They remind you of the suffering, loss, heartache a person can endure with strength, beauty, and grace.
They might make others comfortable, but I am glad she owns it like a pro.
About cosmetic surgeries:
What's wrong with it? If a burn victim or someone who knows wants to change the way they look to feel more comfortable, or someone who is trying to make it big in the entertainment industry, gets the surgery done to enhance their features, what's wrong in that?