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JNDSD~ My take Friday 17th February 2017 ~ love's captive

Would it be correct to suffice that even though one feels free, deep inside one is still held captive by perhaps a weakness or even a strength. It may well be that one is trapped by one's circumstances. For some, traditions, cultural values, faith and beliefs in philosophies, doctrines can make one enslaved and confined in mindset. As I watched today's episode images of being imprisoned , detained, confined sprang to my mind. Alongside images equated with criminality are used in the episode. There is a macabre fore-boding of something terrible about to happen.

On private personal business, Suman visits the head of the family. The jail prisoner visiting room setting is indicative of some Inauspicious occasion in the pipeline which contrasts with a wedding underway at home. Suman fails to make headway with the male Vashist at home so she now seeks a session with the patriarchal Vashist banged up behind bars. Suman complains about Ravish's disobedience , in going against her wishes. Here before the senior Vashist she seems imprisoned by her poor parenting skills? Since Ravish is hell bent on getting Atharv and Vividha, married contrary to her wishes Here I recall Ravish's obedience in following his father's orders of restoring his brother and stepmother to Vashist handshousehold. Seeing these two together it's easily seen they both agree on Atharv being a thorn in their side. Suman even calls Atharv illegitimate, and seeks the old man's help. Without remorse he is today too, as he thinks of a lethal intervention. Suman although disapproving of senior Vashist's modis operandi of assaulting Atharv, previously.. in a quiet vindictive way, Suman is too much held prisoner by her selfish maternal instincts of misreading Ravish reasonable approach of accepting Atharv and Vividha's relationship. Hence she leaves it in her FIL's capable hands to do as he deems fit to stop this marriage from happening. Is Suman too thus bound in colluding to hatching a conspiracy to kill?

Atharv's play dressing in the sherwani.. with a captive audience Suman and Vividha. The sherwani the traditional attire for the groom. Atharv still imprisoned by his madness, puts it on .. symbolizes his willingness to be his Vividha's groom. But swiftly the next minute he peels it off symbolizing that now the very thought is unthinkable to him! This was a bond he refuses to be imprisoned with ! half jestingly he clarifies for Vividha she is a friend! not girl friend. Obdurately she retorts she is both ! she argues against his protests.. till suddenly he blocks his ears to her stance and let's his no! to marrying her prevail! For Atharv , their bond now is captured in a block of stone with the inscribed , just good friends! ..here stands Atharv held hostage by what his eyes see..

Vividha's love makes her non -compliance and self willed ! Sujata still tries to deter her from going through with the marriage .. she can see the way Atharv is.. but Vividha is bound by her determined love and yet again she reiterates her stance.. marriage today and to Atharv only! She is the new age girl who hangs on firmly to her love, firm and unmoved by the likes of gentle souls like Sujata too...Vividha knows its hard but she will have to veer Sujata too ..

Suman's absence is missed and when she does return , her reason is flippant. She is accountable to no one. Sujata still shows sensitivity and once again explains this marriage is difficult for her to accept . But Suman, trapped in her bitter haughtiness retorts , it's all right for her to say so as it's her son Atharv Vividha is getting married too! From the shadows, Atharv hears and watches his mother has to suffer. More so now, he is held captive by his resolution ..vividha and him cannot marry to disturb the peace within the family..

With gentle persuasion Vividha ensures she gets her prenuptial blessings from Sujata . Atharv pretends he is busy with the festoons.. but he steals glances at Vividha's progressive march forward towards this marriage, he so wants to stop from happening. But this Vividha!is on some crusade against him! She will be the one to destroy his whole act , he carps from the wings! The mehndi scene is a reminder of the name finger traced in the dry rice .. Vividha wrote Atharv's name though, it somehow changes to Ravish name..this time Vividha reverses that event and forces Sujata to write Atharv's name in heena on her palm! It's like Vividha is ready to fight the lines of destiny etched on her palm. she wants to break off the fetters where females are discouraged, active participation in their life's decision making. Vividha in fact deals with firm opposition from Sujata in the ritual.. but Vividha argues if she has no objection to the marriage then why should anyone object! Sujata has no other choice except to put Vividha off by telling her its Atharv who himself does not want to marry her due to his condition.. with each opposing factor Vividha gains momentum towards reaching her objective.. she is captured with the idea of marrying Atharv ..

Ravish as expected turns up to give good wishes to Vividha, and visibly delights upon seeing Atharv's name written with henna on her palm. Vividh's only concern is to get her marriage underway! The auspicious approaches soon. She asks Ravish , to get Atharv ready , while she gets ready herself ..

As Ravish lovingly frees Atharv from the flower garlands around his neck.. to me its an image that suggests ..rosy idea of getting married but for him to go through it means to suffer strangulation! It's something that will kill. Ravish cajoles him into getting dressed, which Atharv point blank refuses! He will act awkward and difficult and big a nuisance for his brother Ravish! For Atharv knows his brother being the soldier has an inherent gentle tone about him .. Ravish will put up with him! Hear and understand him! Atharv brings on tantrums and announces to Ravish he cannot marry Vividha she is his friend.. based on fond memories when Vividha called their bond, a bond of friendship. He gently coaxes, Atharv into putting on the sherwani.. and tells him anecdotally it's good Vividha is his friend they'll be very together! But when Ravish tries to put Atharv's turban on his head.. Atharv in a tantrum hurls it down on the floor... ominous.. heads will roll?

