Shaurya and his trust issues...

Everyone is bashing the character Shaurya Khanna who seems to be suffering from Pistanthrophobia...Poor guy needs some help here and definitely not bashing yaar! Karuna knows about it and that is the reason she is so forgiving but what she could not fix at the right time needs to be fixed by Mehak now...How she can help? (best option for her would be to seek professional help but in the ITV shows, the FL is the therapist...)😆 Firstly, she should realize that trust is non-negotiable and is one of the major tenants of any healthy relationship. However, it doesn't mean that she can't have a healthy relationship with Shaurya, it just makes things more complicated for them. He seems to be hanging onto past hurt and he seems to be expecting more hurt in this relationship with Mehak and now it is becoming self-sabotaging, self-fulfilling prophecy for him (recall him saying to his Mom on day 1 of the ISC in the car that he does not have lines of love looking at his palm )...So, Mehak has two fold task at hand now...On the one hand, she needs to be the savior who can teach him how to love again and on the other hand, gaining Shaurya's trust ...but she needs to decide if it's worth it ...😕

In Shuary'a case trust is hard-earned, so as a trust-fixer her job is to be supportive, be dependable, be reliable, be honest and be very kind to him...Patience is another virtue required here, she just cannot say please trust me and expect a complete turn-around from him...So, they can put an end to this non-sense of teaching a lesson, ...learning to say sorry, thank you, please etc...😆Rather they need to have some serious conversation (I have been asking for it from the time he came to stay at her house but his only motive seemed to be the recipe book and nothing else !) I would love to see some heart to heart talk...And lastly, she needs to provide that loving positive reassurance by her loving tender care which demonstrates that she really means to help him out! Coz, sincere love and support will be hard to accept at first and that is the reason he keeps pushing her back ...At the same time she should not tolerate any abuse - he resorts to abusing her as he is worried that she too will leave and break his heart. So, Mehak should never lose her self-respect no matter how much she loves him...Her goal should be to get to a place of equal footing, not set herself up as an emotional babysitter to Shaurya or act as a doormat....😊

I wish the makers and CVs handle such issues with more maturity than making a comedy track of it !😛

@Archu - Yes, agree that some serious conversation is required on an urgent basis...I am fed up of this Tom & Jerry fights! Are the CVs listening...??

@Simmy, how can someone change in a month's time? Kya samajh rakha hai Shauyra ko ? Is that a deadline for him or for us viewers ...not sure...also, I do not want to see a Cartoon Khanna...No please !!

@Thabby, agree Shaurya's character has gone for a toss and restoration nowhere near sight! Please bring back the shrewd, smart, sharp and savvy businessman back !!

@Nitya, agree on bold - "how long can the goodness of heart go unnoticed..the sun shines without forcing people to notice ,it's warmth gets noticed by all in it's orbit " - exactly my point! Shaurya will be forced to see her goodness and selfless love sooner or later!

Originally posted by: -Patsy-

@Simmy, how can someone change in a month's time? Kya samajh rakha hai Shauyra ko ? Is that a deadline for him or for us viewers ...not sure...also, I do not want to see a Cartoon Khanna...No please !!

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Hi Patsy, the time frame is for the viewers to get excited. i don't think they'll stick to it going by past records.5 dyas challenge was cut-short to 2 days, this might be for two weeks.

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Hi Patsy, the time frame is for the viewers to get excited. i don't think they'll stick to it going by past records.5 dyas challenge was cut-short to 2 days, this might be for two weeks.