Originally posted by: Haruhi_Mo
Putting aside that DBO is starting n many want her to go with Om... Why should jhanvi even leave OM?!
This type of thoughts should be stopped now, a DIL has no rights on the house she married in! I don't want jhanvi to leave, it's tej who should leave! As it is everyone supports jhanvi in this house!
Why this thought that a son can do anything n yet family will stay quiet n that he can bring his mistress to the house n the wife walks out!
I'd prefer jhanvi to stop taking shit n fight to stay! Drive Tej away!
Walking away is not the ideal solution in my eyes at least!
@ bold that is what is exactly happening in this house ever since the serial has started and nobody in the OM has been able to do anything about it. Supporting does not mean stopping her from falling down and getting hurt physically, supporting is when you raise your voice against the injustice Jhanvi is facing. What I see is the family although against Tej's actions and decisions, not being able to do anything about it.
At the moment Jhanvi is most welcome to stay in OM as Tej's married wife, nobody is chasing her out of the house so there is not a question of fight there. What is the point of still having the stamp of OM's DIL and living in a mansion when she is treated like crap.
Besides Tej is more than willing to live with is mistress outside OM, no issue for him. If Tej leaves and Jhanvi stays for Tej it would be like "I have nothing to loose, there is someone waiting for me back home".
Leaving OM, Tej and leaving the status of ' DIL of Oberois" behind is a question of self respect, determination and having faith on your own abilities to live independently. She does not have to live in a mansion to be happy, she can live in 1 room and earn her own living.