Hatred- more or less??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey-a peeps!
My friends over K AT asked me to copy-paste my views on Omkara's hatred for Gauri-
So here you go😆-

I would just say that, he is a man with lots and lots of flaws(that's what makes him attractive), and please keep a tab on his flaws before being judgmental over him🤣

He is a man , who always views the world on his terms, yes accepts people the way they are, and analyse their behavior very well, BUT he has his own sets of rules before being in his good books.
He visualizes the world as black or white, grey doesn't exist for him. So people are either good or bad, there's nothing in between. He don't know about the language of compromise and majboori, he believes that it's your personality which defines your actions, not the circumstances.And of course he is a hypocrite of highest order.😎

He didn't pay heed to Ridhima's pleas. He didn't try to find out what were her motives to lie him, if she has been cheated or not, or what is her state, he directly gave a verdict that he has been cheated, and that's it. And they had a relationship of 3 years...

Leave everything, he didn't even hinder in passing on his judgmental views about his brother Shivaay, and what's more, that moment Shivaay's circumstance was to save the man himself Omkara!

During Rakshabandhan, when he got to know that someone (his aunt)has made a ploy to frame Omkara and send him to jail, Shivaay's immediately rushed off to handle the situation, in the process he unintentionally hurt Prinku on her special day.
Omkara didn't see the other side, he brutally announced that, "Shivaay is only a businessman, he doesn't care about his family. He is heartless."
This words were more painful than a physical blow for a man like Shivaay.

So if Omkara didn't even spare his dear brother,his Dhadhkan from the judgemental view, then where does Gauri Kumari Sharma stand???

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Posted: 8 years ago
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brilliantly said and agree with all u said thats yes our Omkara we LOVE ..gauri just an ajnabi for him but still he saved her life kyun ki akhir omkara omkara hi hai ...superb post thanks for this some ppl really need to know how omkara chrctr is ..he isnt like typicl hero angry young man typ 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is the same om who didn't believe anika leaked that chip.that time he didn't even know anika properly. Still he stands for her and believes may be she didn't leaked that chip.so om can think both side of a situation. Maybe after that his thinking skill got freezed.he become impulsive , without thinking about the situation he jumped in to the conclusion.yes om need to change. But how...he didn't getting enough time to breath because of his dramabaaz parents..I think some one need to kidnap him and lock him a room.so he can analyze about him.he will get time to thing where he is wrong or gauri's track will teach him a lesson.every thing is not a black and White.sometimes we need to lie for good...
Edited by lakshmi32 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He is right now OSO not om😆
SP had promoted his love story as journey from OSO to being om again. The difference between om and OSO is that my om was peaceful , serene, thinker, but he was always judgemental. OSO is extreme version of om.
Come back my om😭
Make idols, wear spectacle and open your hair and smile 😭
May be after the fall in love we will get om.
Right now enjoy oso😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: lakshmi32

This is the same om who didn't believe anika leaked that chip.that time he didn't even know anika properly. Still he stands for her and believes may be she didn't leaked that chip.so om can think both side of a situation. Maybe after that his thinking skill got freezed.he become impulsive , without thinking about the situation he jumped in to the conclusion.yes om need to change. But how...he didn't getting enough time to breath because of his dramabaaz parents..I think some one need to kidnap him and lock him a room.so he can analyze about him.he will get time to thing where he is wrong or gauri's track will teach him a lesson.every thing is not a black and White.sometimes we need to lie for good...

As I mentioned, he has his own sets of rules in judging people,( The Greatest flaw of Omkara) Anika fitted in perfectly since day 1, so there couldn't be otherwise.
And yes, during that incident he had his doubts on Anika thrice,he had to take help of a listener (Ishana) to think clearly and, also confirmed it with that media person, and he went there with a mind-set of 50-50,(Ankika may leak or may not ) , not with any biasness.

