My Idea Box - Barcelona Trip - 17/08 - P:120 - Page 7

Created

Last reply

Replies

953

Views

49.6k

Users

24

Likes

2k

Frequent Posters

Eatifi thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#61
Nice questions Maithili-
Here goes my answers-

Did I cursed Suraj,after reading the first part?
Nope...never as Katherine said,whatever was going on between Sukor was mutual...
actually,the mystery,the rough attitude of him,made me even more strongly attracted to him...Like I had said,deep inside the MP Suraj seemed to me as the original Suraj...he always indulges in wrong doings,but at heart he was never wrong...If you judge him by his actions,you are doing the biggest mistake.
I can never curse him,i dont know why the more dark,unpredictable and uncertain someone appears,the more I tend to be inclined to him...after the first part,I was adamant to see more from him.


Did I thought Shantanu to be negative?
again,NO...even if he was not good with Chakor,I knew that he was not bad,and he genuinely loves his brother,and wants his good.
Regarding Chakor,I know he should have behaved properly with her,but which man would behave rightly if his brother keeps a mistress...he had his own reasons for that.


My thoughts on the fragile Chakor...
Yes,instead of being a mistress,she should have managed some other things for her.
But she was altogether not fragile...even being a mistress she tried to held her self esteem...like she did'nt liked being addressed a mistress by Suraj's brother.even being a mistress,she somewhere demanded Suraj's respect by her actions.And,after knowing about her pregnancy,she immediately took charge of her child.
So,Chakor had a beautiful journey from being a mistress to a confident women.and that confidence was instilled in her by Suraj.
Earlier,she did not had nay self respect,that is why she chose to be a mistress...but being that also,the care and respect that Suraj gave her,boosted a self love and self esteem within her.


My thoughts on world where women are treated as objects..
Sadly,the world still exists,especially in India...
I am not gonaa comment much on this topic,otherwise I'll be writing an essay.
All I can say is,until and unless you do not allow yourself to put you down,then no one can...
If you love yourself,respect yourself,know your real worth...then everyonw will follow the same with you...and this rule applies to both men and women...


It was nice answering the questions...and MP is my personal favorite...I have read it 5 times.and after this today its gonna be my sixth.
I just love dark stories and characters.




Edited by KUTUR - 8 years ago
appledesire thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#62
Maithu dee..

As far as ur questions concerned...

This is just a story..I like it too
.But as reality concerned. . Such character I will not like..
Morever... women position surely changes alot..but somewhere... still women are not treated well..

Why women feel this one is easy way to get money...

& maithu dee...generally... girls accept boys with this lust charctr.. but do suraj be the same if shes not virgin..
Well...
I hope... women shud like free to do anything..they shud nott b judged by clothes.. I strongly favors gender neutrality..
At the end... in this chakor is too fragile.. & naive. . (Suraj possession).. but may b this is demand of story.. otherwise.. its hard to think about such charactrs in real relevance
maithu_ thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#63
@meshmesh

Good to know that you are just against his actions and not him.

I thought of making him negative but then went on making bromance! LOL

With this Chakor, you can go on both the sides. She can do anything and everything for her family but when it comes to her, she is less stronger.

I totally agree with with you a good education for both women and men is needed for a good society. For that the education must start from our house then school and finally society.
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
maithu_ thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#64
@katheriene

Good to hear that. But I think in future, I would like to make a Suraj where we can hate but will love in the end. But I don't think I can.šŸ˜›

Shantanu couldn't cut his words due to the bromance they had before Chakor's entry. Poor boy, he was missing it!šŸ˜‰

You just explained how love can make a person strong evenif we have to against that person too!

Agree dear! The society is improving but not totally!
And I think it will more than one century to clean all the bad minded people as they are the one the infect this society!
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
maithu_ thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#65
@KUTUR

The best I like in your analysis is that you get to link most of the elements to the real story and making me feel like, did I really thought about that while writing? My answer is NO.

1000% agree with you! Never judge a book by it's cover. The hidden secrets are the real fruits of the book.

I don't know what you are doing but you would be great in something related to analysis and phycology!😊

I can see what you will be writing about Women in India.
With all the happening everyday and the image created by it makes me think deeper and deeper.
You are absolutely right, the image we show to the world is the image they will retain. For that I will say self-confidence and self-esteem with an appropriate education is needed.
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
maithu_ thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#66
@appledesire

You know sometimes, some women are pushed to that world without their word. They can be less than the number of people who are willingly doing that profession. But few Women exist in that world who try to escape from that black devil.

The circumstances, family background, the surrounding... a lot of factors are involved. I think money alone can't be the reason for all of them.

If she wasn't a virgin, I think it would have been how trustworthy she was to him. Their relationship here may be started with desire but it's trust that overpowered everything.

There are still girls in this world who are still dependant on others in most of the situations. They need freedom with education to be independent.

I'm not justifying my characters but telling what I saw and learnt.
That's it dear!
maithu_ thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#67
Hey buddies!