Looks like criminality arrive..in the shape of a flower vendor ,with a gun tucked away in the flower basket.. possibility the flowers may be used to mark a death rather than a wedding?

Here comes the bride dressed in crimson .. She comes down the stairs a lone figure.. Unsupported, deserted by all in her decision to marry her, not quite right groom. All the women in her household, persuaded her, wheedled her, coaxed her into not carrying out this venture. She is judged for taking a hasty decision which she may regret! But Vividha has to take this decision, for the sake of love in the name of Atharv . There is one who supported her .Her friend Ravish. He keeps his promise to her. Now Vividha has to see if Atharv keeps his promise to her today..

Gracefully she takes her place, as unconventional as it appears, and Vividha waits for her groom. no sign of him. She turns to Sujata for help. But Sujata looks the other way. It's all to clear to Vividha, if Ravish cannot bring him to the mandap! Then Vividha will break some more rules and if needs be drag him down to the mandap! As Vividha has decided she will marry Atharv today!! Hamlet53 18.2.17

Interesting episode, love, conspiracy ,murder? Vividha continues to be the persevering, strong ,sincere and stoic face of woman hood. She knows exactly what she wants and with due respect to her, brings her groom to the mandap!Because Vividha always wanted Atharv to marry her!will she finally get Atharv to marry her?..

Precap: as expected Atharv is likely to put up stiff resistance during the ceremony.. or is he in for a shock of his life.. shock treatment to snap him back to sanity for good? Or is Vividha going to be my hero in the story?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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as always awsm write up 😊
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They say love free you as a person but here ladies are getting blinded n bound by thought of love. Suman chosen to live in love less marriage for lifelong just at the basis of single thought that she loves RK. Here I won't mention 27 years as this duration is itself a life. Now her son's love blinding her. Vividha is not a commodity n neither Ravish is crying for a toy which u can give him n he'll be happy. All he need right now is time n support. He is not person who will become Devdas as he already know there is life ahead for him.
About Vividha, I can give her a point for being firm on her love but at the same time this marriage facade pull me down. She herself say that marriage is just formality then why she is so adamant for doing formality right now. If Atharv wouldn't hv recovered earlier then I might understand her point in marrying a mental person. But now she knows he is faking n just to avoid marriage with her so it is complicated here. Moreover there is no one who is stopping her to be with Atharv without marriage. Neither her family nor Sujata would objected even if they, Vividha is not a person to obey someone when it comes to her love.

For now Suman n Vividha stands equally infront of me. Two ladies who are firm in their choices or can say love but ego comes first.

Even if you consider this show as prototype not a single person is improving here by love. Those who were weak earlier are weak even now. N those who were strong or kind earlier are still the same. Even Ravish is not improving in my pov as if he wasn't good hearted n sorted person RK would never asked him only to fulfill his last impossible wish. So it is obvious that he was always been like this only n same goes to other characters. Loves makes you a better person so far not go with the show.
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Hammie hammie hammie,
Fantastic , u know i love this style of urs, u bring a key word and play around it, we readers read mesmerized.
Love's captive atharva, basically ur super trio all are love's captives.vividha, knows what she needs and how to get what she wants, ravish, another captive, knows what his love wants, a sacrifice..love isnt always about gain, it is the name of sacrifice, the last one of the super trio too thinks the same, sacrificing his love for the sake of his love...so beautifully u portrayed their state as prisoners.love doesnt always set u free, it makes u a prisoner of ur own madness.all three of them acting mad.atharva put on an act, vividha forcing atharva to marry, ravish getting them married in the same house he stayed as a husband to vividha, in front of the eyes of his wounded mother, n other relatives.

Keep writing.u r brilliant.
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Fantastic take Hammie onve again.. Love's captive.. hmm all 3 of them... vry well used ham..👍🏼 I love how u took inspiration frm within the epi itself n now I can imagine the epi in ur way onli..👏
suman crossing every limit of humanity let alone womanhood n motherhood.. more than her son she doesn't seem to come out of her own deficiencies she's faced in her loveless marriage still she want same ordeal fr Ravish.. irony..

Pata nahi senior vashisht sent the killer or it was jst ploy to make atharva come out of his imposter self.. today's epi compelled me to think that onli..

Vividha's ur hero bt how these 3 leads playing musical chair fr being HERO is most interesting part of JNDSD nowadays.. ik se badh kar ik hai teeno..😛 I'm saying ths after watching today's precap n I do think Ravish wud be successful in his mission of being the most sacrificing among 3.. Let's wait fr the epi n u'll understand wat I'm trying to say..😛

Thnk u so much ham fr writing yet another brilliant piece of writing fr us all .. Love u..
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Lo nuspa ate hi started apna jap. 😆
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Originally posted by: ..sairat..

as always awsm write up


hiya sairat 😊 thanks for thinking so, do read and comment love hammie
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Originally posted by: Ilovecoffee


helloo mate, was wondering where you were?

