Suman behaviour- My opinion

I was going to post this as a reply to one of the threads there, but since I saw many threads opened regarding the same,
I thot to open a new post for Suman 's erratic behaviour.

I just wanted to share my opinion. Suppose u get married to a guy, & u find out that he loves someone else , hw wud u feel?
I know its easy to say right now that I wud leave him& Not stay in a loveless marraige but wen u r actually caught in that situation, its Not easy. In this generation, divorces are acceptable but Not then .
She tried to be a good wife, a good bahu & an excellent mom, still her husband never fully loved her.
This created bitterness & anger against that woman bcz of whom she cudnt get her love.
Hence she used to blame Sujata .
Does that justify her? Is Sujata Wrong ? No.
But Suman is a human . She has flaws. She is Not a god .

In such a situation, where Spouse are not close, A woman feels a closer bond with her child.
For Suman, Ravish is everything. She dotes on him.
She got Ravish married to VV only bcz she thought it was RK 's last wish. But later, when she came to know the truth, she still wanted vivi to stay with Ravish bcz as a mother, she cant destroy her son's life.
If Ravidha had not married, she wud never have forced Vivi to be with Ravish.

Somewhere.. In her heart, she does bear a grudge for Sujata & Vivi .
Bcz For Suman, seeing her son being beaten by terrorist broke her down . She thinks Ravish ko hamesha dukh mila hai Vivi ki wajah se & today he is in his deathbed and has suffered so much.

Suman is very hurt . Think from the point of a woman , who has lost her husband is abt to lose her son.
But does that Justify her slapping Vivi? NO. I admit she is wrong.
I still cant forget when she wished ill for Atharv in last episode.
I do understand & can sympathisd with her for most of her actions but these two times, No.
Suman Vashist , You are wrong this time.
But does that make her Evil, Sadist , Devil ? NO . Just a human with flaws.

And chill Suman , Ravish ko kuch nhi hoga . Capt wil be back with a bang.
I hope misunderstanding between Vitharv are sorted out since KK is not in manali .

Sorry to say but all the wrath from society, she didn't has to face that , she doesn't have to face difficulties for bread and butter ,what kind of loveless life she lived that she had three Kids, what difficulties ravish faced in life he is such a coward that couldn't overcome over a feeling for a girl who was forced to marry him, three months were given to him and now suman who gave a bhashan to sujhata for atharv's funeral blames vividha , didn't. She say she is always ready for bad news, she is disgusting

Nice post sneha 👏

when atharv vividha n sujata does human things call them selfish...the same way call suman a selfish woman who lived other woman's lyf all these years yet say she is dusri aurat...

If Suman is a woman with flaws, then so is Vividha, Atharv and Sujata..but they are crucified in the forum to some sort of hell! Why is that? Suman needs to understand that when you spit up in the air, it falls on you only. I was taught something very early on : when someone does wrong, it is not them necessarily who bears the brunt, because karma has their own little paths of ensuring its served with interests, and that is exactly what is happening with Suman.

No she is not evil. But she is wrong and selfish and if her behaviour can be justified, why is Vividha cursed everytime in the forum for choosing the love of her life over some stranger?

Have read all your replies. Sorry for not being able to individually reply to each one of u.

See, I am Not supporting Suman . I have clearly said this time she is wrong. Not trying to justify her action. Just trying to say that in the heat of moment, this happened. She was emotionally devastated.
It was not like she carefully planned & executed the slap .

And all those who are trying to say that Suman didnt suffer bcz she had Vashisht name & house with her 🤢

Really? A husband who has never accepted u as his wife & yet u r supposed to be happy bcz u have a house !! W*F !
Sujata had to earn her living. She suffered greatly, No doubt abt that . She is a great mom & I love her for her values , strength & for single handedly raising Atharv . But does that mean Suman didnt suffer ??

I dont understand ppl commenting here saying Suman didnt suffer!!

Originally posted by: ssnehaaa

Have read all your replies. Sorry for not being able to individually reply to each one of u.

See, I am Not supporting Suman . I have clearly said this time she is wrong. Not trying to justify her action. Just trying to say that in the heat of moment, this happened. She was emotionally devastated.
It was not like she carefully planned & executed the slap .

And all those who are trying to say that Suman didnt suffer bcz she had Vashisht name & house with her 🤢

Really? A husband who has never accepted u as his wife & yet u r supposed to be happy bcz u have a house !! W*F !
Sujata had to earn her living. She suffered greatly, No doubt abt that . She is a great mom & I love her for her values , strength & for single handedly raising Atharv . But does that mean Suman didnt suffer ??

I dont understand ppl commenting here saying Suman didnt suffer!!

Suman suffered by her own choice though didn't she? She knew RK loved Sujata, but married him anyway so why the hue & cry now when she already knew what she was getting into.

Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

No she is not evil. But she is wrong and selfish and if her behaviour can be justified, why is Vividha cursed everytime in the forum for choosing the love of her life over some stranger?

Vividha choosing her love Over her husband I guess .. Not some stranger.
I dont curse her but u cannot deny that Ravish life got spoiled bcz of her decision to marry him.
But we all know it was bcz of KK , hence Vivi cannot be blamed. But somewhre, that decision ruined Ravish.
Will he ever be able to trust anyone again or fall in love?