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About 2 years ago I met this girl and since 1.5 years we are in a relationship. We work in different cities but our parents are settled in the same city.
She introduced me to her parents after a while and I introduced her to mine.
About 6 months back our parents met and now they share great repo with each other.
By this time we had decided we will marry sometime in 2017 or 2018 early.
For what its worth we never talked about each others past during relationship building phase.
Almost 3 months back she told me she was in a relationship with a guy about 3 years ago.
She told about him to her parents as she wanted to settle down with him without worrying about her career.
Her parents strictly disapproved as they did not like the guy. After knowing that her parents dont like him the guy used her money, cheated on her, used to hit her and they broke off. Everything was over then and now she would not want to see him again.
She was crying while telling all this. She said I wanted to tell you about this because I care for you and I just wanted to clear all this before we move forward.
It didn't bother me a single bit if anything my liking for her only grew.
Now about 2 months back I was just checking my insta feed and I saw her liking a few pics of some guy.
I recognised its the same guy. I checked the guys profile and I saw there wasn't a single pic in the last year of that guy which she has not liked. A few of them do have some flattering comments too from her and the guy has not even replied thanks to her comments. Strange...
This is something which is bothering me. She has been a great girlfriend to me. Apart from this part she is just perfect
She cares about me a lot and shows by her actions and words that she loves me a lot. But once in a while this thought crosses my mind.
It really leaves me confused as I have always believed that talking about past is unnecessary but now somewhere I think I need to talk to her about this if it is bothering me so much then I think its just insta likes ffs I shouldn't be bothered.
She has put her resignation papers and next month she is moving in the same city where I am working and talks for our marriage will begin.
Shall I talk to her or shall I not ?
If yes then how to start.
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