Possible MU btwn Sharda and CM

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: eshasrk
Honestly nowadays whenever Sharda talks abt self respect and all , I just roll my eyes, coz Sharda makes zero sense to me...
Sometimes I find her double standard and that is something I dislike
Would she forgive an outsider so easily ???
People like Sharda only learn the hard way and sometimes they don't even learn at all
Veer trying to talk sense into her is also a waste, coz Sharda will never learn nor will she ever change.
Veer is just wasting his time with her I guess. And yes he and Meghna would make a great team, they almost think alike...
In a way I feel Sharda has also disrespected Dadu, coz he was the one insisting on an inquiry, which wasn't needed in the first place seeing Sharda's reaction.
And does she really think her family would have stood by her if it wasn't for Dadu and CM ??? Her own brothers were ready to abandon her and throwing accusations to her head...what is this woman talking abt ???
Veer will get a really tough time if he wants to continue with Sharda, luckily he also realizes the difficulties

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Have a question : Is Meghna really Sharda's daughter 🤣
Sharda said today that she has taught her girls that revenge is not a good thing, then from where does Meghna have her revenge mood streak 😆
Also the last line Veer said to Sharda...why do I have a feeling that he wanted to convey something to her ?? Something which has a deeper meaning than it seems ?!
Did something similar happen to him ??? Someone close who gave him dhoka ??

Oh CVs plsss...want to know Veers back story so anxiously 😆

Sharda definitely has double standards. She raised her daughters to be independent and not any less than boys but then she still acts like they are less than boys. All her actions in the marriage track annoyed me. I guess to be fair.. she has to live in a patriarchal society where it isn't easy to go against societal norms. But she's a classic example of internalized misogyny. Women who continue to perpetuate the system of oppression in the name of sanksar because it makes their survival easier.

Meghna probably turned out differently because, through her mother, she was able to witness first hand the hypocrisy of the system. Like we said earlier she probably felt the need to take on the role of the 'son' but also had to contend with how challenging that is when you actually are a girl and are forced to deal with all the expectations that are imposed on women. Naina was probably slightly more sheltered... so I believe it was easier for her to take Sharda at her face value.

I'd love for Veer to have dealt with a 'dhoka' and teach something to Sharda. The problem with Sharda is that she is conflict averse... it doesn't feel like she is being forgiving from a place of strength. It feels like she is being forgiving from a place of weakness... she doesn't want to deal with the repercussions of having to go against her own relative.

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Veer was so sweet to offer security outside her house...my gosh which CM would do that for just an ordinary person ?!
But I get the feeling that this matter will worsen due to Kalpana exposing the truth and calling the name of Tauji.
And this might lead to either Meghna wanting to punish him OR it will lead to NK and if that happens, all hell will break loose.
I just hope Veer isn't caught in the middle of this family drama or that he's accused by Sharda or whatever

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: eshasrk
Veer was so sweet to offer security outside her house...my gosh which CM would do that for just an ordinary person ?!
But I get the feeling that this matter will worsen due to Kalpana exposing the truth and calling the name of Tauji.
And this might lead to either Meghna wanting to punish him OR it will lead to NK and if that happens, all hell will break loose.
I just hope Veer isn't caught in the middle of this family drama or that he's accused by Sharda or whatever

I know.. Veer is so sweet. He's really trying to protect sharda.

I don't know how its going to play out. I was thinking more along the lines of Meghna being told that Tauji was the culprit will make her feel bad about going against Nk-- its probably going to come out at the same time as Meghna calling the media so she will have no real defense. I'm assuming Meghna's relationships with Kunal and Naina are already going to be strained over the NaiRan thing so this will be a nail in the coffin.

I think Veer is going to be necessary to set everything right if he gave Sharda Tauji's name.

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Veer trying to protect Sharda is him just wasting his time with her.
She doesn't want to be protected, she can so called handle everything, so this situation as well.
Also we have seen that Sharda might stay with the Chauhaans for a while, so definitely no VeerDa during this phase. I think everything will happen in between this time period, so possibility is high that Sharda might return to Bundi with either one daughter or both...depending on how this drama will unfold
The envelope with the name of Tauji will play a major role, the BGM when Veer almost threw the envelope on the table said enough...
And both Asha and Kalpana were so tired of Sharda's gyaan to CM 😆
I think even Veer gets tired of Sharda sometimes 😆 . Hopefully they might show some inner thoughts of Veer or his back story in FBs during the time that Sharda will stay in Bundi

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: eshasrk
Veer trying to protect Sharda is him just wasting his time with her.
She doesn't want to be protected, she can so called handle everything, so this situation as well.
Also we have seen that Sharda might stay with the Solanki's for a while, so definitely no VeerDa during this phase. I think everything will happen in between this time period, so possibility is high that Sharda might return to Bundi with either one daughter or both...depending on how this drama will unfold
The envelope with the name of Tauji will play a major role, the BGM when Veer almost threw the envelope on the table said enough...
And both Asha and Kalpana were so tired of Sharda's gyaan to CM 😆
I think even Veer gets tired of Sharda sometimes 😆 . Hopefully they might show some inner thoughts of Veer or his back story in FBs during the time that Sharda will stay in Bundi

Sharda might stay with the Solankis? Do you mean the Chauhan's? Dadu might invite the CM😉😆 The CM and Sharda track has to move forward somehow. We are probably going to find out more about CM. The Chauhan house is prolly the best place. Maybe they can resolve Meghna's conflict with the CM too before the all head back to Bundi.😆

Yeah Asha and Kalpana had the best expressions today😆. I was pretty tried of Sharda's gyann. I hope Sharda is proven wrong and that will give Naina a reality check. Maybe the Tauji thing will push Meghna to try to reform NK too-- that's a track I'd like to see.

