Awesome episode with parallels - loved it

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow.. what an episode...I totally loved it. Now this is called showing parallels and proving Karma is a bitch.

For a change, I am glad Asha interfered and took things into her hands. I am glad she told everyone to shutup and not talk.
Bijoy is so scared of his wife 😆 so was everyone else in the house.

I also liked asha's pov that just because the person infront of you crosses all limits and becomes bartameez, we dont have to do the same.
It is good to stay in limits and my be respond logically and sternly instead of screaming and scolding... claps for that.
So Asha agrees that Dev is bartameez. point to be noted.

I am also glad she made them sit and threatened them if they dont pull their act together she will take soha and go somewhere else. I know she cant do it legally, hey bolne mein kya hai.. point is dev and sona understood what is happening and how absorbed they are in fighting that they hardly spent any time with Suhana. So lets hope there will be less yelling and screaming in Bose house and what every ppl talk - they talk sensibly and to the point.

I did not expect Dev and sona to vent out their 7 yrs frustration today and i am glad it didnt happen. they just need to behave like adults and act as team for suhana. venting frustrations will come out over a period of time - i am sure.

and then wow ... how well CVs showed the parallels

Parallel 1 : Dev cooking Soha's favorite fish vs Sona cooking Dev's favorite halwa
Dev wanted to cook for Suhana and Asha helped him ... looking at the way bijoy was gulping the fish ... it sure was tasty.
But then what happened...God had other plan .. jatin picked soha and she wanted to eat a burger and She ended up not eating what Dev cooked for her so lovingly. Point to note Dev made extra efforts to cook just like Sona made effort to cook for him when she never cooked before.. Both did this out of love.

Dev did not eat the halwa sona made as it was not edible. So what ever the reason is. Sona and Dev both were disappointed in the same way.


Parallel 2 : Soha believing that Jatin-Soha will make a good team vs Dev believing that Dev-ish were the team and Sona is the outsider. I think Soha is really very attached to Jatin. looks like he pretty much filled the father's spot all these years. They have a very strong bond.
So soha feels even though Dev is her father, Jatin and her will make a better team. Dev and Golu will be good team...
I think this is most realistic way to show how the kids feel. lets say tomorrow if vicky comes and says Golu, i love you and i want to make it up to all those missing years. i want to spend 24/7 with you. will Golu stop bonding with Dev ? no... same situation here.
So Soha and Jatin has a bond that Dev will not understand ... just like Dev believed Sona will not understand Dev-Ish bond.


So I am sure everyone understood ... jatin = Ishwari and Dev = Sona

Sona had to make extra effort to make space and time for herself and Dev. where as Dev was running after Ishwari every moment he gets and was not that worried about how alone and left out sona would feel

Similarly, Dev has to put in extra efforts to make space for himself in Soha's life with out actually disturbing an already existing and thriving Jatin-Soha bond. There will be several instances where Soha will just not consider Dev's rights or feelings and will run to Jatin as her first preference. it would be interesting to see how Dev will deal with this and create that bond with Soha.

I know some are expecting Sonakshi to tell Jatin to back off or remove him from the picture so that Dev will have all the space and time to bond with Soha.
But, i would say why... there is nothing toxic in jatin- soha relationship. He was a proxy for father all these years and Soha is really attached to him. So why should he be removed from the picture. Sona never asked Dev to remove Ishwari from the picture- so that she and Dev can bond ? that was the honeymoon that never happened right...

anyways, i loved the episode... hopefully CVS will continue to show such parallel and leading to Dev atleast understand if not repent on what he could have done to save the marriage.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For parallel 1 yes disappointment was the same. But difference is Dev did as per asha s instructions he dint use his mind there..
But in halwa scene Sona used her mind and her professional skills and messed up the food.

Both persons efforts are appreciated. But there Sona should have done what ishwari said ... And secondly here Soha don't even recognise that her father prepared lunch or dinner for her. There after knowing that dish was made by Sona he tried to cover up...

I knowing it's not worthy comparing a man with a small kid..

One appreciative thing is though Sona n Dev doesn't know cooking they tried it ..

Dev being a veggie cooking non veg is really appreciated.
Sona who don't even know ABC of cooking tried something delicious just to win his heart...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For parallel 2 .. i agree with you..
Soha knows jatin from her childhood ,she played with him , he was a fatherly figure for her.. the things children easily gets attracted to a person is
When they get what they wanted and
Person who keeps them happy
Who plays with them
Who fulfills all their wishes without any argument.

