Exactly. Comparing anger (until it reaches abuse stage) with disrespect is like comparing snoring with calling bad names. Not at all on the same level.Asha was never isolated in her husband's home. She talked about Bijoy's anger issues. He still has them. But what used to make him angry? Her? Something she did? Or something else?
How did he treat her when angry? Fight with her? Beat her? But even in season one I saw that she fights back. A woman who has been abused can't fight back like she does without worrying about her safety.
An abused woman cowers. I have never seen any hesitation or cowering or fear from speaking her mind in front of Bijoy. That indicates that Bijoy might have ill temper, but he never mistreated Asha. On the other hand, Sona never felt confident enough about Dev to be as comfortable with him despite having a love marriage because how Dev reacted every single time Sona tried to question or speak her mind. That's cowering and fear of speaking her mind. Not the symptoms Asha portrayed.
On the other hand, Dev had screamed at Sona, treated her with disrespect, watched her getting insulted by his family and was a grade A jerk to her family who is by the way, Asha's family too.
So no. There is zero comparison here.
Apples and Oranges can't be compared. And this is an Apple and Orange situation.
And let's not forget, Asha said that Bijoy and her worked on their solution together. What did Dev work together with Sona except continuously telling her to be understanding and leaving her alone when she needed him the most? Heck he could not even adjust with a frigging swing in his room.
The man who didn't even slap back his son-in-law when he slapped him, can't have anger issues large enough to raise alarm flag. Even in burning anger and boiling hate, Bijoy Bose didn't raise his hand on anyone. Dev has. And that's where any comparison ends.
Edited by Tia.0 - 8 years ago
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