Is the deal worth the family?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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If the new promo and spoilers indicate anything the couple will go for the movie-version surrogacy (even if we can call it a surrogacy). I really wonder if the family is worth all of it?
The head of the family rejected Shorvori over class and caste difference. He readily turned his face away from every relationship between him and Parth. Non of the family members, except the younger brother and his wife, supported Parth's decision to marry his beloved. Clearly this family is as selfish as one can get! All they care about is their own pride, status and blood. I do not say that such families do not exist but i do not really see such families worth any efforts.
Parth and Shorvori are taking a huge risk by opting for physical intimacy between Parth and Teni just for a child.
I know they won't back off but it would have been better to back off from this whole surrogacy deal and adopt a child from orphanage. It's better to leave the house and live independently. If the family really loves Parth, they would soon accept his decision and understand the reason behind couple's decision to go for adoption. Parth did not exactly commit the biggest sin by choosing his own life partner. On top of that, Shorvori is not even a troublemaker wife. She has done her best to maintain peace and harmony between the family and son. Parth might had been rebellious about this aspect of his life but not wrong. The family is clearly overreacting and selfish! Parth and Shorovori are bringing a huge trouble in their relationship for some absolutely selfish and uncaring people.
If Parth's family can break relations over such small issues than they really don't know how to be a true family.

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MIKELA thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Secondo me, DEVE Essere un sogno di Shorvori 😊
Vi ricordate Che Teeni AVEVA Detto un Shorvori, Che lei Passer una notte con Parth, e lei non Riuscir di salvare Parth 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even I agree, they could have moved out an adopt. Who to say that child they adopt wouldn't bring the family together. But this is all a test for the two lovers. I also think the show will take a different route from the actual movie. It won't exactly be the same. I love teni character a lot, she brings light to the show. I wish they would all get along, an help each other grow.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with you Libs... I can only add that this is obviously a problem of a society...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I completely agree with you Libs.
Precap indicates that Parth and Teni will have physical intimacy to get the child. All these efforts are not worth for their family.

Imagine, so many decisions taken under pressure just because they have to let the family believe that Shorvari is "still" pregnant?

In fact, I always wondered why PaRi stayed in the family for two long years only to bear insult and humiliation everyday. And their only source of receiving acceptance was to give the family a heir? That is too selfish of any family, and for that all this trouble is not worth it.

But the bigger question I have is "how many times will Parth-Teni have to try before, she can conceive?" and will that not be emotionally draining for Shorvari and Parth?

Amdist their situation, I am looking or hoping for a slightly realistic solution to their problem, instead of too many rushed up and emotionally draining decisions.

However, one can say, that the show's actual story has begun




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Posted: 8 years ago
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PaRi could have certainly moved out of the house and happily adopted a chiild, had the makers constructed a storyline based on triangular love. Here, the truth is both the channel and makers promoted it as a show based on surrogacy. But reality is surrogacy was shown as an idea, not the concept of the serial. Surrogacy is artificial insemination. It doesn't prescribe for physical intimacy to achieve the desired result. What a hapless and embarrassing situation PaRi and Teni are in... The channel keeps on boasting of conveying important social messages through it's shows. So with the show in question, they would be demonstrating also propagating, to have physical relationship with the other woman on mutual consent of husband and wife; that too for getting acceptance in the family., as if relationships are so fragile that it lays some preconditions and if the same is not met, then be sure to meet the doom. Such thoughts represents primitive and feudalistic mindsets.. They should delete the term surrogacy and hereafter treat it as a love story. This would be a saving grace. Rest, they are in better position to decide.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yeah Libs.
Each and Every word is Absolutely True.
Only I can say this physical intimacy development in storyline defames Parth & Teni' s character and will defame Shorvori later as they surely want to create Drama later in the Show.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@libs completely agree with you
i still cant digest the fact that pari doing all these for their family happiness that to for a family like banushalis.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I felt it was all fine till the extent of opting for surrogacy as the only option left. PaRi wanted to cash on the opportunity that they saw in form of their child to mend ways with family and they were looking at it as something very casual and easy.. They were just going with the flow.. But now they will realize the real difficulties.
The real test for them will begin after knowing that it is not going to happen the way they were imagining, and the only way left for them is to either going through illegitimate physical relationship for baby, or to tell the truth to family and bear the consequences of it. At that point they will have to choose, if they want to go to any possible extent just to stay with the family, or to have self respect and move out.

The family so far is selectively orthodox and selectively open minded, they don't have problems if the child is going to be a girl or a boy, but they can't accept a daughter in law from a different cast or having lower financial status!! For sure, they will have new set of issues if they ever come to know that the child does not biologically belong to Shorvori, so PaRi need to think right now if they should take such huge risk for the family whose reaction after knowing the truth won't be in their favour.

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