Simirlarly, in the case person over whom he is being judgemental now, his views over the person got a green tick, thrice- (first- Kali's voice announced , "dulhan maan gayi" ; second- Jhanvi2 didn't mention anything about the second woman's plight, and indirectly had he in bad lights; third- the villagers ,who would know the girl way better than he would,are against her and bashed her)

So it's all equal , isn't it?

Edited by OnVanvaasMode - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great analysis. Yes Om has always had "his rules" in judging a situation. However he is not irrational. He does reconcile things based on "facts" not emotions. He liked the fact that Annika was not a "yes woman" and seemed to have a spine and stood up to Shivaay. He respected her. So when S said that she leaked the chip he was not willing to take his word for it. He had some doubts time and again but he did everything to clear his doubts as well as let Shivaay know he had misjudged Annika.

In the case of Ishana he was sympathetic and understanding towards her until irrefutable envidence and a confession cemented the fact that Ishana had always had Malintentions. In the case of Ridz, he didn't listen to her because he was "emotionally involved". As far as he is concerned someone he trusts that much should KNOW not to side with Tej in an issue like getting more shares than Shivaay. In that case he was not willing to listen at all. His only line to Ridhimma "You betrayed my trust". There was nothing left to say. He was personally too hurt by what she did to give her a second chance. No trust means no relationship for Om. Full stop.

In the case of Shivaay and the Raki incident it was him being quick to judge. But again it has rationality behind it. He was judging Shivaay based on the priorities he gives to his business commitments. But he was dissapointed that he would put that before his family on a day like this. He SHOULD have known better, and he realised this. He should know that to S nothing matters more than his family. Judged him wrong totally Om. But he does this when he is emotionally involved and his personal feelings are hurt.

Enter Gauri. He saw some things that led him to think that Gauri is also a willing participant in this KT marriage fiasco. He did use some evidence that built up against her. However, here too, he was emotionally involved and his personal feelings were involved too. Reason being, the parallels of Jhanvi Thakurain to his own Mother Jhanvi Oberoi. In Om's emotionally vulnerable state, some of his rationality was not at play. Having to take Jhanvi Thakurain to the hospital and listen to the comments being made, was too much for him after what he had personally faced just a week or two before. Sometimes our personal experience and bias comes into play when we judge the world.

The saying "We don't see the world as it IS, but as WE are". THIS is what happened to Om. His hatred of Gauri was formed as a hatred for her "type". Even still his sense of Fair-play didn't let him see her killed. But now he is cursing the day he met her because thanks to his saviour act, he has now courted the wrath of a man like KT. This by itself is not an issue. But the fact that he cancelled the deal means that ALL his best laid plans have gone to waste. Total frustration is what is eating Om now. With that comes total hatred for the "cause" of his miseries. Gauri Kumari Sharma.
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dont find omkara totally wrong in blaming gauri . I can relate with omkara very well . World only see what u show it. He saw Gayri smiling, dancing etc , ab omkara ko sapna to aayega nhi ki gauri ki majboori hai, omkara ko zindagi mai aur bhi kaam hai. Omkara is very sure gauri is not with him still kali came to take revenge from him, who is suffering omkara or gauri, who lost d deal omkara or gauri. Registration nhi karaya vo dusra reason hai, is shadi se omkara kya benefit hua. Gauri ko save karliya , kt free mai dushmani le li
Edited by deepikagupta9 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@deepikagupta9:
In this case it is totally rational that Omkara would feel Gauri is the cause of his misery. Fact remains even the registration may have happened on time if he was not busy fighting with KT and his goons in Bareilly and the whole mess he faced. So in such a state he may have overlooked that part in error. Since he got back Svet has been on his case giving him trouble after trouble. The guys life is a mess.

Om never benefitted from the marriage to Gauri. In fact he has lost out. He didn't marry her for his own benefit or to save face or any such thing. He did what he felt as a human he should to stop someone from being murdered. It didn't matter to him if she was right or wrong in THAT situation. Which is what made Gauri become such a fan of his. She knew what he thought of her yet he was willing to save her.


