Is Suraj's love always questioned by Chakor?

Originally posted by: sumsukor

Very true... thought to take a bit time to explain this...

one thing I realised after studying and analysing Chakor is that (kindly pardon me if I am wrong too and correct me ... my logic) even during the grey days Suraj though didnot wish to marry her but married her as to take a revenge of her swap... in the hindsight used her for his benefits -monetarily though but at the base, the relationship was always bit protective of her.. he know that he had a very shade of grey which was mainly an attention seeking from his father...to be superficially rough, rude, badass but has been craving for true affection and love. he had never even spoken bad about Chakor nor her relationship with Vivaan in a demeaning or derogatory way. It is a known factor that his relationship has ebbed slowy with the tide to the space that he was doting her as a guiding factor as he always said her dimaag is too sharp and also said her dimaag and his thaakath was an adhuri combination... he trusted her words without any questions and even during their fights she always won not that she was always right but he always gave in as he wanted her to win, as he thought she was born to win and can and should not fail. during their married life he had only respect and no love or lust for her. He developed bonding with her during the bandwa days as he felt she was the only soul who was helping him and he should do pooja for her. He never even tried to have any physical intimacy though they were always very close to each other and sometimes she was not in her senses too.

Chakor on the other hand has a wall against her she is the supergirl, jagatmata as she always says i am mai babu ka bahadhur baccha cannot cry. But at the heart she felt vulnerable and wanted that protection which she got from Suraj but with thorns around her to secure her, she did weave the magical wand around him and made him into a gentleman but always was putting him down at every chance.. ulti kopdi, akalmand, pakhandi, dimaag nahi, etc etc.. She refused to trust him but trusted all other... she did not have any feelings towards him until the she was rescued when she was being publicly humiliated and when he refused to be slap her.

Now coming to my point... when she started loving Suraj, her analytical brain was refusing to accept any of his explanation or to the fact even Imli's explanation. In fact I was bit taken aback at the character Chakor who knows everything, was not believing Imli (sorry at this point I felt she was saying something logic) when she said please check the reports it must be fake and she said she trusted Chakor when she said her drug test report was fake and uprightly trusted Vivan when he was charged with rape case without any second thought... Also Chakor's analytical brain refused to go over the dialogue when Suraj said imli ki bache ke baap hum kehelanyengey... i do not want to go into the unneccessary stupidity which went into...

But nowhere chakor trusted Suraj upright. Also I used to wonder the girl who gave an excellent explanation to Suraj about the hariyali teej rath where he was fully drunk and though tried to molest but desisted at the thought that he was loving Imli. (which he himself was not able to understand) felt that he could betray her when he was blindly loving her.

So Suraj had always had to prove his love to Chakor to the extent that he had to end his life to prove her that she is his life... i liked the way he said in the car while coming back, hamare jaan ki jaan katrey mey...

sorry for a long post!!!

Originally posted by: chasa

Just read yesterday's written update

Chakor and Suraj see Ragini's pic with Vivaan's doctor. Suraj says it means on Ragini's saying, that doctor made wrong reports for Vivaan. Vivaan says such a big cheat with me, Imli was saying true, no... He cries. Suraj says to save Imli's respect, I took the defamation on my head. Chakor cries and hugs him.

The dumbass didnt even care abt his wife and went to save the bitch and her respect...shows how much he respects his wife...

Conclusion

Suraj doesnt deserve chakor...he is simply lucky to get her...while chakor is awfully unlucky to get a husband who has never got over his ex

Originally posted by: meshmesh

It's not just his love but his whole character. To be fair to Chakor, some things needed to be cleared during their confession from Suraj's side. Her emotions didn't make her think clearly of the significance of the words he used. It's just that it seems that since Suraj hurt her, he's not allowed to feel hurt because of her actions.

Chakor loves him but doesn't value him as a person while Suraj loves her and respects her. Chakor is expected to be jagat mata and put her duty first but he can't do the same towards his friend. I wonder if his sacrifice for friendship didn't involve Imli but some other scenario, if the backlash against Suraj would've been the same.

Agreed my biggest surprise was that she didn't trust Imli at all.

Originally posted by: KUTUR

Talking about the rape...

The day of confession when Chakor was talking about the day when her heart melted for Suraj...I don't why,before she said anything,I felt that she would talk about the alleged rape attempt...and she said exactly that...

Coz,truly speaking..Suraj,as a character made a place in my heart only that day,coz before that I was only drooling on his looks,personality and attitude...

I agreed that it was very wrong to do that,but the driving force behind his act was NOT LUST BUT INTENSE HATRED AND FEELING OF REVENGE,QUENCH OF HER DESTRUCTION..

And he didn't stopped,coz he feared Chakor's knife,but because,he himself realised that he was wrong...

I agree that the morning after...only a bouquet was not enough for his deed...but he didn't presented her because he wanted her to attend the charity event,coz she would have definitely done that without any apology or flowers,coz he was already blackmailing her...she had to agree any way..

What surprised me then was...A SORRY AND FLOWERS FROM THE THEN SURAJ RAJVANSHI WAS NEVER EXPECTED...but still he did so...

Although his attitude,didn't allowed him to express it fully..

If he would have lusted her or didn't respected her then,Chakor would had been raped by Suraj long ago...and no law,no weapon,no self-defence from Chakor's would have stopped him...

Originally posted by: KUTUR

Talking about the rape...

The day of confession when Chakor was talking about the day when her heart melted for Suraj...I don't why,before she said anything,I felt that she would talk about the alleged rape attempt...and she said exactly that...

Coz,truly speaking..Suraj,as a character made a place in my heart only that day,coz before that I was only drooling on his looks,personality and attitude...

I agreed that it was very wrong to do that,but the driving force behind his act was NOT LUST BUT INTENSE HATRED AND FEELING OF REVENGE,QUENCH OF HER DESTRUCTION..

And he didn't stopped,coz he feared Chakor's knife,but because,he himself realised that he was wrong...

I agree that the morning after...only a bouquet was not enough for his deed...but he didn't presented her because he wanted her to attend the charity event,coz she would have definitely done that without any apology or flowers,coz he was already blackmailing her...she had to agree any way..

What surprised me then was...A SORRY AND FLOWERS FROM THE THEN SURAJ RAJVANSHI WAS NEVER EXPECTED...but still he did so...

Although his attitude,didn't allowed him to express it fully..

If he would have lusted her or didn't respected her then,Chakor would had been raped by Suraj long ago...and no law,no weapon,no self-defence from Chakor's would have stopped him...