Is it fair with Ravish ?

Hi everyone. First of all, My name is Sneha . A silent lurker here, but joined this. forum just to express my views.

Vivi loves Atharv & it was beautifully portrayed today. Loved the precap .
Vitharv are made for each other. One soul in two bodies.
But is it fair to Ravish ? What was his fault ? We all know its NOT Vivi 's fault that she married Ravish . Anybody in her place wud have done the same. She did it only to save Atharv.
But is it right that Ravish should lose his love for Vitharv ?
Bcz of KK , why should Ravish suffer when Vivi , Atharv & Ravish , all the 3 characters are beautiful souls. & deserve love.

P.S
- I am neither Vitharv fan Nor Ravidha shipper.
I love all three of them & want justice

the damage is done already so it cant be reversed...all three cant get their love...

Hello Sneha,

Originally posted by: _innocent_

Hello Sneha,

You ask the question of is it fair on Ravish? The answer is no, it is not fair. In fact, it is not fair that the three of them have been put in that situation. However, we have three individuals, two of whom love each other and the third one also loves the girl but she does not love him.

In a triangle, someone is bound to get hurt right? Isn't it better for one of them to suffer than for two people to suffer to make one happy? If Ravish gets what he wants, then VITHARV suffer, if VITHARV get what they want then Ravish suffers, but it also means two individuals will be a lot happier.

Why bound yourself in a relationship that will be filled with no-love?

Why should Kailash win when he conspired to ruin VITHARV? If Ravish gets what he wants, KK wins also and KK is the reason why Ravish will not get what he wants!

I absolutely understand. But its NOT abt losing or winning.
Its abt Love. Its abt commitment.
When Vitharv love each other, nothing shud hold them apart bcz such is their love. But what abt Ravish ?
Not saying Vivi shud stay in a loveless marriage with Ravish, neither am I rooting for Ravidha
.But just wanted to know why ppl shipped for Ash Ajay more than Ash Salman in "Hum dil de chuke Sanam "?

There is something beautiful & sacred known as "MARRIAGE" & it changes your entire perspective .

No it is not fair at all to Ravish. But it's also not fair for him to live in a loveless marriage. He deserves a partner who will love him back equally and which unfortunately can't be Vividha. Yes it will hurt him to let go of his love, but in the long run it's actually better for him.

Originally posted by: ssnehaaa

I absolutely understand. But its NOT abt losing or winning.
Its abt Love. Its abt commitment.
When Vitharv love each other, nothing shud hold them apart bcz such is their love. But what abt Ravish ?
Not saying Vivi shud stay in a loveless marriage with Ravish, neither am I rooting for Ravidha
.But just wanted to know why ppl shipped for Ash Ajay more than Ash Salman in "Hum dil de chuke Sanam "?

There is something beautiful & sacred known as "MARRIAGE" & it changes your entire perspective .

Originally posted by: ssnehaaa

I absolutely understand. But its NOT abt losing or winning.
Its abt Love. Its abt commitment.
When Vitharv love each other, nothing shud hold them apart bcz such is their love. But what abt Ravish ?
Not saying Vivi shud stay in a loveless marriage with Ravish, neither am I rooting for Ravidha
.But just wanted to know why ppl shipped for Ash Ajay more than Ash Salman in "Hum dil de chuke Sanam "?

There is something beautiful & sacred known as "MARRIAGE" & it changes your entire perspective .

The equations and parallels are completely different here. JNDSD is no HDDCS. For starters Sameer was the one who left Nandini, instead of staying and fighting for his love. Atharv & Vividha were brutally torn apart on their marriage day. Atharv fought death and came back for Vividha not once but twice.

I too believe marriage is sacred, but only with the consent of both people. The foundation of R-V marriage was based on Atharv's almost dead body, lies and deceit.

Originally posted by: Shweta13

I beg to differ here ... First of all Of vivi married to save Atharva but why Ravish married?? Because his father wished .. really ??

Second thing I f Ravish gets Vividha who is gonna be happy ?? Vividha will nevsr give him anything emotionally as well as physically, what will he do with such a stone faced forced wife who cant give any happiness to him or his family. Niether he will be happy, nor Atharva and Vividha.

If Vitharv love each other and stay Happy by Far its fair to Ravish rather suffering whole of his life with someone who doesnt love him an ounce. He can move on and find true love for him.

Whereas move on also is easier to him comparatively Vitharvwhich is ompossible in all ways. VIVIDHA COULDN'T stop loving child like Atharva and her marriage couldnt either stop her from loving him so how u expect her to move on from her Man Atharva. Its just impossible...