Dushman 1971 and Do aankhe Barah Haath - Page 2

Originally posted by: Geekyglasses22

tibs di...

i appreciate the comparison and really forgiveness is a noble virtue...and yes mehek can forgive him...she will...and of course di..loving and caring for someone who is indirectly the murderer of someone's parents is a different perspective altogether...i dont really think its even possible...after all conscience will be pointing at him or her every time..

how much understanding a person u may be...but will u be able to answer urself that u love a murderer...and why is it that u cant leave him??

will she be an ever compromising person?? someday when they would have a fight she'll also let her frustration drain through and she would obviously remind him of this!!!

i dont understand much and i should not say much..

but i do vote for a lovestory

Absolutely Appu ... you said it better than me ..
This was exactly the point I was making

Originally posted by: dsr11

a lot of stories we hear about these pativrata women are written by men. May be its their idea of how they want women to be! I wonder if any woman has written such a story?

I have a very subjective thinking and that's the reason why I get emotionally involved in a stupid tv soap! I always put myself in others' shoes and see what I would do in a similar situation. I am also a very optimistic person and I always want to look at the bright side in any situation. I don't give up on anyone or anything I put my heart to. So in my perspective, I would be able to forgive all of his crimes including the accident, but I would never be able to live with that man for the rest of my life and make babies with him!🤢

Totally

Girls I remembered Tum bin a movie which i saw when in high school and loved it...a remorseful Shekhar moved to Canada and helps out the family of a person he accidentally killed and falls in love with his fiancee...that time I was convinced that he needs to be forgiven as it was an accident after all and he was so remorseful. Was it the hero (Priyanshu Chatterjee) or the direction (Anurag Basu) or the songs or my immaturity don't know what convinced me then but now in SK MS context I am not convinced that he should be forgiven as Mahek usually keeps every one else above her own feelings...

Originally posted by: shalini_sen

Girls I remembered Tum bin a movie which i saw when in high school and loved it...a remorseful Shekhar moved to Canada and helps out the family of a person he accidentally killed and falls in love with his fiancee...that time I was convinced that he needs to be forgiven as it was an accident after all and he was so remorseful. Was it the hero (Priyanshu Chatterjee) or the direction (Anurag Basu) or the songs or my immaturity don't know what convinced me then but now in SK MS context I am not convinced that he should be forgiven as Mahek usually keeps every one else above her own feelings...

I am actually depressed at this twist and I don't like love stories with a tragic end but finding it difficult to accept the scenario where a hero always goes away with whatever he does how much disgraceful or heinous a crime may be...I feel sad that the production houses and cvs play with our intelligence and emotions all the time...be it recipe chor bhagora dulha or a junior Salman Khan killing people and we have to accept every time whatever non sense they serve us!!!

Very well said Shalini ..

Tibs- I've watched two Korean dramas where the FLs fall for guys who were held responsible for the death of their family members. Can't recall watching any Indian content with this theme.

In one the FL falls for her sister's BF who in someway caused the accident that killed her. They struggle with the fact and their love for each other and then decide to be together asking the sis' forgiveness. The hero won't directly be responsible, the sis herself drives, I watched long time ago and this is what I remember.

In real life instances of forgiving someone who had killed a family member, I can quote the case of the Staines. Graham Staines and his sons were burnt alive in India by a religious mob and later his wife forgave the criminals and she continued to live & serve in India.

Another one is a documentary of an American woman adopting her son's murderer and helping him in rehab.

And I too signed up for a love story with a happy ending.

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Tibs- I've watched two Korean dramas where the FLs fall for
guys who were held responsible for the death of their family members. Can't recall
watching any Indian content with this theme.

In one the FL falls for her sister's BF who in someway
caused the accident that killed her. They struggle with the fact and their love
for each other and then decide to be together asking the sis' forgiveness. The
hero won't directly be responsible, the sis herself drives, I watched long time
ago and this is what I remember.

In real life instances of forgiving someone who had killed a
family member, I can quote the case of the Staines.
Graham Staines and his sons were burnt alive in India
by a religious mob and later his wife forgave the criminals and she continued
to live & serve in India.

Another one is a documentary of an American woman adopting
her son's murderer and helping him in rehab.

And

And I too signed up for a love story with a happy ending.

Sims and that is my point .. forgiving is easier ...loving an individual or having a spousal relationship is very different...
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One will not be able to live with that guilt ...

Hmm...thanks for sharing these info tibs ...never watched these movies...