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harneet.kh

@harneet.kh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Darciny

Just keep on ignoring them. They are blaming some people for being judgmental while all the while they themselves are being judgmental on people who are just discussing fictional characters

So true! Why should I spoil my day by even reading their nonsense, it's better to ignore...thanks😊

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Y12345

@Y12345

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: harneet.kh

So true! Why should I spoil my day by even reading their nonsense, it's better to ignore...thanks😊

@TM : I don't think I've bashed anyone, I just disagreed with you.

Yep you were not even serious or what word you used-> Casual. But I seriously hope that people who are dealing with any kind of mental issues do not read this post of yours, which is so judgmental, with stereotypes and obsolete mentality.. which you decided to hide with so called humor.

Have a great day!

@Darciny: If you read my first post well, you would surely noticed that I never said Maya is not 'fictional'

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Darciny

@Darciny

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

@Y12345. My post wasn't directed at you. It's always okay to disagree and have a different opinion from someone else as long as we are being respectful about it.

No hard feelings!!😊

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HippoSucks

@HippoSucks

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Y12345

Read my post again, I said some cannot be cured completely but can be alleviated. It all depends but that doesn't mean that people with mental illness are condemned forever.

Firstly, she is a human, when she faced abuse when she was 9, she needed that support which she didn't get. She tried to maintain ;relationships but she got someone who didn't even love her and a so called best friend who only made her insecurities grow. Someone who is a victim, of abuse finds it difficult to maintain relationships, because society look down on them and also victims tend to remain in a shell so that they don't face others.
And to my knowledge, there is something in psychology, I will put in simple terms so that you understand: is that sometimes victims are so traumatized by certain behavior, that they replicate the same thing to others.It's a disorder and We seriously don't need a PHD to understand that.

You said "some are not that easy to be cured completely" implying they can still be cured.

She struggled to maintain relationships because of her own behavior, not because of her past (which anyone else barely knows about). In the show, she has been shown to be very outspoken, and she definitely hasn't "remained in a shell so that she doesn't face others". I don't care if she is repeating what she suffered, the fact that she is repeating it causes others to not want to stay with her. You can't force others to love her just because she had a rough past.

"I will put in simple terms so that you understand"

Please change your condescending tone when replying to me.

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HippoSucks

@HippoSucks

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: manya_roy

When you said what Maya has done to deserve love and support, I was laughing my ass out on your thought process. Matlab family ko uska ilaaj tabhi karana chahiye jab voh tulsi ya parvati ban jaaye?
Aise case mein medical help aur support ki zarurat hi nahi padti!

She has no family right now. She killed her father (who wouldn't help her out anyway) and made her mother paralyzed. If she wants to have new relationships, she has to build them herself. Arjun and his family aren't doing some charity where they go and marry mentally ill people to help them heal. If Maya wants to feel loved, she has to change her behaviour first.

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Y12345

@Y12345

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: HippoSucks

You said "some are not that easy to be cured completely" implying they can still be cured.

She struggled to maintain relationships because of her own behavior, not because of her past (which anyone else barely knows about). In the show, she has been shown to be very outspoken, and she definitely hasn't "remained in a shell so that she doesn't face others". I don't care if she is repeating what she suffered, the fact that she is repeating it causes others to not want to stay with her. You can't force others to love her just because she had a rough past.

"I will put in simple terms so that you understand"

Please change your condescending tone when replying to me.

Bold: That was not intended.

Blue: Yes, because of her own behavior which was due to her past.

Red: That you will never know. Just because someone is outspoken doesn't mean that something isnt killing her inside.

Pink: That's somewhat true but she deserved that love, right? And you said earlier that she doesn't deserve it. So, just because she had some rough past, and is unable to handle relationships, doesn't mean that she doesn't deserve love. And that's the point, she always craved for love, that's why she tried to force others to love her. Just a food for thought ques: Do you think that if she got someone/a family who loved her unconditionally , she would be so obsessed and force/cage people?

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