The interesting thing about Sharda is that she is all about keeping the family together but her attitude hasn't caused Asha and Kalpana to be better people or want to keep her around. If her ideals really worked in practice they would probably have yielded more positive results.

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Oops my bad...yes I meant Chauhaans
I hope what you are saying is true...Dadu can invite CM over, but then again there will be hawks watching like NK and Sandhya...
I really hope we get to know more abt CM and his past, coz frankly that track interest me the most at the moment...and I wonder how they will proceed with CM and Sharda, but he seems always to find a way or the other to meet her...they ended the school matter and started with Tauji's truth. Now they have also ended that and Sharda shifts to Jaipur...lets see how they meet.
The way Veer was looking at Sharda today with such a soft expression in his eyes...its either he really admires her and has probably never met anyone like her before OR he feels sorry for her...

And yes...if indeed Sharda's theory on keeping the family together was so strong, the Solanki household would have been a different sight...its pretty obvious Sharda's bhabhis are fed up of her, but I think that is out of jealousy more
And for once I hope Sharda is wrong and as you said that will be a reality check for Naina as well that sometimes ppl just need to get punished for their wrong deeds before they learn their lesson...

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Sharda and her never ending bhashan veer ahould get ready for a daily dose of it after marriage 🤣

Naina is her mom s pet who follows her blindly her

only aim in life is to make her mom and sis proud and for that naina can do anything

I can clearly imagine karan being as confused as veer was last night if naina starts giving bhashan on revenge and all 🤣

Seriously both mom and beti s concept of revengev is quiet messed up they need to sort it out Asap

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: eshasrk
Oops my bad...yes I meant Chauhaans
I hope what you are saying is true...Dadu can invite CM over, but then again there will be hawks watching like NK and Sandhya...
I really hope we get to know more abt CM and his past, coz frankly that track interest me the most at the moment...and I wonder how they will proceed with CM and Sharda, but he seems always to find a way or the other to meet her...they ended the school matter and started with Tauji's truth. Now they have also ended that and Sharda shifts to Jaipur...lets see how they meet.
The way Veer was looking at Sharda today with such a soft expression in his eyes...its either he really admires her and has probably never met anyone like her before OR he feels sorry for her...

And yes...if indeed Sharda's theory on keeping the family together was so strong, the Solanki household would have been a different sight...its pretty obvious Sharda's bhabhis are fed up of her, but I think that is out of jealousy more
And for once I hope Sharda is wrong and as you said that will be a reality check for Naina as well that sometimes ppl just need to get punished for their wrong deeds before they learn their lesson...

Well they have hawks everywhere. Asha and Kalpana are going to be equally annoying at the Rathod's

Well I think Veer's monologue made it clear he finds something special about Sharda. I don't think he feels sorry for her-- I think he is impressed by her strength in face of adversity.

Yeah the mami's could be jealous but I also think Sharda could've managed them better. Asha wasn't that bad in the beginning. She just felt insulted after they turned down her brother's rishta. And a lot of her concerns about Vishal are correct in my view. I mean begging to Nk.. when Vishal was slapped. Sharda talks a lot about self respect which is why she didn't take Dadu's money for Vishal but then she is seen begging Nk. Her values seem bit self serving. If I were Asha I'd think Sharda was putting on an act too. And even here.. Shada's insult didn't just affect Sharda it affected the whole family. Don't the other members of the family have a right to know who is going after them?

For me its not so much about punishing someone... but it is about holding people accountable so that they can't continue to hurt others. Tomorrow the culprit's target may be someone else... by not doing anything you are enabling their negative behavior.

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

I agree @malika, its not abt punishing the person necessarily, but more abt preventing it happens again and that was the same thing Veer was explaining to her.
People should be held accountable for their acts...
What would Sharda lose if she had just read the name ?!
And yes Sharda has her mouth full of swabhimaan and izzat, but her begging NK was something I clearly hated...the most I hated it when she begged NK on her knees during the marriage...it almost seemed as if the girls were such a burden to her and she needed to marry them off the first chance she got...I really hated her for that. And Sharda is also mainly responsible for the situation NaiRan are in today, becoz she was so despo to get Meghna married, although Meghna didn't agree with the conditions...what self respect is Sharda talking abt here ??!!!!
And you are right , Veer feels something for her only he doesn't really know yet what it is...he hasn't given his feelings any name as of yet...maybe its just attraction, maybe its just him being impressed with her...we don't know yet.
I think we need more monologues from Veer to determine what it is exactly 🤣 🤣
And I just love the maturity of this man...he remains polite, mature and composed under any circumstance, he never allows his feelings to get the upper hand when dealing with issues

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