I'm free tomorrow, so why not do a chat session with Baby from BILY?
So here it goes!
I'm not going to come between you and the baby Chakor!

You have choices between 8 or 10 or 12 years old Chakor!
Choose one and ask the one question you want to ask to her.
Only one buddies!
I will get proper net connection only on Monday, so will be posting using my phone.

Be gentle buddies!
Don't scare her!

And ahaan!
If you ask about her love then expect her to know about your puppy love or your crush if you had one at the age of 12 if you are ok to share it!
I will also share it after her replies to your upcoming questions.

So guys 1 question + Your crush/love story no compulsion

See you tomorrow!
I will put a post to close the question booth!

- Maithili

(Please post it as a reply and not as a quote)
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
Sania_suraj thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#68
Hi di..Last session i was not able to connect with u becoz my cousin came to my house..
But now i m going to chat with little chakor..i m preferring the 12 yr old chakor
Hi chakor baby..
I know tat u don't like calling u as a baby..bt i love to call u like tat becoz my love(u all know whom i was mentioning here) luvs to call u like tat..
1. How did u allow your rajjju to kiss you at this age..wat did u thought at tat time?
Comming to my crush..i don't have crush at the age of 12 and all..when Ippknd was on air,my first crush was barun sobti and i just luv him like anything..he ll always cum in my dreams..
And then..now my crush is none other than my love vijayendra kumeria..i just crazy abt him..i luv him alot..now he s nly my dream person..if i talk abt him..i just go on with my blabbers..
To my sadness both r married😭
Subi51 thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#69
Helo maithili,
Oh no, I missed the last session. I am definitely not going to miss this chance. Thanks for connecting us with BABY.
Nice to meet you Cutiepie.
I am guessing from the time you understand, rajju is like a big brother from a family friend. Considering five year gap. How did your brotherly love transform to first love?
Well, talking about my first crush, It is Cedric Diggory from Harry Potter and Goblet of Fire. We had gone to watch it in movie threatre first show. Omg the handsome hunk!! HIs humbleness, sincerity, good at heart, fair playing attracted me. I was literally in tears when he was struck by the spell "Avada Kedavra". Now I am waiting for Harry Potter and Cursed Child to meet him again.
maithu_ thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#70
@Sania_suraj


Hello!

I accept you calling me Baby only this time, next time no. Else I will not speak with you. Hmmm?

How can you say that you love My Raju!
Gratefully you have crush on VJ and not on Raju, so I forgave you for saying you love My Love.

That's the only reason I'm answering your question sis.

>> How did u allow your rajjju to kiss you at this age..wat did u thought at tat time?

If I remember, he started to prepare me for that from the moment we witnessed how Adi bro and that Rajini were attacking each others' mouth.
Like when ever we were alone he says things like:
"In English films it's something common you know?"
"Adi said it wasn't hurting."
"One day we will also do that Honey!"
"Can I kiss you on your eyes and nose instead of only on cheeks and forehead?"
Hmmm I don't remember what else he said but he said and talked about it a lot. A LOT!

Moreover one of my friend who is not my friend now said that she got a kiss from her college going cousin and how she forgot the world. I started to think if it's possible to forget the world while doing something like that. But I wasn't ready. You can ask the reason to break our friendship. Two weeks before my 12th birthday, she said that she had a crush on Raju and when she will come to my part, she is going to ask him something. So what I did is right! Do you agree with me sis?

I forgot to tell! 3 days before my birthday Raj and me were doing homework in his room.
Teju Maa brought us lassi and left from there. We had it and I started to continue my work but he was staring at me. How can I say that? Hmmm! It was like he saw the moon closer than before. He is doing that since few days so not a big deal, you see.
He called me using Baby! That means something fishy. I looked at him to see what he wanted but instead of talking, he started to near me and I thought that it was for a small peek in habitual place so closed my eyes but no, he licked the corner of my mouth and above my upper lips. I opened my eyes to mischievous glint in his eyes. He brushed his mouth with back of his hand and exclaimed "Tasty Lassi" before getting back to his work. My world stopped for few seconds before getting what happened.
He played with me? Me? So in angry I started to throw pillows on him and we ended having pillow fight.

You see now how naughty and rude he is.
OMG! I'm telling my whole history and the poor life has to write it. Sorry author!

Coming to the point.
I heard Papa saying to Maa that maybe we will shifting, so I thought we can have memorable moments before going from here. That's the reason why I accepted immediately when he asked for one special moment on my birthday.
I didn't think about anything. I was a bit scared for my lips in the starting but when it started, I felt like I zoomed out of the place and felt something something in my tummy.
It'sonly when we broke it that I felt something missing in my lips and then I remarked a bit of my blood.
He calmed me saying all the things he can and then we made out of my room to continue the party.

This is how everything occured sis.
I'm already red now recalling those moments, so please don't ask me more sis.

Don't worry sis! Crushes happens but when love happens I will say hold it tightly and not let it go. I'm not a big girl to say that but I think it's what we have to do!
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".