Originally posted by: beckysharp
Hi, may I take the liberty of addressing you as Viji? I was introduced to your thread by @mischief, and I look forward to reading your updates daily, which are truly unbiased.
Now I come to the point of why I am making a comment disagreeing with you on why Ishita should have chastised Gulabo in private. I have not watched the episode as yet, but am just commenting as per your review:
The reasons are manifold:
1. You are looking at Gulabo as Raman, whereas Ishita is looking at Gulabo as just an employee!
2. To make matters worse, she has been hired by Mani to take care of Pihu and Shagun
3. Ishita as it is, is under deep obligation to Mani, and it was someone related to Vandu who made a big hue and cry regarding to missing fruit.
4. When you have guests in the house, especially when you are staying with someone else, you would not want the hosts to be embarrassed, however trivial the matter.
Hence, Ishita chastising Gulabo in public in my view is not a big deal. Would we be as ok with a maid or a nanny I might our just picking up a fruit which has been put on the plate for pooja?
May be Ishita felt bad later, and was looking for apologise.
Just as disclaimer once again, I love IshRa and I defend both equally.
Hope my view made sense, and no offence meant to people holding opposing view.