SSO's Love-Self destructive??

Hey guys so this question is going on and on inside my head regarding Shivaay's nature of love now.
Is it going in the self destructive way or its more on the level of destroying anything that comes in his way...It seems he is tired of everything now. He only triggers and sparks when Anika is near his proximity. Rest the whole world can go to hell. Only his brothers can get the emotions out of him and that too are not much on that intense level I feel. A part of him has died and gone away with Anika. There os the emotional and protective side of him regarding his brothers and that's the only thing which is connecting him to some emotions. And with Anika obviously he has that explosive side. Rest of the world can go to hell and for them he had his cold and I care a damn attitude. I just want to know that right now SSO's love is on the self destructive path or its ready to burn anything and everything along with him???
Please do reply guys what do you think?
I am not much good with words... still I want to know your opinions on this that right now what is SSO's phase of love for Anika?
And is Shivaya there in SSO or its only a detached and self destructive SSO phase for us?
Please throw some light on this?
I really want to know.


Thanks.