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This discussion is about whether marriage is always a sacred institution. Marriage is treated as very holy and sacred no matter how many negative points it has. A divorce is treated like a sin when people are unhappy in their marriage. Is it really necessary to work out our marriages when we can't be together? In this show, there are several examples.
Shakti-Pinky: This marriage is of compromise where a poor girl is married to a rich boy. Pinky most probably suffered a lot of humiliations from the society. She most probably did not got proper love from her husband but still she did not walked out of marriage.
Tej-Jahnvi: This marriage was a love marriage where the girl ran away from her arranged marriage and got married to the love of her life. She was made to quit her career and become a housewife. Few years later, Tej most probably started having affairs. After so many years with 3 grown up children, he slept with a woman of his daughter's age and still roams with her while scolding and insulting Jahnvi. Jahnvi is tolerating everything but not walking out of marriage.
Rudra-Soumya: This marriage happened while they were drunk. Instead of annulling their marriage they are just calm about this marriage thinking it as nothing.
Shivaay-Anika: Shivaay has done what not with Anika but still Anika has fallen in love with him instead of leaving the house. She roams with him as if he never did anything to her. She listens to Dadi's nonsense about marriage being sacred but does not walk out of marriage.
Ranveer-Priyanka: If they get married in the show, Priyanka instead of telling her family will remain in this marriage. She will not even file complaint of abuse against him.
With all this examples, it seems that marriage is too overrated in India which can't be ended no matter what. People can think divorce as a sin or taboo but divorce is actually a divine and relief for many people. Is marriage really sacred that one should preserve it no matter what?
Anupamaa
