Everybody has a normal life but Atharva

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The show has successfully adapted one of the golden rules of Indian TV, keep one of the leads in pain, and derive sadistic pleasure from the audience. When the leap happened, I knew it was going to be all about Atharva again, this probably is the best thing about this leap and a greater joy is that this time he can be given benefit of doubts too. But whenever justice for a character is considered, CVs have treated Atharva like a step son, CVs are hell bent on trying to prove that Ravish is the best human being on earth, however, after failing miserable every time, they went on and butchered Vividha's character now.
I think it was the same Vividha who could tolerate a mad and crazy Atharva but still never found peace in the luxury and glory that Ravish provided her with. But now the same Vividha is staying happily and all sorted out even without asking a single damn time that where is Atharva and where could he have vanished for four years now ? This vividha fails to see the misery and desperation in sujatha's eyes, she fails to see that whenever they all curse Atharva for his deceit, Sujatha's empty eyes want to defend him. This Vividha even fails to think that a man whom she had loved so passionately, he was a man of words, he bled for her, not once but multiple times, but for breaking a promise like that kind he would have a huge reason, this vividha even fails to think that even if Atharva would betray her, he would never leave his mother just because he had doubts on her and Ravish's hidden love for each other. Sadly this vividha fails to see everything which the CVs already has convinced us with.

When Ravish is considered, the less I say is better, I understand that he has inherited the gene of being a spineless from his late father, who once upon a time had dumped two innocent souls because of which till today those two are serving a punishment. But then I read people saying that Ravish loves Vividha. Is that so really ? If this is love then I can assure you that even Chintu's love for Guddi is true and pure, afterall Chintu has also allowed Guddi to stay with Atharva😆


Coming back to Atharva, I do not know where to start... He fell in love with Vividha, but he was poor and was never capable in her father's eyes. He tried to prove himself but again he was a criminal of sorts, he was a popular illegimate kid and it was his crime to be not afraid of this fact. He was beaten to death on his wedding day so that Ravish and Vividha can get married, they got married and Vividha had socially and ethically become some one else's wife. He comes back to life, becomes normal and then tricked by Ravish's family and he decides to run away with his illness so that Vividha never stays alone in her life or Vividha never breaks down as a woman. After so much, it is his fault, he should have discussed with Vividha, he should have stayed back, he should have and he should have... 😆


Moral of the story is, no matter how many sacrifices Atharva gives, his stance is always questioned, and its not because he is weak but because he has no father's name, Vividha does not have his sindoor in her forehead. It is really easy to say that Ravish has given so much to Vividha, but when you sit down and realize that the life Vividha is living now, all happy and settled, its only because that day Atharva chose to leave. he ruined himself for their happiness.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What a lovely post! Agree with everything you have said here.

Sigh, yes Vividha not bothering to look for Atharv did seem out of character and you're right, she should have questioned why he left Suhata behind. I'm waiting to see how the CVs redeem vividha from this. They'll have to come up with a foolproof reason to justify why she gave up so easily and 'moved on'.

And yup, let's not talk abt Ravish and his mahaantha! He's always shown trying to sacrifice Vivi who was never his to start of with! And it took him an entire 5 seconds to fall in love with Vivi. In a relationship you compliment each other, be each others strength , give each other support and courage to achieve your dreams, understand one another inside and out.. I didn't see any such connection, not by a long shot, between Rav and Vivi! So I'm not sure he really understood what loving someone meant.

