Call me selfish for simply loving...Vividha - Page 3

Originally posted by: beagleboy

Women! Indeed! Women are total bitches of the worst kind when it comes to other persons of their own gender. For everyone else, there is always a cup full of empathy in their hands.

But still, there is a little hope at the end of the last colour of the fading rainbow that Sujata will turn out to be ok now and will embrace the 'illegal, immoral' relationship in question here and stand up for them and with them.

Isn't it pathetic! 🤣 Women don't want to be happy and they don't want others either because apparently we don't have the right to be selfish, suffering by sacrificing is an inevitable part of our lives.

I think Suji will still be slightly against them because Atharv almost died again because of Vividha.

Originally posted by: _KOMAL

Finally, wehave a female lead that is selfish for her own love😳That dialogue was so important to the haters who keep calling Vividha selfish and forcing their opinions on Vividha's life.Its like the saying call me greedy, call me selfish, but I don't want anyone else hand expect yours.

How is love between people a sin? Well, love isn't about sex it's about the uniting of two souls which has been done a long time ago. These people don't understand the strength of ViTharv's love for each other. They are too bothered in getting Vividha married to someone who she will never love or give any sort of wife rights to that person.

These old fashioned thoughts are the ones who have been sham marriage their entire life and expect Vividha to be in one as well.

Sujata: A woman who's husband left her and unborn child because he wasn't manly enough to stand up for his small family. Rather he fell in the steps of his father's pressure and married a woman who he never loved but still ended up with his own family with that woman. Ended up living a lonely life with her son and faced society taunts. Sujata will now want the same thing for Atharv. Atharv to live in the memories of Vividha like Sujata did with RK.

Suman: The second woman in her husband's life, not the legal wife, a satuan,her marriage means nothing as it's illegal and so on. Lived in a loveless marriage her entire life begged to have her husband's love but never got it. Now, she expects Ravish to live the exact same life as her by living in a loveless marriage and begging that somehow Vividha will end up loving him🤢

Uma: Left the love of her life for an evil woman abuser just because she family arranged a marriage and Uma fell prey to family pressure just like Vividha. If history repeats its self Vividha would be living with a woman abuser. But, this time will have Atharv's support and will end up back to Atharv.

A real parent will put their kid's needs before their own selfish needs and wants. ViTharv's love will break the history of their parents and will unite + live a happy life. No society norm is stopping this power couple and no parent/hurdle will stop them from their reunuion.

Brilliantly said komal! The irony and hypocrisy in the older generation just stands out like a sore thumb! I mean LOOK AT YOURSELVES women! Tell me you've had a happy life, tell me you hadn't craved more?
Here Vividha is saying I crave more than a compromised marriage, I want to love and WILL love. I want to be with the man I love and I WILL be with him!

Originally posted by: anu023

Couldn't stop myself frm watching the repeat.. vividha's each dialogue is a tight slap to the 3 mahan murkh mahilayein ..out there.. im proud of her ..for being consistent...

Same here! Whilst everyone is battering her to give in to the marriage, her thoughts and actions make her so admirable!

Originally posted by: aditi07

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#cc00cc">Superb Post Reema... Perfect One!!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#cc00cc">Thats what I have been thinking while watching the last two episodes!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#cc00cc">Its like Suman & the gang are voicing out bashers' thought, views.. opining the so called value system of age old era.. where marriage is only supposed to be sacrosanct, with no way out even if it only brings unhappiness and sadness to all the ppl in it... like once u r in it you HAVE to be BOUND & Chained by it</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#cc00cc">At the same time, makers through Vividha are giving apt replies to these bashers and propagator of such old world order and beliefs. Lines like - "Sab mujhe khudgarzi ke tarazoo Mai tol Rahe hai... Pyaar ke paimaana koi dekhta kyu nahi hai' and earlier where she said "jo aapke liye vachan woh mere liye bedia hain", or when she said, "kyon pyar sirf pyar nahi ho sakta..dharam, samaj sabse pare (something like that)"... were such a beautifully perfect answer to all this marriage is above humans crap 😡😡!!!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#cc00cc">Loved how CVs have put across their view point, new thinking through Vividha, answering all that the bashers have been trolling them on!!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#0000ff">On another note, Suman I could still believe is acting like this as she has lived her entire life this way plus its her own son involved... But I am aghast at the way Uma & Suman have behaved🤢!!!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#0000ff">If they were only doing this so that Vividha doesnt stop living her life coz Atharva was no more alive to them and thus start a new life with Ravish, wd hv still understood... but only coz how can you break marriage.. is simply unimaginable coming out of these ladies.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#0000ff">One of these has lived her entire life with strength for the love of her life despite samaj issues and another recently found the strength to fight against her cruel husband and so called samaj, who saw how toxic marriage can be.. are now telling Vividha that just coz she took 7 vachans forcefully she must live in it and she can not break it??? Shocked!!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#0000ff">I really wonder how Sujata is gonna react now that Atharv is back and Vividha is still married to ravish?? Would she still continue to sing "marriage cant be broken" or now her stand will change????😕😕</font>

Aditi that's such bang on post! I have nothing more to add except I can't even say I'm shocked with Uma because she stayed silent for all these years in an abusive marriage. In all their eyes, Ravish is a gem of a guy so why should he suffer? Instead they say Vividha YOU suffer because you are the woman. You make him happy even if it means you are unhappy. All their lives, these 3 women have had to suppress their desires and where has it got them? All 3 are important figures in Vividha's lives and claim to care for her but not one of them encouraged her to listen to her heart. Vividha has done that all by herself and kudos to her for staying focused when everyone else has been against her!

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Isn't it pathetic! 🤣 Women don't want to be happy and they don't want others either because apparently we don't have the right to be selfish, suffering by sacrificing is an inevitable part of our lives.

I think Suji will still be slightly against them because Atharv almost died again because of Vividha.