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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: krish8090

it is the right and duty of a married woman to stay with husband, take care of husband and always support her parents irrespective of any situation.leaving husband for parents or leaving parents for husband, is not a good thing.

the above lines equally appear for married men also.



Its an ideal situation. Problem starts when the husband, saas, and other family memvers do not respect her. Should she remain silent doormat and accept as her destiny? Tyag kee moorti and remain as pair kee juti of pati parmeshwar

Mera Pati mera devta hai😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly, she's a joke.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. This is third time she's ready to be bewakoof. I don't know which adjective should I use for her? 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Not sure why I am shocked with the quality of posts on India forum but in the context of the show:

1. Bijoy is wrong. He's more motivated by hatred than the best interests of his granddaughter and daughter
2. Sonakshi is an idiot for allowing herself to be manipulated by a 6 year old. Yes, all children like the idea of a two parent home but it's Sona's responsibility to put her foot down and make her kid understand.
3. Sonakshi is a bigger idiot for not calling out her father for taking decisions about HER daughter. Grandparents have some rights but a parent's right (especially a functional parent) trumps that of grandparents
4. Dev is an idiot. Period.

To be clear, the minute you are a parent your child should take precedence over your own parents. If the choice is between best interests of child vs best interest of parents/in laws whoever, child has to win every single time. Otherwise you are most definitely a failed parent.

It's shocking that the show and posters in this board throw the word feminist around like it's an insult. It's time people read up aboht the movement and what it stands for.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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After reading your post I have a doubt. You are holding Sonakshi responsible that Bijoy is not able to enjoy his sons ashirvad ceremony. But wasn't Bijoy not attending it anyway. Did Bijoy think even for a minute about Saurabh before saying to Asha I will leave for Kolkata, you come there finishing the ceremony. How can Sonakshi ruin it for Bijoy when he himself doesn't think it is important for him to be there for his only sons ashirvad ceremony.

Does this act of Bijoy not proof enough that he is consumed by his happiness and fails to consider anybody else's feelings. I did not find him any different than Ishwari in his selfishness and discrimination among his kids. He totally ignored how Saurabh would feel his if his father was not there with him on his important day.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayu1982

Firstly child point of view as per my mental capacity - suhana Bose is acting like 6 year old girl finally. H
A child always wants to stay parents until and unless she or he witness unpleasant experience.
Suhana don't understand the complexity of the Devakshi relationship but her mental level is kaati- baati type. When she saw her parents are almost normal like any other parents , then the desire to stay as family becomes strong in her mind.
It is most natural feeling of the universe.

Recently I have worked with disable young kids- When they were asked what is the most traumasting factor of their life?
Answer was not by one but by all - When our parents are fighting with each other. We want to stay with our parents and don't want to choose one.

Now Sonakshi as a mother and as a daughter - Sonakshi is wonderful daughter in my point of view . Yes she has some flaws but that is perfectly normal as a human being . She has fought for baba's self respect with issueworry and dev . Try to recall all scenes before leap . Is she not taking care of Bose family ?
Is she misbehaving with bose for no reason ? Just because she has now decided to stay with so called arrangement with dev Dixit - doesn't make her wrong , shameless and characterless ( at least not in my point of view ) .

After having kids - is it wrong to think about kids and their future ?
Is it wrong to compromise for kids ?

Is it wrong to forgive anyone for the future of kid?

Is child 's future is not important for the grand parents ?


If bujoy is one percent good person then he himself would have supported Sonakshi and tried to help her explaining suhana . But rather Bujoy doesn't think about suhana , all he wants is his hatred for dev Dixit should win in any cost ??



Exactly my pov..
You summed it beautifully for some hyper minds..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayu1982

Firstly child point of view as per my mental capacity - suhana Bose is acting like 6 year old girl finally. H
A child always wants to stay parents until and unless she or he witness unpleasant experience.
Suhana don't understand the complexity of the Devakshi relationship but her mental level is kaati- baati type. When she saw her parents are almost normal like any other parents , then the desire to stay as family becomes strong in her mind.
It is most natural feeling of the universe.

Recently I have worked with disable young kids- When they were asked what is the most traumasting factor of their life?
Answer was not by one but by all - When our parents are fighting with each other. We want to stay with our parents and don't want to choose one.

Now Sonakshi as a mother and as a daughter - Sonakshi is wonderful daughter in my point of view . Yes she has some flaws but that is perfectly normal as a human being . She has fought for baba's self respect with issueworry and dev . Try to recall all scenes before leap . Is she not taking care of Bose family ?
Is she misbehaving with bose for no reason ? Just because she has now decided to stay with so called arrangement with dev Dixit - doesn't make her wrong , shameless and characterless ( at least not in my point of view ) .

After having kids - is it wrong to think about kids and their future ?
Is it wrong to compromise for kids ?

Is it wrong to forgive anyone for the future of kid?

Is child 's future is not important for the grand parents ?


If bujoy is one percent good person then he himself would have supported Sonakshi and tried to help her explaining suhana . But rather Bujoy doesn't think about suhana , all he wants is his hatred for dev Dixit should win in any cost ??




Mayu I agree with every thing you said...you are spot on at analyzing Sonakshi and her decision..there is one point I would have preferred the CVs to show...this arrangement of staying at each others house should have happened after Sourabh's wedding . Dev and Sonakshi should have considered that factor...

I think this was done to get Dev involved in Saurabh 's wedding ceremony...and show some romance betwn the two ...otherwise I don't see a reason for this arrangement .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



Mayu I agree with every thing you said...you are spot on at analyzing Sonakshi and her decision..there is one point I would have preferred the CVs to show...this arrangement of staying at each others house should have happened after Sourabh's wedding . Dev and Sonakshi should have considered that factor...

I think this was done to get Dev involved in Saurabh 's wedding ceremony...and show some romance betwn the two ...otherwise I don't see a reason
for this arrangement .




Exactly dear
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End of the day it's serial close to reality but not reality

Dev is the hero of the story Aab hero should be present in wedding function

Rather am also expecting issueworry, mamaji and ex GKB to be present in saurabh Dada's wedding
May be they will cut the bill in the name of suhana again

Suhana Ko dadi se milna and all that

After all GKB prod is again spending money on wedding function so every actor should be presnent in the function .




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi

After reading your post I have a doubt. You are holding Sonakshi responsible that Bijoy is not able to enjoy his sons ashirvad ceremony. But wasn't Bijoy not attending it anyway. Did Bijoy think even for a minute about Saurabh before saying to Asha I will leave for Kolkata, you come there finishing the ceremony. How can Sonakshi ruin it for Bijoy when he himself doesn't think it is important for him to be there for his only sons ashirvad ceremony.

Does this act of Bijoy not proof enough that he is consumed by his happiness and fails to consider anybody else's feelings. I did not find him any different than Ishwari in his selfishness and discrimination among his kids. He totally ignored how Saurabh would feel his if his father was not there with him on his important day.




well said , when he himself doesn't feel bad to miss Sourabh's marriage occasions,who is sona to spoil anything...

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