tenis blunt question...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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tenis blunt question to shorvari and parth...
what you are going to do with me post child birth..?

duo have no answer while teni herself answers --you are going to just throw me out of your life...

and about love marriage...--in india over 80% marriages happens without love and most of them are successful and divorce cases are very low...

where has love marriages end up in more failures and divorces cases are much more in love marriages...

is teni wrong in her thinking??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Teni is not wrong in her thinking, she is right to think about her future and seek for a security in life this way. But her way of approach towards her goals is wrong and assuming that Shorvari must have married Parth for the same reason is also wrong. Parth and Shorvari aren't willing to let off her after the delivery without making any arrangements for her future. In fact they were discussing once that after the delivery they can get her married to a nice guy. That proves that they are ready to secure her future in a way she wants to. But their only problem is she is taking this decision in a haste and she is least bothered about Aman's feelings.

But Parth can't think selfish like her when Aman is also concerned along with Teni. Parth cares for him like a brother so he doesn't like the idea of Teni marrying just for her future securities in life and not out of love. If at all she was in love with him Parth nor Shorvari wouldn't have reacted this way.
Teni is just partially seeing her welfare, but PaRi can't do that. They have to look at Aman's life as well.

As for marriages, PaRi have had a love marriage and have been together and happy in their life so far, in spite of the differences in the family. so they thinking that marriage should be made out of love is just their opinion. And they're not entirely wrong in their perceptions just like Teni isn't wrong in hers.
Edited by SudHaVeN- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SudHaVeN-

Teni is not wrong in her thinking, she is right to think about her future and seek for a security in life this way. But her way of approach towards her goals is wrong and assuming that Shorvari must have married Parth for the same reason is also wrong. Parth and Shorvari aren't willing to let off her after the delivery without making any arrangements for her future. In fact they were discussing once that after the delivery they can get her married to a nice guy. That proves that they are ready to secure her future in a way she wants to. But their only problem is she is taking this decision in a haste and she is least bothered about Aman's feelings.

But Parth can't think selfish like her when Aman is also concerned along with Teni. Parth cares for him like a brother so he doesn't like the idea of Teni marrying just for her future securities in life and not out of love. If at all she was in love with him Parth nor Shorvari wouldn't have reacted this way.
Teni is just partially seeing her welfare, but PaRi can't do that. They have to look at Aman's life as well.

As for marriages, PaRi have had a love marriage and have been together and happy in their life so far, in spite of the differences in the family. so they thinking that marriage should be made out of love is just their opinion. And they're not entirely wrong in their perceptions just like Teni isn't wrong in hers.



Very well put Sudha!! 👏 You have literally summarized yesterday's episode in your post.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Teni is beautiful, smart, intelligent, generous. We also need to accept, she is novice regarding experiences of life.
As the writers wishes to demonstrate the mindset of today's youth through Teni's character. So scripts have been written in such manner in which they are allowing Teni to falter in her decisions. Cvs intend to illustrate her gradual transformation into a composed and sensible personality.
On a few occasions, Teni is indicating her predicament regarding her future prospects with PaRi. On this count she is questioning PaRi about matters related to her future. For she is desperate to ensure her security. Therefore she wants to secure a definite reply from them. So that she can put to rest the uncertainty about her future. She is a surrogate her concerns are genuine.. She has had some tormenting experiences of deceit in the past. Recounting her torrid times, her cynicism towards PaRi can be understood.
With passing time, Teni would realise; there are a few good people on whom she can rely upon . PaRi are the one among them.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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parth-shorvori is more concerned about their child rather than aman it reflects in their thoughts, dialouges & imagination, i don't see anything wrong if teni is selfishly worried about her future n wants to marry aman after giving birth to the baby since after this event she may not find her suitable partner hence she is thinking what will be wrong in marrying someone who is already in love with her though she isn't? cause his love for her will eventually force her to love him. we can't say this is completely an arrange marriage since one person in this relationship is fully in love with the other n other one is yet to fall in love with him.
some people are expecting a love triangle between shorvori-parth-teni but would you people please tell me what will teni get in the end by loving parth? not only that even these same people will blame teni for destroying their lovable pair's relationship, their chemistry n all that. in the end teni will be forced to leave her love, her child, her dreams n everything else n this triangle will only leave a deep scratch, a scar in parth-shorvori's relation, so isn't it better to make two different pair n showing the ups n downs of their lives?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Ariel_

