i wish woman protest against this show

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So when Ishwari committed a crime of stealing that was real then it's forgiven by Dev, he is her laadla son so understandableBut when Sona's father was accused of stealing money from Dev then it was a huge mistake and he was accidentally slapped and the daughter was kicked out Now, son forgave his mother troubled his ex-wife and her father, no focus on that and Sona holds no grudges, interesting plot.
How are ladies tolerating this show? I wish woman protest against this show like they did for Ekta Kapoor shows in the past, they are showing a regressive behavior of Men and nothing encouraging is shown for a bahu.
Seriously, if this stealing was done by Sona for good cause then Dev might had called her by names or insulted her or so.. Very unfair to female lead.

Shows like these should be banned.

Apologies if someone likes the show and want to stick to it, initially, I liked it too but it's being in favor of Wrong Mother and Son or say Dixits. I am too sensitive to these issues I think but when one wrong person is favored. With rising cases of violence against woman, serials like these certainly holds responsibility for shaping mindsets as these serials are watched by Men and women like Ishwari in India and could lead them to conclude that their behavior is justified and hurting bahus and their families is less offence.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ye sab desi serial ka routine ho Gaya Hain. After all they all sell ,insults ,abuse ,Stalking, obsession as lou .sab show bolte Hain Humara show different and progressive Hain in the end different bottle and same wine hi dete Hain.😆 indian television main reforms hona abhi toh dream ki baat Hain.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am totally confused and fail to understand the message from this track... It is just leading to different directions and landing nowhere... Good lord!!! Where am I????


What is the CVS up to??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose_grace

So when Ishwari committed a crime of stealing that was real then it's forgiven by Dev, he is her laadla son so understandableBut when Sona's father was accused of stealing money from Dev then it was a huge mistake and he was accidentally slapped and the daughter was kicked out Now, son forgave his mother troubled his ex-wife and her father, no focus on that and Sona holds no grudges, interesting plot.
How are ladies tolerating this show? I wish woman protest against this show like they did for Ekta Kapoor shows in the past, they are showing a regressive behavior of Men and nothing encouraging is shown for a bahu.
Seriously, if this stealing was done by Sona for good cause then Dev might had called her by names or insulted her or so.. Very unfair to female lead.

Shows like these should be banned.

Apologies if someone likes the show and want to stick to it, initially, I liked it too but it's being in favor of Wrong Mother and Son or say Dixits. I am too sensitive to these issues I think but when one wrong person is favored. With rising cases of violence against woman, serials like these certainly holds responsibility for shaping mindsets as these serials are watched by Men and women like Ishwari in India and could lead them to conclude that their behavior is justified and hurting bahus and their families is less offence.
I am Sorry for being too emotional



i agreee with u too totally
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Posted: 9 years ago
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CVs don't care. I have been protesting for a long time against regressive track. But nothing happened.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For what its worth, I agree with you 100 %. Even I have a single parent in law and faced many issues( posted my story in the forum couple weeks ago) but this show makes me feel I am so lucky to have the family and husband I have. They never went as low as Ishwari and Dev did.

For me, the moment Dev disrespected his wife by asked her to leave the house, and stood by silently when his family members did the same, at the moment, he broke the sacred vows of marriage. Vows of forever bring there with his wife and being her protector.
After that point, there is no marriage and there is nothing to save. And I do not understand how CVS have tried to beat around the bush and not address this issue. Instead they have shown Sona to accept her part as equal in the breaking of the marriage.Which is absolutely not right for how they triggered the separation.
And btw, this is the same mother and brother who supported Neha on her divorce issue. Talk about double standards..but the show always has been like that.

This is first show, in which male lead cries and uses more glycerin than female lead, while she is calm and composed. He feels guilty, he cries..feels like blaming others, he cries, he feels bad for mom, he cries, feels bad for himself he cries, tomorrow if he feels bad for Sona, he will again cry. They have shown such a crybaby...rather than a MAN who can accept his mistakes and try it make up, make it right, and make sure he keeps his loved ones closed and balanced.

I feel a lot is moving and changing offscreen, and not just about Shaheers travelling. The fact that they are doing product placement means the show is at its end. Have seen that before. Also seems that Supriya ji is not happy with her role , as in her long absence.

The separation was forces, but patch up was pathetic and silly in my opinion. I know a lot of people are going ga-ga over the patchup just happy to see them together similing or hugging, but none of it made sense to me..so I left it there. They had a lot of scope for a meaningful mature story, they lost it.

I myself hate the regressiveness, and the way they have bent Sona rather than showing her strong and self respectful.
Watch Humsafar or Zindagi Gulzar Hai..pakistani shows,...such maturity and thoughful characters .

I agree, shows like these where they show women to be too accepting of the nonsense around them , should not be allowed.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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There is some forum when you can complain
It is shown at start of show...

Such complain was made for qubool hai show also

I think someone should find outthe details and complain
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whatever u ve said is completely true but u know what we are a bunch of few who have this point of view. Most of the fandom loves the show and find reasons to justify Dev's behaviour and since he supports Ishwari indirectly her behaviour too. They just want Dev Sona reunion at any cost and will be happy to see their cute romantic scenes however illogical and stupid they might sound. And I guess the makers are catering to their needs. Msg to society and what it teaches can go to hell. Till the mentality of the audience doesn't change the shows will also never change. But I m happy and proud of being part of such a group of women who r independent, have their own opinion and are not ready to tolerate any nonsense. Society is changing but alas this change is so slow paced.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I told the same to the makers on Instagram that this show is a shame on women and her struggles.If my brother ever behaved the way Dev did with Sona my Parents would have thrown him out of the house.But what's more appalling is people selling this shit in the name of reality , I pray to lord that even my enemy should not get a husband like Dev 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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pls guys if u want to spred negativity then stop watching show but pls do not say such things ok rahi baaat dev ki tho galti dono ki thiana dev.ki jadaa thi lakin thi tho dono ki aur dev ne apni galti mani hai so plsss yr do not say all this

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