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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree to the last bold red line of the post...
I hubby is also insecure, he keeps telling every now n then.. almost daily... When we r married for 5 yrs n having a daughter n expecting second...

Now after the above details do I need to say that m totally secure n know that m not gonna leave my hubby nor is he...

It's the same thing but feeling leads to hell sometime...

So these kinds of feelings do exist in real life.. n it is jus the matter to how do each take up...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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No my dear, its not this fragile...

These arguments betwn husband and wife keeps happening ...after a certain period of time , there would be few regular topics on which arguments will be there...then we reach a state where in we tell our spouse ...can we have some new topic to fight on...getting bored with this one... 😆

And abt statements like...get out , you are good for nothing , I made a mistake marrying you ...one more time and I am going home or will leave you ...blah blah are all spoken with so much confidence because ...both knows its momentary ...nothing of that sort will happen... 😆

And after a fight both will feel bad...and one of them will give in...the happiness of giving in and getting into talking terms is such a feel good factor ...but above all when you know ur spouse gave in ...that is even better...love always will find a way!!

If relationship was so fragile then our lawyers will be outnumbered with divorce cases...its very easy to stand outside a marriage and preach ...he should have done that or she should have done that ...where is his /her self respect...etc...but reality is ...when married and after a fight one of them will give in...marriage doesn't become successful because of one person...both have to put effort ...sacrifices and giving in will be done by both...and if you fall into the male/female chauvinist group ...then best to think a million times before you say YES to marriage.
😉

PS : in marriage ..you don't win alone nor do you fail alone...doesn't matter who messed up or who did good...what ever happens it affects both for good or bad.
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly my thoughts.


She could not digest the fact that her beloved son lied to her for Sonakshi and she is afraid that it might happen again if Sonakshi ever enters Dev's life again. Either Dev and Sonakshi shouldn't have hidden their affair or Ishwari should have understood the lie as a common thing any lovers would do until they are not sure of it, things would have been in a better shape now. They all would have been a happy family.



Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

Even with Sona, I think if Dev had disclosed his love to his mother without waiting for her to find out, the story would have taken a different path.

Ishwari is threatened by the love Sona has given to Dev which made him lie to her. Dev broke her trust and she is still upset about it.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very much true.👏

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

No my dear, its not this fragile...

These arguments betwn husband and wife keeps happening ...after a certain period of time , there would be few regular topics on which arguments will be there...then we reach a state where in we tell our spouse ...can we have some new topic to fight on...getting bored with this one... 😆

And abt statements like...get out , you are good for nothing , I made a mistake marrying you ...one more time and I am going home or will leave you ...blah blah are all spoken with so much confidence because ...both knows its momentary ...nothing of that sort will happen... 😆

And after a fight both will feel bad...and one of them will give in...the happiness of giving in and getting into talking terms is such a feel good factor ...but above all when you know ur spouse gave in ...that is even better...love always will find a way!!

If relationship was so fragile then our lawyers will be outnumbered with divorce cases...its very easy to stand outside a marriage and preach ...he should have done that or she should have done that ...where is his /her self respect...etc...but reality is ...when married and after a fight one of them will give in...marriage doesn't become successful because of one person...both have to put effort ...sacrifices and giving in will be done by both...and if you fall into the male/female chauvinist group ...then best to think a million times before you say YES to marriage.
😉

PS : in marriage ..you don't win alone nor do you fail alone...doesn't matter who messed up or who did good...what ever happens it affects both for good or bad.

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