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Yesterday I felt very bad for karuna when shaurya accused her cheating him and lieing to him and when he said to mehek that today he felt that he is her step son.i was very angry on shaurya and like how both times mehek shushed him.
But then one thing came in my mind my relationship with my family .i m very open with my parents can speak rubbish things with them and I guess that's why what ever comes my mind when I m in anger I just blurt it out many times I have hurted my Mom , dad ,sister in that phase and after getting calm down I reliese what I have done and immediately ask for their sorry
mother and sister forgive me easily but my Dad keeps on taunting me for 2-3 days.
I work in Delhi and have my college friends there many times we make plans and I get late to reach home and my parents in my hometown wait for me till I don't call them about reaching my place. It happens 2-3 times that I was late and had came by cab and my parents lashed out at me. At that point of time I was like that I m not more a kid, I m 25 ,not a dump person who can't handle my self . It really pissed me off they always tries to interfere in my time with my friends and I use to talk harsh with them forgetting all the times when my parents were the most supportive parents.
What I mean is anger destroys all our senses and thinking ability and trust me I m never proud of that, instead my sister calm me later on by explaining me the others point of view.now I m more relax person.
Same happens with shaurya anger is his first expression specially on people's whom he can shower his anger like his colleagues, people working under him and his so called family and people who are most important to him ie mehek and his mom. Which is entirely wrong.
Success comes with proud and that makes it bad. It doesn't mean they are bad people ,it's just they are not among those favorite people. where as people who are successful and are humble are people's favorite. Sachin Tendulkar is one my favorite celebrity person not just bcoz he is god of cricket but bcoz of his simplicity and humble nature.
Mehek here is a very calmed person she always thinks with mind trying to understand both the parties POV. Though she has this feeling of sacrifice a lot which I don't appreciate that much but she is a sweetheart .shaurya is lucky to have a person like mehek as his life partner and hope he treaser her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: richasharma0991

Yesterday I felt very bad for karuna when shaurya accused her cheating him and lieing to him and when he said to mehek that today he felt that he is her step son.i was very angry on shaurya and like how both times mehek shushed him.

But then one thing came in my mind my relationship with my family .i m very open with my parents can speak rubbish things with them and I guess that's why what ever comes my mind when I m in anger I just blurt it out many times I have hurted my Mom , dad ,sister in that phase and after getting calm down I reliese what I have done and immediately ask for their sorry
mother and sister forgive me easily but my Dad keeps on taunting me for 2-3 days.
I work in Delhi and have my college friends there many times we make plans and I get late to reach home and my parents in my hometown wait for me till I don't call them about reaching my place. It happens 2-3 times that I was late and had came by cab and my parents lashed out at me. At that point of time I was like that I m not more a kid, I m 25 ,not a dump person who can't handle my self . It really pissed me off they always tries to interfere in my time with my friends and I use to talk harsh with them forgetting all the times when my parents were the most supportive parents.
What I mean is anger destroys all our senses and thinking ability and trust me I m never proud of that, instead my sister calm me later on by explaining me the others point of view.now I m more relax person.
Same happens with shaurya anger is his first expression specially on people's whom he can shower his anger like his colleagues, people working under him and his so called family and people who are most important to him ie mehek and his mom. Which is entirely wrong.
Success comes with proud and that makes it bad. It doesn't mean they are bad people ,it's just they are not among those favorite people. where as people who are successful and are humble are people's favorite. Sachin Tendulkar is one my favorite celebrity person not just bcoz he is god of cricket but bcoz of his simplicity and humble nature.
Mehek here is a very calmed person she always thinks with mind trying to understand both the parties POV. Though she has this feeling of sacrifice a lot which I don't appreciate that much but she is a sweetheart .shaurya is lucky to have a person like mehek as his life partner and hope he treaser her.


Richa we usually end up hurting the people we love the most. Coz we know we have their unconditional love and nothing can make it go away. Parents worried for children is a natural thing that comes with parenting. Even if we are 60 years old ,w e will be children to them. We'll understand them better when we go through the same phase as parents. It's my experience. Shaurya also hurts the people he loves and cares the most. But he is learning anger management slowly with the influence of Mehek. Way to go Mehek, reform this hard nut to crack KK.😃😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anger I really a bad it destroys persons mind,Anger is like a volcano when it comes out it burns everything around it,so it is better to be cool and calm and get things sort.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post richa agree with u...
Yup its Humans basic nature to hurt the most loved one's wen they are hurt...
I have never seen SK raising his voice on his mother ...
But yesterday wen felt that she hid the truth of his granny being alive ..he blurted out and was hurt very much..
But I guess this time he has mehak to tell him the depth of all situation...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Same was the case with me. I too hurt my parents n family in my anger,when I was frustrated because of some personal issues.
Very nice post,richa.👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post Richa ... completely agree with you...
But it's parents love and care for us .. they are more bothered about your safety... Delhi isn't a safe place to live alone..

It's not any restriction...it's their fear ...and you will understand it when you became a parent😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shamrouz

Great post Richa ... completely agree with you...

But it's parents love and care for us .. they are more bothered about your safety... Delhi isn't a safe place to live alone..

It's not any restriction...it's their fear ...and you will understand it when you became a parent😛

I totally understand their point but when I m angry I m blind but now I m dealing with my younger brother he is my baby .now l di understand their point, also my brothers POV. .😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: richasharma0991

I totally understand their point but when I m angry I m blind but now I m dealing with my younger brother he is my baby .now l di understand their point, also my brothers POV. .😊


We get matured with time 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shamrouz

Great post Richa ... completely agree with you...

But it's parents love and care for us .. they are more bothered about your safety... Delhi isn't a safe place to live alone..

It's not any restriction...it's their fear ...and you will understand it when you became a parent😛


Tumhari ye jurrrat! Dilli ko unsafe bola!

Jis sheher mein Shaurya aur mEhak.. raat raat ko pwg, vasant kunj etc mein with no care in the world ghoomte hain.. usi sheher ko unsafe bola!

Nahiii 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santiago24


Tumhari ye jurrrat! Dilli ko unsafe bola!

Jis sheher mein Shaurya aur mEhak.. raat raat ko pwg, vasant kunj etc mein with no care in the world ghoomte hain.. usi sheher ko unsafe bola!

Nahiii 🤣

Mehek ke pass Uska personal bodyguard hai aur Madam handsome king personal nurse😆

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