They say love free you as a person but here ladies are getting blinded n bound by thought of love. Suman chosen to live in love less marriage for lifelong just at the basis of single thought that she loves RK. Here I won't mention 27 years as this duration is itself a life. Now her son's love blinding her. Vividha is not a commodity n neither Ravish is crying for a toy which u can give him n he'll be happy. All he need right now is time n support. He is not person who will become Devdas as he already know there is life ahead for him...but as a mother one can be irrational... why with my son syndrome.. and that too on top of it.. ravish is such agentleman plus the pide of the country... suman would feelbitter one girl he liked...
About Vividha, I can give her a point for being firm on her love but at the same time this marriage facade pull me down. She herself say that marriage is just formality then why she is so adamant for doing formality right now. If Atharv wouldn't hv recovered earlier then I might understand her point in marrying a mental person. But now she knows he is faking n just to avoid marriage with her so it is complicated here. Moreover there is no one who is stopping her to be with Atharv without marriage. Neither her family nor Sujata would objected even if they, Vividha is not a person to obey someone when it comes to her love.
within the law of the land .or faith marriage ,it is a signed witnessed agreement between two people. hence her insistence... the ritual confirms the bond..as formal and not as a casual one off!
For now Suman n Vividha stands equally infront of me. Two ladies who are firm in their choices or can say love but ego comes first.
suman ego yes.. viv.. well women want confirmation... dont they?
Even if you consider this show as prototype not a single person is improving here by love. Those who were weak earlier are weak even now. N those who were strong or kind earlier are still the same. Even Ravish is not improving in my pov as if he wasn't good hearted n sorted person RK would never asked him only to fulfill his last impossible wish. So it is obvious that he was always been like this only n same goes to other characters. Loves makes you a better person so far not go with the show. great comment 👏...however with love ..one grows.. there is room for progression.. learning from their mistakes.. as in redeeming love?? how does that grab you humm??
thanks for sharing.. your valueable thoughts enjoyed reading them coffee... I like mine as Latte...😛 love hammie

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Originally posted by: simpleAnna

Hammie hammie hammie, oyee where were you taz??? was wondering 😕
Fantastic , u know i love this style of urs, u bring a key word and play around it, we readers read mesmerized.hummm pata hai... staring at you.. you teaching hammie to write doc shahiba?? 😆
Love's captive atharva, basically ur super trio all are love's captives.vividha, knows what she needs and how to get what she wants, ravish, another captive, knows what his love wants, a sacrifice..love isnt always about gain, it is the name of sacrifice, the last one of the super trio too thinks the same, sacrificing his love for the sake of his love...so beautifully u likeportrayed their state as prisoners.love doesnt always set u free, it makes u a prisoner of ur own madness.all three of them acting mad.atharva put on an act, vividha forcing atharva to marry, ravish getting them married in the same house he stayed as a husband to vividha, in front of the eyes of his wounded mother, n other relatives.
now my mind is going in circle.. in one breath you summed up my thoughts... how do you do it? looks like baby boom seems to have curbed a bit.. for you to come up with fast track jawabs.. carry on... 😛
Keep writing.u r brilliant.
thanks for your appreciative words taz... love hammie

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Originally posted by: NusiSg


hi Nus,as I return from my night out with family.. I see you are in lal land..
Fantastic take Hammie onve again.. Love's captive.. hmm all 3 of them... vry well used ham..👍🏼 I love how u took inspiration frm within the epi itself n now I can imagine the epi in ur way onli..👏

suman crossing every limit of humanity let alone womanhood n motherhood.. more than her son she doesn't seem to come out of her own deficiencies she's faced in her loveless marriage still she want same ordeal fr Ravish.. irony..
i liked how you used the term motherhood... I missed it...
Pata nahi senior vashisht sent the killer or it was jst ploy to make atharva come out of his imposter self.. today's epi compelled me to think that onli..
hummm... new angle ... didn't think of that..you mean KK bhi hosakta hai...
Vividha's ur hero bt how these 3 leads playing musical chair fr being HERO is most interesting part of JNDSD nowadays.. ik se badh kar ik hai teeno..😛 I'm saying ths after watching today's precap n I do think Ravish wud be successful in his mission of being the most sacrificing among 3.. Let's wait fr the epi n u'll understand wat I'm trying to say..😛
Ravish will be always be seen as a figure looked up to with respectabiity... fauji hai... carry their life upon their palms ready to lay it down for others .. one can say that the story is not sparse on heroic leads..
Thnk u so much ham fr writing yet another brilliant piece of writing fr us all .. Love u.. love you for writing such interesting comments.. this one talks of the new who dunnit?track... much love hammie

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