Suraj Rajvanshi-And I Saw HIM - Page 2

Amazing post Rabia.

Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-

I dont agree with your pov.

@red It is a disturbing thought for me that a husband thinks his wife as a PROPERTY not as a human being. This is trait I hate in any male. Chakor is not a thing or valuable object to posses, she is a human being with emotions and his life partner. She needs his love and respect not ownership.

@blue So basically a wife should stay back and support her cheater husband??! Suraj himself made his image in front of her as an unfaithful hubby and even chakor point blank asked him about his real intention but he lied. Does he have the right to be mad at her for his own faults?? Does he expect Chakor to be a mind reader or he thinks that he has a blind supporter in the form his wife?? If Chakor had claimed that she had another man's child in her womb would Suraj have stayed by her even after her infidelity(apparent)?

There is no logic behind his decision of not telling the truth to Chakor. His intentions are noble but not his act.

Originally posted by: chasa

true !...to me suraj was merely imli's bodyguard than chakor's husband...lol...he was such a dumbass in today's episode...today he was selfish...selfish for both chakor and imli but when time came...he choose imli...

Originally posted by: KUTUR

Listen dear,I didn't meant that a wife is his private property or a husband is supposed to dominate his wife or treat her as an object.

In my post I was talking about POSSESSIVENESS...that is a part of a fierce,passionate lover...THE YOU ARE ONLY MINE TYPES..love.

For the first time ever I got to see a possessive Suraj,just like the way he had fiercely embraced Chakor in a possessive hug on makar sankranti...

And regarding the second part

Listen,I know smells of male chauvinism ...its a really cruel,torturous and stubborn or somewhat childish demand on the side of Suraj...but I THINK A LOVER IS ENTITLED TO SUCH DEMANDS...

and this is what is the real Suraj...its him,and like anobody else he wants to be accepted the way he is...IS IT SUCH BIG A DEMAND???

as much as I know Suraj...I am damn sure that if she would have stayed with him,later on he would definitely had told her the truth and explain it to her...

But she by leaving him,had ignited an altogether another fire within him.

Its his ego,that is stopping him from telling her the truth even at this extreme point..

@blue Yes its a big and total unfair demand.How and why should he expect that Chakor would be staying with him when he himself claimed he had one night stand with imli?? Its not true we know that but for chakor its the most shocking truth of her life. Suraj cant see beyond imli and his so called mahanta that he cant think how much Pain he gave to chakor. Any loyal life partner would feel disgusted with thought of cheating on his wife but Suraj treats the issue like a minor mistake and thereby completely ignoring chakor's pov and pain. So he cant demand chakor's support when he himself is not concerned about her pain and heartache. He is behaving like an insensitive and selfish person here. No husband/lover should take his partner for granted.

@Lumosmaxima-

Originally posted by: KUTUR

No Chasa...I disagree with you dear...talking about being selfish,Suraj is even more selfless than Chakor.

And regarding,choosing Imli over Chakor...he wasnot choosing between the two,but by protecting Imli...HE WAS SIMPLY OWNING HIS WORDS...A SURAJ RAJVANSHI VIRTUE FROM ALWAYS...

if after taking responsibility of the child,he retraces his steps back,then it meant that he does not owns his words,and according to him a responsible,good person isn't supposed to do that,he said in last Thursday episode,he is today a responsible,good human being just because of Chakor.

So indirectly,he is doing what he was supposed to do as a good,responsible human that Chakor made him,FOR RESPECTING HER ATTRIBUTES..but ironically hurting her...

But this is what he is ...its totally up to Chakor,take it or leave it😕

Originally posted by: KUTUR

No Chasa...I disagree with you dear...talking about being selfish,Suraj is even more selfless than Chakor.

And regarding,choosing Imli over Chakor...he wasnot choosing between the two,but by protecting Imli...HE WAS SIMPLY OWNING HIS WORDS...A SURAJ RAJVANSHI VIRTUE FROM ALWAYS...

if after taking responsibility of the child,he retraces his steps back,then it meant that he does not owns his words,and according to him a responsible,good person isn't supposed to do that,he said in last Thursday episode,he is today a responsible,good human being just because of Chakor.

</div><div>So indirectly,he is doing what he was supposed to do as a good,responsible human that Chakor made him,FOR RESPECTING HER ATTRIBUTES..but ironically hurting her...

But this is what he is ...its totally up to Chakor,take it or leave it😕

this is the trait which I have always liked in Suraj..he doesn't back away from his words unlike many people..but sometimes this quality leads him into trouble n this time he has ended up hurting his wife the most 😭 P.S awesome post Rabia 👏..I always like how u describe Suraj's emotions so perfectly :)

Originally posted by: KUTUR

"RUTHOGE HUMSE TOH ITNA YAAD RAKHNA...

MANAANA HAME AATA NAHI,AUR JUDAA HUM REH NAHI SAKTE ..!!"

From the moment I saw today's episode,I am on a high...

Coz I saw him...SURAJ RAJVANSHI...THE SURAJ RAJVANSHI

yes,he has become the official "JAGAT PITAAH"...but bring in a matter related to Chakor,his Angel and the 'badla hua Suraj' is out of the window...and the beast sleeping inside him is awaken...

Today's episode had its own problems like always...but everything was completely overshadowed by him,by Suraj...

As usual,he was polite and soft spoken,silently living upto the responsibilities,he has taken on himself...

But the moment,the divorce notice came...and his aggression came...

It was expected that he would go to Chakor's home,guilt ridden,begging fo his love...but NO..

I just loved the way,he dealt with her in his own attitude,own wrath,own ego,once again hailing his christened na,"Jagat Maata"...

The way he WAS NOT polite with her parents,with his own mother...

The way he held her as HIS PRIVATE PROPERTY...HIS POSSESSION...to make her understand...HIM...completely bowled me over...

The way in full passion,in full fierce aggression...he held her face...(I just wished that he sealed her lips with the most fierce liplock)

And yes,it was tashan all the way...

Now,I can more profoundly understand the reason of why he is still at the issue of divorce,he didn't uttered the truth..

"Coz he is himself angry on her...if her trust is broken,so is his affirmation...that come what may,Chakor would never leave him,he had even boasted of this affirmation in front of Vivaan"

But SHE INDEED LEFT HIM...

He loves her madly...no need to question

BUT HE CHOSE A NOBLE ACT OVER HER LOVE

She loves him crazily...no doubts

BUT SHE CHOSE HER SELF ESTEEM OVER HIS LOVE.

and am feeling like,the tashan,the passion,the aggressiveness is back for they are SUKOR...THE BAAGHI ISHAQZAADE.

now this one is for explaining Suraj's ego for Chakor-

"WOH IS AAS MEIN HAI,KI HUM AAKE UNKO UNSE MAANGE,

AUR HUM IS GUROOR MEIN HAI KI,HUM BHALA APNI HI CHEEZ KYUN MAANGE...???