but i fear Suraj turning Obsessive as his love for chakor has no limits. With chakor's love she should show him the right way in terms of doing something with his life. She is his sole strength and should always stay by his side.
Thats a long post. Sorry if I have bored you people. This is strictly my opinion.