Nisha just wanted security!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey Guys,
Just thought I would liven the forum up a bit and create some discussion! So from today's episode we found out from Adi's flashbacks that all was rosy with their marriage. Nisha just wanted security for herself, her husband and her children.

She wanted Adi to rise in the company due to his hard efforts. I think it is a case of different aspirations in life. Nisha was a selfless lover and she wanted her husband's success. Adi was clearly happy with his marriage but he never aspired to be the CEO. He just wanted to be part of the organisation and work under his elders. Neither of them are wrong but circumstances created a bitterness in Nisha's nature and it made her think that Adi's family were stopping his progress.

Surely there is more to it?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes I also think that there is more to it and by that kitchen scene nisha said shadi se pehle mene kabhi khana nhi banaya means that nisha belongs to a modern family and Aditya family is very conservative. They live a very traditional life which nisha is not.and ya I think nisha really love adi a lot.but she also said na in day before yesterday episode that she given birth to the children so that adi will become ceo in return. But she is also right about Aditya is working hard and he should get the position and security anybody can think if Aditya uncle and aunt are not Aditya real parents but she is absolutely wrong in torturing adi and never seen his condition and love in her obsession
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Going by her portrayal all she wants is power... power to run the family, business and most importantly nuclear family. In today's world there is nothing wrong to be like Nisha but alas one need partner's approval too which is not the case here Nisha & Adithya got different priorities & perceptions in life making things difficult

Biggest problem is not wanting to have power but her actions She want to keep her ideal bahu tag intact doing all nasty stuff at their back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Terenaam100

Yes I also think that there is more to it and by that kitchen scene nisha said shadi se pehle mene kabhi khana nhi banaya means that nisha belongs to a modern family and Aditya family is very conservative. They live a very traditional life which nisha is not.and ya I think nisha really love adi a lot.but she also said na in day before yesterday episode that she given birth to the children so that adi will become ceo in return. But she is also right about Aditya is working hard and he should get the position and security anybody can think if Aditya uncle and aunt are not Aditya real parents but she is absolutely wrong in torturing adi and never seen his condition and love in her obsession

Yes definitely the kitchen scene was significant! I feel she was spoilt by her parents and yes it must have been a culture shock for her! They must have had a deal but Adi didnt think she was serious. He probably thought she is just looking out for him and wants him to do better. Little did he know that this would affect Nisha so negatively. I feel Nisha's parents have a big part to play in all of this. I feel they are the ones really instigating Nisha to be like this. She is definitely obsessed with power and Adi!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AshVarna

Going by her portrayal all she wants is power... power to run the family, business and most importantly nuclear family. In today's world there is nothing wrong to be like Nisha but alas one need partner's approval too which is not the case here Nisha & Adithya got different priorities & perceptions in life making things difficult

Biggest problem is not wanting to have power but her actions She want to keep her ideal bahu tag intact doing all nasty stuff at their back.

Yes power is all she has ever wanted but I feel at the start if she had got the power she wouldn't have been so negative! They have different lifestyles and upbringings- Nisha seems to be from a modern family whereas Adi's family is built on tradition and values. There is bound to be a disagreement somehwere down the line. She sure is a very complex character!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aditya family is very much too much sanskari and believing in all the traditional values like Aditya father seen the clothes nisha was taking for the party and saying itne chote kapde and all and also Aditya kaki sa is wearing all that borla and all. Nisha wants to live like a free bird with no restrictions and doesn't want all these kitchen stuff and all actually Aditya family is too much traditional when they live in Mumbai then too.and also nisha upbringing is different when all these responsibilities like making food and all came on nisha on daily basis she got frustrated. And also she says to adi also tum itni mehnat krte Ho and it's not fair you are not getting ceo position and I think about kaka kaki she will not turn out to be too much negative if she got what she want.but she is wrong and selfish when adi loves her and did whatever she asked and only just want his family happiness in return. She dosent care about adi also
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Posted: 8 years ago
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financial security is already there for aditya..
this business belongs to adis father and naturally he will inherit in future..kaka is just managing business but whole company belongs to adis father..

then what security nisha is asking??looks like she is just power hungry than anything else..
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Originally posted by: Terenaam100

Aditya family is very much too much sanskari and believing in all the traditional values like Aditya father seen the clothes nisha was taking for the party and saying itne chote kapde and all and also Aditya kaki sa is wearing all that borla and all. Nisha wants to live like a free bird with no restrictions and doesn't want all these kitchen stuff and all actually Aditya family is too much traditional when they live in Mumbai then too.and also nisha upbringing is different when all these responsibilities like making food and all came on nisha on daily basis she got frustrated. And also she says to adi also tum itni mehnat krte Ho and it's not fair you are not getting ceo position and I think about kaka kaki she will not turn out to be too much negative if she got what she want.but she is wrong and selfish when adi loves her and did whatever she asked and only just want his family happiness in return. She dosent care about adi also

I dont think there is anything wrong with Adi or Nisha's way of life or approach they just want very different things. Nisha is able to live freely as no one really monitors her. Kaka sa and Kaki sa go with whatever she says as long as it is respectful but Nisha wants a modern approach to life (dressing, eating, drinking etc.) It is very difficult to adjust in a new home but both parties are at fault. She cares for Adi but power and money mean much more to her and that is where the issue lies. She is driven by materialistic things and Adi isnt.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh

financial security is already there for aditya..

this business belongs to adis father and naturally he will inherit in future..kaka is just managing business but whole company belongs to adis father..

then what security nisha is asking??looks like she is just power hungry than anything else..

Yes you are right but Nisha is showing urgency. She doesnt have the patience to wait. She wants everything now. This is a sign of greed. She does care for Adi and her children but power and money surely have corrupted her mind.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree Nisha just wanted security for Adi, herself and their children.
In the first flashback scene in the kitchen, Nisha complained about having to cook which she hadn't done ever before marriage. Then she said about Aditya being CEO, at first she was happy when he pacified her. It was when she was pregnant, she was quite angry about Adi working hard and the rest of his family lazing around all day.
So slowly Nisha started to feel bitter about Adi working hard and not being made CEO. But what she's doing to hurt the family is very wrong. Somewhere along the years Adi is to be blamed too.

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