The way I see it, Atharv has proved his love multiple times and so has Vivi. By the end of phase 3 everybody on the planet was convinced that ViTharv live and breathe only for each other. The issue here for CVs is to somehow accommodating Ravish in in a positive way. (Gawd knows why!! ) and that is the root of the problem. If ViTharv get together then Ravish has no role to play. It's so stupid! I wish Ravish was still in the army. He could have gotten himself killed in a war or something. It's gna be hard finding a way to kill him in the tabela! Maybe Gungun can run him over a few times ..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree with you on Atharv's part. I feel so bad for him because he has been through so much in his life and my heart aches seeing him like this. Whereas if you talk about vividha. If I was in her place I would have done the same. For example if I loved someone so much but he decided to leave me on our wedding day without giving any explanation at all and all I knew was that he was doubting me and my love. After he leaves, I find out that I'm pregnant with his child (I'm pretty sure madhav is atharv's biological child, but his father is ravish). What do I do now? Vividha knows what atharv has been through and she wouldn't want her son to go through the same. So what's wrong with her living a happy life with ravish, his son and the family? I know this is coming from a person who never supported vividha'a character but I'm talking from a girl's perspective.
As far as ravish is concerned, he's the best human on earth and the only way atharv and vividha can unite in the future is if ravish turns negative( highly illogical) but nothing is logical in this show after the leap lol so we can expect him turning negative out of nowhere or he might die( which seems like a better option) atharv and vividha has a huge fan following so I don't think the cvs will take a risk there lol.
Ps: the bond between ravish and madhav is so beautiful and it shows how you don't need to be the biological father in order to be a DAD.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good post TM👍🏼
@ bubblez - bold 🤣

I wish Ravish was still in the army. He could have gotten himself killed in a war or something. It's gna be hard finding a way to kill him in the tabela! Maybe Gungun can run him over a few times ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeAmo_Messi

The show has successfully adapted one of the golden rules of Indian TV, keep one of the leads in pain, and derive sadistic pleasure from the audience. When the leap happened, I knew it was going to be all about Atharva again, this probably is the best thing about this leap and a greater joy is that this time he can be given benefit of doubts too. But whenever justice for a character is considered, CVs have treated Atharva like a step son, CVs are hell bent on trying to prove that Ravish is the best human being on earth, however, after failing miserable every time, they went on and butchered Vividha's character now.

I think it was the same Vividha who could tolerate a mad and crazy Atharva but still never found peace in the luxury and glory that Ravish provided her with. But now the same Vividha is staying happily and all sorted out even without asking a single damn time that where is Atharva and where could he have vanished for four years now ? This vividha fails to see the misery and desperation in sujatha's eyes, she fails to see that whenever they all curse Atharva for his deceit, Sujatha's empty eyes want to defend him. This Vividha even fails to think that a man whom she had loved so passionately, he was a man of words, he bled for her, not once but multiple times, but for breaking a promise like that kind he would have a huge reason, this vividha even fails to think that even if Atharva would betray her, he would never leave his mother just because he had doubts on her and Ravish's hidden love for each other. Sadly this vividha fails to see everything which the CVs already has convinced us with.

When Ravish is considered, the less I say is better, I understand that he has inherited the gene of being a spineless from his late father, who once upon a time had dumped two innocent souls because of which till today those two are serving a punishment. But then I read people saying that Ravish loves Vividha. Is that so really ? If this is love then I can assure you that even Chintu's love for Guddi is true and pure, afterall Chintu has also allowed Guddi to stay with Atharva😆


Coming back to Atharva, I do not know where to start... He fell in love with Vividha, but he was poor and was never capable in her father's eyes. He tried to prove himself but again he was a criminal of sorts, he was a popular illegimate kid and it was his crime to be not afraid of this fact. He was beaten to death on his wedding day so that Ravish and Vividha can get married, they got married and Vividha had socially and ethically become some one else's wife. He comes back to life, becomes normal and then tricked by Ravish's family and he decides to run away with his illness so that Vividha never stays alone in her life or Vividha never br4eaks down as a woman. After so much, it is his fault, he should have discussed with Vividha, he should have stayed back, he should have and he should have... 😆


Moral of the story is, no matter how many sacrifices Atharva gives, his stance is always questioned, and its not because he is weak but because he has no father's name, Vividha does not have his sindoor in her forehead. It is really easy to say that Ravish has given so much to Vividha, but when you sit down and realize that the life Vividha is living now, all happy and settled, its only because that day Atharva chose to leave. he ruined himself for their happiness.

