Lesson to hopelesslessly romantics

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Posted: 8 years ago
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after reading innumerate most defending and focusing on Dev intent and his reason to hurl abuse at Sona I am compelled to make this post. I work in a busy hospital in semi rural setting and manage many Sona presenting with suicide,unwanted pregnancy, mental breakdown all myriad presentation. It's always the girls never have I seen a boy presenting after breakup. All these girls looking for fairy tale romance fall for guy like Dev romancing in bedroom and scared to acknowledge their respective GF existence in public.
I want to ask character like Dev if u r so scared even to respect,acknowledge ur partner in front of ur family members y get the girl in picture. After all said and done these girls r left hopeless presenting to hospital still defending the very guy. Do these Dev even comprehend the long term damage they cause.


Some may argue Dev is not like that plz tell me how. In 6 months of their affair marriage combined he dumped her in a heartbeat twice,never defended her, called her names( for her betterment, to help her move off course) insulted her family etc. does he even qualify to b called a decent guy forget about being Mahaan. See the repercussion in post leap , he gets to lead a carefree life whereas Sona gets to b a single mother still pinning for him. That is all true.

Guys like rithwick might not utter romantic lines but will make great partner may be average looking so we girls give them miss in our quest for Tall and handsome man. Guys like rithwick would always nurture u respect u understand u and stick by u . After all marriage is all about companionship, mutual respect and friendship.

There is nothing great in being single mother, before making a judgment go talk to any single mom. So girls coming from a doctor working in Emergency department first understand ur value before looking for love and never fall for guy who dosenot value u. Sona was able to build herself who knows how u will evolve.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wonderfully spoken and SPOT ON !! Hats of to you to make such a post !!
there might be n number of reasons for a man /women to behave certain ways but that doesnt justify his or her behaviour. As I always said falling love is easy but staying in love is difficult. And love alone cannot help to sustain a marriage , trust , acceptance, honesty , respect etc are few of the attributes that you need to have to get married.

So before you think of saying the word "I DO " both should do a self check and do a HUGE CHECK if you are able to live the partner you have chosen.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wonderful Post.

Let CV's show whatever they want to get profit.I hope ur post help some one in real life.Who r dealing with these kind of issues.Help them to overcome the situation or get out of the relation .Before it's too late.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Wonderful Post.

Let CV's show whatever they want to get profit.I hope ur post help some one in real life.Who r dealing with these kind of issues.Help them to overcome the situation or get out of the relation .Before it's too late.


I know it's concocted for commercial profit but occupational hazard habit bound can't help preaching
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is wht I am also feeling If Dev's love is really selfless,unconditional,true than how can he never Stands for Sona infront of Ish/Gkb whn he can easily shout at her Wife for insulting his Maa whn he himself know that his ma is Wrong.Nd wht is so mahaan if he dumbs the girl in her life most crucial time rather than holds her hands infront of his Maa??? In first break up time I was waiting for dev that whn he will stands for Sona but Alas that day never comes nd In the end of the Day its just a daily soap whn Ph himself/herself suppots this than wht is audience faults though
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wonderful post...completely agree with u ( as per my personal experience)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very nice post.Its very easy to say why he's reacting this ,most people logic he's insulting her because he loves her 😕 for her own good.In real life this is never works It requires tremendous efforts from both to be in relationship.I hope whatever they show in leap ,they should atleast address issue of raising hand on sona.That threat of physical assault Not be taken casually ,one can say he was hurt and drunk, isn't this justification given from those women who are suffering from domestic violence.I don't how they will redeem him.😕This love story is totally doomed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Very nice post.Its very easy to say why he's reacting this ,most people logic he's insulting her because he loves her 😕 for her own good.In real life this is never works It requires tremendous efforts from both to be in relationship.I hope whatever they show in leap ,they should atleast address issue of raising hand on sona.That threat of physical assault Not be taken casually ,one can say he was hurt and drunk, isn't this justification given from those women who are suffering from domestic violence.I don't how they will redeem him.😕This love story is totally doomed.


Yes u know I see way too many lives spoilt for this type of love. It's all courtesy to these media personnel glorifying such characters. I see as young as 12 yrs old committing suicide for love . Manage such cases and come back to watch such characters defended . I had to vent. Rightfully pointed out by you he has even assaulted Sona now. My mom always said never marry a guy under any pretex raises his hand on you. So now CV will glorify domestic abuse also.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Very nice post.Its very easy to say why he's reacting this ,most people logic he's insulting her because he loves her 😕 for her own good.In real life this is never works It requires tremendous efforts from both to be in relationship.I hope whatever they show in leap ,they should atleast address issue of raising hand on sona.That threat of physical assault Not be taken casually ,one can say he was hurt and drunk, isn't this justification given from those women who are suffering from domestic violence.I don't how they will redeem him.😕This love story is totally doomed.



Like how Drinking n driving is a criminal offense.Same way torturing or raising hand on wife in the influence of Alcohol is wrong.

They will redeem him by showing.He helped Sona becoming successful.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



Like how Drinking n driving is a criminal offense.Same way torturing or raising hand on wife in the influence of Alcohol is wrong.

They will redeem him by showing.He helped Sona becoming successful.


Yes but isnot a woman capable of anything well and truly . In case of Sona this holds true hell hath no fury that women scorned. Sorry if I spelt anything wrong

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