Originally posted by: grace4317
Thank you rockstar for that compliments and for sharing your thoughts here, though I don't agree with some part of it.
Green - Recently Bijoy himself says to Sona,'Asha kaha karthi thi, ki humein Sona par sab kuch nahin chodna chaahiye. vo abhi bachi hein. Lekin mein kaha karthi thi ki, nahin...vo sab handle kardegi. aur agar use koyi problem ho tho vo humein batayegi"...Doesn't this mean it was Bijoy who forced the responsibility on Sona...Yes, it was different from what Ishwari used to do with Dev. When it made Dev & Ishwari more closer, in Sona's case it made her to hide her feelings. In other words, Sona heard only part of what Bijoy told her - to manage everything on her own; the other part - to discuss with them if she had any problem - she didn't follow.
Red - Dev was always sensitive to Sona's pain, till his family members came into picture. So I cannot agree on this Dev being insensitive part; but I will agree on the part that he failed in balancing his relations.