Vandana - the great mother

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi all,

I have been criticized for bashing / giving disgusting remarks against vandana -- the best mother in town

but I don't have any regrets for it. I don't even know how some ppl sympathize with a lady [not mother ok] like her. I wont use the word "mother" here in my topic. so ppl don't thrash me and call me sick .

whats vandana's problem? what is the problem she has/had with Maya???? I know Maya is in a wrong path. she is doing bad things. ok. but what happened before marriage? why did vandana never accept maya as her DIL??? can anybody tell me with some logical reason?

reasons for Vandana rejecting Maya';
  1. superstition beliefs
  2. some pundit predictions/astrology
  3. she liked saanjh more. wanted her as her DIL at any cost, at the cost of her sons happiness also
  4. just because SHE saw maya breaking some glass and eating chilli raw. LOLLL .
  5. ashwin talking about mayas pagalpan. on wedding day. [but even before this vandana hated maya blindly]
none of the above reasons makes sense to me. she has blind hatred for Maya. this vandana is soo pathetic... she even cancelled arya honeymoon tickets. I mean can anyone b such a sadist??? like against ur own[actually stepson] son??
does Arjun even know his mom had canceled those tickets and called the police home?? does maya know?

I know currently Maya is taking wrong paths. but before she entered sharmas house ... she never harmed anyone. not Arjun, Ayaan nor vandana. then y this great lady never gave a chance to Maya? allowed her to b part of sharma family?? WHY. just blind hatred,. no reason.

now. people are showing sympathy and telling no mother shud get a fate like vandana,... poor thing... she is a mother after all. BUT BUT.. what she did to jhanvi? she rejected to take care of another mother. right? she acted soo dumb and sick by not letting another ill mother enter her house. she calls maya and jhanvi-- Pagal. she said her house would become a mental hospital. trust me in real life no mom will act this way. no!! I don't know what makes people "sympathize" with vandana. zero good deeds by that lady.

vandana to go thru hell in mayas house now, am excited!! go maya gooo

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What is your definition of hurt or harm?
Edited by agastya_muni - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: agastya_muni

What is your definition of hurt or harm?


She never tried to separate Arjun from his family. Not even from SAANJH. But was the other way around. That's what I meant.
Edited by Veronicalocks - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veronicalocks


She never tried to separate Arjun from his family. Not even from SAANJH. But was the other way around. That's what I meant.



She created doubts in the mind of sanjh so that she and arjun fight over it. She made arjun believe that the emails were sent by ashwin to sanjh when infact she was the one who sent those emails.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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believing in astrology and superstitions are her personal choice.
Maya should also learn to accept others - live and let live.

Relationships are not one way streets. If she disagrees with another, she can talk things over. At least this is what any sane person would do rather than resorting to underhand tactics.
Every mother has the right to protect their child. Which is one what Vandana did. In the end she has been proven right isn't it? She has shown the world what Maya is capable of

lets agree to disagree that Maya is a dark character in the serial.

For me harm is inflicting misery to anyone. From her staff to dealings with her family and in-laws, Maya has been inflicting harm to everyone who dares to cross her path or disagrees with her.

The serial has been subtle in showing the level to which Maya could go when confronted. Example, the death of the priest. Now you may argue that it was not shown in the serial. Perhaps not. may be it will unfold in the end but there has been enough to show how dangerous and sick Maya is to establish her character.

Liking or not liking her character is every viewers prerogative.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Because VM blindly hates Maya.
She has etched that Maya is bad in her brain and heart so much so that she refuses to see anything good in Maya! It was from the start because she is obsessed with Saanjh.

She forgot how Maya was the one who actually brought her son Arjun closer to her.
She forgot how Maya had saved her Ayaan from a drug case
She forgot how Maya had saved Saanjh's life from the fire. (Actually Saanjh also forgot)

The main problem is these so called "good/positive" characters refuse to give Maya any chance meanwhile Maya had tried her level best in winning their hearts. Infact Maya had also trusted Saanjh and did give Arjun space with Saanjh. But we all know what happened!

Maya had even gone to the extent to begging at VM's feet! I remember how Maya was hurt at her grahpravesh in the Sharma house. There also instead of feeling embarrased she made it as though Maya killed someone! I mean Maya was hurt! Can it be said that the Sharma house cause pain to Maya? Any normal person in VM's place would have felt embarrased/hurt by seeing her new DIL getting hurt on her grahpravesh but this woman VM is ridiculous!

She chose to believe that evil wolf Ashwin! I mean hadh hai!


Edited by sumz_d - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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After everything Vandana has done to Maya and the way she acted it's really difficult for me to feel sorry for her. Everytime I feel a little bit sorry for her I remember what she did. People make mistakes, but what she did was no mistake. The things she did became one of the reason why her son left and the reason for what Maya did. It's really hard to justify her actions by saying she was trying to save her son. Is that how you save a person? If you justify her wrongdoings might as well justify Mayas wrongdoings.
In yesterday's episode she was a woman who had lost everyone dear to her and was on her knee begging. I did feel sorry for her. But then she attacks Maya with a knife. Like W*F. Then for me she became the same woman who did all of those things to Maya when Maya tried her best to be a part of the Sharma family.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: agastya_muni

believing in astrology and superstitions are her personal choice.

Maya should also learn to accept others - live and let live.

Relationships are not one way streets. If she disagrees with another, she can talk things over. At least this is what any sane person would do rather than resorting to underhand tactics.
Every mother has the right to protect their child. Which is one what Vandana did. In the end she has been proven right isn't it? She has shown the world what Maya is capable of

lets agree to disagree that Maya is a dark character in the serial.

For me harm is inflicting misery to anyone. From her staff to dealings with her family and in-laws, Maya has been inflicting harm to everyone who dares to cross her path or disagrees with her.

The serial has been subtle in showing the level to which Maya could go when confronted. Example, the death of the priest. Now you may argue that it was not shown in the serial. Perhaps not. may be it will unfold in the end but there has been enough to show how dangerous and sick Maya is to establish her character.

Liking or not liking her character is every viewers prerogative.



Maya had tried her level best to win VM's heart. She had given everyone a chance. She was even OK with Arjun and Saanjh friendship, but then arjun and saanjh never respected their so called dosti wala rishta!
Arjun and Saanhj so called dosti is shamelessness!

At the holika dahan when Maya had saved Saanjh by burning her hands from the fire, then also nobody bothered to say thank you or see Maya's burnt hands.

Today Maya said a dialogue "jinn logo ko apne koshishoon ki koi ahmeat nahi hai, unn logo pe waqt zaya nahi karte" this is what Maya is made to believe because of the so called good characters.

Nobody respected Maya's Koshish.


Edited by sumz_d - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agreed.
Vandana denied that one chance to Maya which meant the world to her.

Edited by HadhSeJyada - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: chandni_barbie



She created doubts in the mind of sanjh so that she and arjun fight over it. She made arjun believe that the emails were sent by ashwin to sanjh when infact she was the one who sent those emails.


No doubt n all. Saanjh was hell bent on breaking up Arya. Maya wanted to test her. Saanjh failed. So Arjun n saanjh fought over that email drama. Saanjh deserved it. So jobless she went on to play detective.

Anyways my fault for bringing up saanjh here. My subject is only on vandana, and Maya. The Sharma family. Saanjh is outsider. So let's leave her aside.

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