Till know it was jatin for Soha who fulfilled all her wishes .. even in today's episode it was clearly shown that the gift jatin presented to Soha was her wish to get and she got it ..

Coming to dev for Soha he is her newly found person...Soha knows the difference between jatin n Dev but the thing is she is n will be more comfortable with jatin than wit Dev because of all these years .

But Dev for sure he will have a reason to worry n feel frightened.. i mean every parent wishes their kids to tell them everything to them without any uncomforty sot hat they can advise .
It's takes a lot of time for Dev to make such space in Soha's heart. To be frank he is trying a lot.. till the time he feel jealous of jatin Soha relation it's fine but when this jealous turns into insecurity there arises the problem..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowiee

For parallel 1 yes disappointment was the same. But difference is Dev did as per asha s instructions he dint use his mind there..

But in halwa scene Sona used her mind and her professional skills and messed up the food.

Both persons efforts are appreciated. But there Sona should have done what ishwari said ... And secondly here Soha don't even recognise that her father prepared lunch or dinner for her. There after knowing that dish was made by Sona he tried to cover up...

I knowing it's not worthy comparing a man with a small kid..

One appreciative thing is though Sona n Dev doesn't know cooking they tried it ..

Dev being a veggie cooking non veg is really appreciated.
Sona who don't even know ABC of cooking tried something delicious just to win his heart...



Yes I agree.. sona was stupid to think she can make it healthy by changing the proportions. ppl who dont know cooking dont understand how important the measurements are when they are baking or preparing sweets. But none the less .. both Dev and Sona made extra efforts to please their loved ones. and both are equally disappointed for what ever reason. so the emotions are the same.
Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Really loved the post. Awesum 👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



Yes I agree.. sona was stupid to think she can make it healthy by changing the proportions. ppl who dont know cooking dont understand how important the measurements are when they are baking or preparing sweets. But none the less .. both Dev and Sona made extra efforts to please their loved ones. and both are equally disappointed for what ever reason. so the emotions are the same.
but will dev be able to relate it with sona. I think hell make comparion with ish only

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I watched after ages today going by forum comments and loved everything... parallels were there very strong vs yesterday when it was apples and oranges comparison. two times, sona was heartbroken when she planned and worked hard to do something for Dev... and he left her alone or rejected what she made. ishwari played dirty games then, but Asha with a clean heart, helped Dev... that's the difference in what Sonakshi experienced and what Dev is experiencing despite Bijoy being against him.. with valid reasons!

another thing I loved how Bose's handle all the laDaai jaghDa.. Asha took reigns in her hand and created an environment of fun and laughter whereas ishwari created and continued negativity for days with taunting, making constipated faces, saurabh learning the truth and handling it maturely and timely, Bijoy to bijoy hai😆

All this poking nose, in the name of Boses' protection he is doing..he is not even their SIL! when sona did it while she was part of the family, was told to butt out. another parralel. slowly as people learned the truth in bose house, they forgave him and moving on.

I loved how Asha is trying to tell Sonakshi, why she is lowering herself to that badtameez insaan. don't go down to his level.. let him do what he wants. good advice but tuff to do when someone so cheapaD is always looking for fight.

Precap looks great.. jealous, sulking, self pitying Dev goes complaining to Sona about Jatin. why he has to go cheap again and ask about Jatin ki kya lagta hai woh tumhaara? kya khoon ke rishte hi rishte hote hai? people who stand by you in tuff times become family.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Excllent post. Jatin - Soha shares the same bond as Dev - Golu. Soha understood that so easily while assuring Golu that she will never come between his bigcha and him as she understand their bonding.But it is too tough for Dev to realize that as he cannot think beyond family and blood relation.

Asha the mother who treats both Sona and Dev equally and scolded them equally though Dev hurt her family a lot but Ishwari, who always held Sona responsible for all faults of Dev. Another parallel is shown today.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm glad Jatin is there and he should stay. He has bonded with Soha since her birth and has been there for her always. He is so atuned with her that Soha doesn't take a moment to think he would not be the perfect partner.
He has been the mature man who has supported Sonakshi at all times yet knows where to draw the line. The scene was actually beautiful. The one where Soha and Jatin are dancing. The magical medicine. It was stunning..I am hoping against hope that CVs don't ruin his character and make him an anti hero. He needs to be there. Soha needs him to find her sanity.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I too liked today's episode😃
Agree with what you said. The parallels were drawn, but I wish Soha just tasted that dish. Children generally tend to have a bite of their favorite food no matter how full they feel! The situation was not as bad as it was handled / portrayed.

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