parth-shorvori is more concerned about their child rather than aman it reflects in their thoughts, dialouges & imagination, i don't see anything wrong if teni is selfishly worried about her future n wants to marry aman after giving birth to the baby since after this event she may not find her suitable partner hence she is thinking what will be wrong in marrying someone who is already in love with her though she isn't? cause his love for her will eventually force her to love him. we can't say this is completely an arrange marriage since one person in this relationship is fully in love with the other n other one is yet to fall in love with him.
some people are expecting a love triangle between shorvori-parth-teni but would you people please tell me what will teni get in the end by loving parth? not only that even these same people will blame teni for destroying their lovable pair's relationship, their chemistry n all that. in the end teni will be forced to leave her love, her child, her dreams n everything else n this triangle will only leave a deep scratch, a scar in parth-shorvori's relation, so isn't it better to make two different pair n showing the ups n downs of their lives?


Parth clearly said it yesterday that it will be wrong with Aman if Teni marries him just out of her insecurities. Yes, their primary concern is their baby which is quite natural, but at the same time their yesterday's conversation showed that they are not happy with the way Teni has agreed to marry Aman and it clearly has nothing to do with the baby.


Doubting about Teni's intentions behind the marriage doesn't necessarily mean not wanting Teni to get into that relationship or supporting love triangle or expecting Teni to love Parth in future. What we are just trying to say is, Parth-Shorvori's perspective that Teni has taken the decision hurriedly and out of insecurity about her future, isn't wrong. As far as the lovable pair's relationship and chemistry is concerned, it has been shown umpteen number of times that nothing can destroy that, so there will never be any question of blaming anyone for something that is not going to happen.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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In several posts we have repeatedly indicated regarding the characters as ordinary human beings. If PaRi are being selfish for their child, this should be understood as genuine concern of parents. If PaRi causes to be a stumbling block in the personal life of Teni, then they have to take the blame. Viewers are putting them in the dock for their over engagement in Teni's personal matter. Viewers are conveniently forgetting, so far PaRi have not encroached upon Teni idea to live life on her own terms. They are trying to explain Teni , the tricky situation, all three are in.
Free willed Teni can never allow anyone to overrule her decisions. She thinks fit to marry Aman, so she is going ahead to tie the knot. Teni is strong. She is bold, she feels her decisions would prove to be right for her in the long run.
It is the custom of the Sensibles not to take decsion in haste. without considering the consequences of the matter. PaRi and Teni are exactly the opposite. They lacked the patience to reflect over their decisions. Leaving upon the faith to do the work of soul searching. If luck would favour them then things might turn out as per their plans, or they can land themselves in deepest misery.
We are discussing about fictitious characters. All three are the favourites. Hence would not like to disturb the peace of all real ones for reel ones.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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actually senal and her mother gave the wrong image of pari .. saying she married for money .. and teni now thinking the same .. secure her future.and fall in love in love with aman later .. lol

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: smiles_uk

actually senal and her mother gave the wrong image of pari .. saying she married for money .. and teni now thinking the same .. secure her future.and fall in love in love with aman later .. lol


Actually you're right. They were once talking in front of Teni about how her sister (i.e; Shorvari) charmed Parth and got settled well and now Teni also following the same path by charming Aman. Maybe that got into her head and made her think that Shorvari must have done this with similar intentions. But knowing their nature she must have been more careful in judging Shorvari by the words of those two vengeful ladies.

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