Now Om is back to square one. He did ALL this to stop Tej from leaving Jhanvi. (Right or wrong that is not the debate here). He cracked the deal got the money and kept Svet at bay from Tej. But now KT cancels the deal, does a deal with Tej and Svet is back to running behind him. It feels like everything Om worked for for the past 2-3 months has gone to waste. WHY is KT here to ruin him? Coz he got in the middle of him and Gauri. So Om feels Gauri is the reason for his current predicament. I can't say I blame him. It's quite logical.
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My meaning of omkara not got benefitted from this marriage is gauri got saved but omkara lost his earned thing , he now again standing on zero. Many forum mates says gauri dint beg omkara 2 marry but i say gauri dint stop also, who is currently on loss omkara, gauri is safe coz she is in disguise but omkara is suffering. Kt is angry on omkara coz of gauri only, later for his brother
Edited by deepikagupta9 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Great analysis. Yes Om has always had "his rules" in judging a situation. However he is not irrational. He does reconcile things based on "facts" not emotions. He liked the fact that Annika was not a "yes woman" and seemed to have a spine and stood up to Shivaay. He respected her. So when S said that she leaked the chip he was not willing to take his word for it. He had some doubts time and again but he did everything to clear his doubts as well as let Shivaay know he had misjudged Annika.

In the case of Ishana he was sympathetic and understanding towards her until irrefutable envidence and a confession cemented the fact that Ishana had always had Malintentions. In the case of Ridz, he didn't listen to her because he was "emotionally involved". As far as he is concerned someone he trusts that much should KNOW not to side with Tej in an issue like getting more shares than Shivaay. In that case he was not willing to listen at all. His only line to Ridhimma "You betrayed my trust". There was nothing left to say. He was personally too hurt by what she did to give her a second chance. No trust means no relationship for Om. Full stop.

In the case of Shivaay and the Raki incident it was him being quick to judge. But again it has rationality behind it. He was judging Shivaay based on the priorities he gives to his business commitments. But he was dissapointed that he would put that before his family on a day like this. He SHOULD have known better, and he realised this. He should know that to S nothing matters more than his family. Judged him wrong totally Om. But he does this when he is emotionally involved and his personal feelings are hurt.

Enter Gauri. He saw some things that led him to think that Gauri is also a willing participant in this KT marriage fiasco. He did use some evidence that built up against her. However, here too, he was emotionally involved and his personal feelings were involved too. Reason being, the parallels of Jhanvi Thakurain to his own Mother Jhanvi Oberoi. In Om's emotionally vulnerable state, some of his rationality was not at play. Having to take Jhanvi Thakurain to the hospital and listen to the comments being made, was too much for him after what he had personally faced just a week or two before. Sometimes our personal experience and bias comes into play when we judge the world.

The saying "We don't see the world as it IS, but as WE are". THIS is what happened to Om. His hatred of Gauri was formed as a hatred for her "type". Even still his sense of Fair-play didn't let him see her killed. But now he is cursing the day he met her because thanks to his saviour act, he has now courted the wrath of a man like KT. This by itself is not an issue. But the fact that he cancelled the deal means that ALL his best laid plans have gone to waste. Total frustration is what is eating Om now. With that comes total hatred for the "cause" of his miseries. Gauri Kumari Sharma.

Thanks @MrDarcyfan for elaborating it out.😃 Yeah he is not the irrational one. Maybe his judgments may look a bit cynic, but if you get into his shows-it's apt.
And peeps should know that he is an emotionally invested guy.In the recent short span times he has gone through a lot in every dimensions of his life, so you can't expect the person to be the same old one. And those incidents can make anyone a living dead, must say he is coping up better. He is scarred till his soul-and those scars gets reopened everyday.

@Bold- Bingo to that!!! Actions and emotions of a person should be determined through that person's perspective, not as any 3rd umpire!

And yes, thank you for clearing out "why he didn't register the property ?" , peeps over here are very judgmentenal in judging this guy, that they forget who is he😆

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