Bold.. i very much agree with the fact that atharva has suffered the most and sujatha is still suffering. Poor thing ...spineless shit ramakant married her but never lived with her..and his mistress took away atharva from her .


I tell u something very honestly..vividha never "actually" suffered ..May b she did suffer a little.. ..but atharv and sujatha suffered more than she did and these sufferings can't be equated..

When she was busy attending army parties with ravish, atharv was in a baby state unaware of the happenings around him...
Even now atharv is in a state of not knowing his own identity but she is playing happy family..

I know I will be bashed by feminazis of the forum who don't know the difference between shivani and vividha so try defending vividha even when there's nothing to defend her..but I DON'T CARE..


Coming to ravish he is as good as Ramakant ..And i hate mahaan men whose mahaanta is in lies lies and too many lies
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you as far as Atharva is concerned.
And with Vividha to the part she coukd have thought why he left sujata but her thinkin ghe doubted her and just made a reason that he is gone out for some work and not coming back is ditchinf Sujata too ... thats what she keeps saying now, that he not only ditched me but you too.

If he would have been actually unwell, isnt that what he wanted, Vividha to hate him and successful achieved it.

Well the Vividha now is so cold, i cana see her emotions at all, not towards Ravish, not anyone in family and infact not for Madhav too.. she is pretty much like a machine working , smiling for the sake of it, and fulfilling everything because she cant die and have to live as well as fulfil her obligations.

Only emotion I see in her is towards Atharva... emotion of Hate and it will just vanish in seconds. Her love and immense love for Atharva will all come to the fore... just wait n watch.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i loved this post
exactly regarding this i tweeted in the morning that doesn't atharv deserve happiness. we all know vitharv love each other and most of fandom always asks why vividha hs to prove every time her love for atharv

all i can say is vividha loves atharv but in phase 2 her guilt overcame her love, her actions seemed otherwise.. and extreme in manali track

having said that i didnt like atharv to do this sacrifice stuff and act like pagal atharv but when the reason is known he was redeemed

i feel vividha should have walked away from both men, she doesnt need a ravish to live, when she asked ravish to marry her eventhough she was hurt, i wasn't convinced, but cvs has to do that for accomadating ravish

the fact that even her relationship with madhav is not a close one is disturbing

but vividha has whole family with her every time, ravish with her to support

what does atharv have, time and again he bled for her, time and again he proved every time no one else for him except vividha, even now in his drugged state, he remembers flashes of her, remember vachans..
but what abt vividha..

i dont want to talk abt ravish.. his existence in this nonexistent triangle had killed the essence of story

for me its always atharv sujatha
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with your post mostly, it's so well written barring about Vividha being happily settled. She's really not! I don't know about others but I sense emptiness in her. She's got a son but even then she seems incomplete to me. She's quite stern and I don't really see her emotions towards anyone.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't want to write a book but in few words only:
If not for fans they would have removed Atharv long time ago.
Only to make Ravish staying with Vividha they are playing this dirty game.
But don't know why I feel that this show which could have stayed for a long time has already started to move towards it end.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So well written! You have voiced so many people's thoughts here so well!

Sadistic pleasure! It's so true cos the stereotypical audience just cannot comprehend a show which has happiness and love only. They get pleasure out of others misery because there is comfort in knowing that not only in reality people face problems. Sad really.

Now is the trend of making the guy suffer and leads being seperated because if they are married CVs can't think of anything else but to make it a saas bahu drama...so if not that then what else? Oh yeah, make sure two lovers never end up with each other.

I am slowly losing the will to watch Indian shows. It's merely the actors that keep me going. We are lucky that our tv industry has such fine actors that people like us watch their shows despite the crapfest we get shown.

I can't get my head around what they are showing re Atharv. It's mental abuse and a crime. I hope the track ends soon cos I am hating every second of it.

I still somewhere feel that Vivi isn't married to Ravish. All is staged to give Maddy a 'normal' upbringing and having a father figure.

Kat

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