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kam0607

@kam0607

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

I agree to everything you guys are saying. Like I said, being with the person you love requires sacrifice. Dev can love Sona forever and beyond. Same with Sona, but "being together" is not as easy as 123. Yes they both tired, I keep harping on the fact that Sona knew about Dev's behavior when it comes to his mother, but I guess everyone has a breaking point.

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

I don't think Sona's reaction the slap or her isolation from the situation was wrong.She did what was important and needed at the moment.Of course,I never understood why she took it upon herself to repay the loan.That was plain stupidity.

In general,a big reason for this marriage breaking up is Ishwari's over possessiveness.RR only takes advantage of Ishwari's weakness.Such people will always exist.If Ishwari asserted herself with RR,the way she does with Sonakshi half the problems would have disappeared.But Ishwari chose to be influenced by RR

Another big reason,of course, is that Dev is tied ot his mom's apron strings and never speaks up.

Sona's fault in all this is

a)She gave Ishwari too much control over her married life

b)She adjusted and gave in way too much

There is no point in sympathizing too much with her for being over adjusting.Of course,she is very good and trusting at heart.But if a person bows down too much ,they are bound to be exploited .They themselves are to be blamed for it

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vandana1965

@vandana1965

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#33

if dev is really not to blame, then atleast he should have shut up gkb's nonsense

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kam0607

@kam0607

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Absolutely agree, I'm upset that Mama ji is not doing the needful... 😕

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl
Poor toddler Dev
Sona never used to give him feeder on time, he deserves unique ishu Maa, GKB, and vicky.

Dev was wrong somewhere but seriously... Memeber of forum r angry and only to support sona, all r neglected her fault too...in today episode ,she is also very in ego and angry mode, that she doesn't believe her love...who can know Vicky better than sona herself but she still believe Vicky over dev...

In anger and ego she even not trying to listen dev...

Am not supporting dev here but we cannot say that in today episode it's only dev's fault...sorry but don't be so biased each time towards sona.

Taali ek haat SE nhi bachti...dev NE suru kiya or sona NE khatm but no one used their mind...all those things which was said by dev and sona in today episode was influenced. By their ego and anger...it's true that when people are angry, they always choose wrong Decision...

Aaj 2nd promo yaad aa gya where it's said that kya hota h jab dil ke faisle dimaag SE lete h...jaan NE ke liye Dekhte rhiye kuch kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi 😆

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Sandysprings

@Sandysprings

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#36

So after marriage girl is bahu/wife / bhabhi only..She is no more daughter. Not a individual person. She has to understand her in-laws feelings , their point of views only . Who r parents and brother-sister .. just left self respect at your parents house. She has to give 100 to her relationship with husband even if he treats u just like dooemate. He wants u on bed only . She has to side with her in-laws always no matter what. Even if your distant relatives from in-laws side insult badly ,blame them and say harsh words..She has to love and respect husband and in-laws even if they can throw u out anytime/for anything they feel to do it.. when there is any fight between your parents and in-laws u must side with your in-laws..In short she is not a human but a slave who has no rights.. if marriage is this then no girl should get marry..Better die..

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shruti.

@shruti2007

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Dev's past deeds made sona to believe vikky's words.tell me one thing if sona would not hv believed vikky's words and informe dev abt vickky's deeds and his words ,would dev believe sona and taken steps against him,i dont think so.

Sona didn't leave the house dev asked her to leave ,he was not drunk tht moment.yes sona had some bits of ego in yesterday's episode. And i was happy wid tht.there was nothing left in dis mrg.had sona control and compromise dis situation one more would have arise where once again sona was supposed to blame and get insulted.till how many days sona was supposed to bear all dis tell me.Was she suppose to handle the situation till d day dev bet sona for family members.Only way to save the marriage was sona and dev would hv left dixit mansion .

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#38

I dont want to comment on anything except that the HUGE expectations which Indian brides need to live with and the stigma of being the 'maryada' of her in-laws and that in all circumstances the DIL should be the one 'understanding' despite the guy being a complete asshole - this mentality needs to change. If Dev does 10000 crimes, it is ok for Sona to make 5 crimes. Still Dev would remain the most undeserving contestant in the marriage fare.

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yes sure. Sona should have solved this issue.

Forget that her father was called thief. And was slapped. ehhh. Big deal anyway.

Patch up. And tomorrow when Sona can't conceive, Ishwari tells her to get out of the house. Then Sona should get out coz hey fault is in her. She can't have kids. Why should Dev suffer? Sona should understand that Ishwari needs heir to her family and divorce Dev.

Definitely Fault is in Sona.

Every time Radha Rani taunted Sona. Radha was right. Sona is chorni. Married Dev for money. Sona's father is Chor. Thief.

Khadde mein dalo Sona ka. Let's Dev get married to sanskari, sushil ladki. Who takes all taunts of Mami. & produces heir for the family.

Hallelujah. Hail Dixit family.

PS - We defend Dev but we don't want husband like Dev. LOL. 😆

And I would pray for the good of my own country that no one gets an MCP husband like Dev. The battle of equality is to fight remaining within the system and each of us carry a responsibility towards the society, the country and the next generation. We don't want them to live in a hell or back in 1950's where women were not even allowed to show their faces to their in-laws without ghunghat 🥱 and men and women's job profile used to be decided as dictated by society. With people like Dev and Dixits, society will fly to 18th century period where women were treated like shit and expectations were as high as sky. 🤢 The less people like Dev are there in reality, the better it is for the world. We don't need waste of oxygen. 😃

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mishtoo

@mishtoo

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Both Dev and Sonakshi are gullible with each other, its the insecure manipulative Ishwari that brought out their negative emotions. Though as a viewer it is Dev who is at fault who hurt and challenged Sonakshi on her financial stability and hurt her on motherhood.

Dev is vulnerable to Ishwari's manipulative talk, he did not question nor is he hurt that his mother got his signature on pre cup papers on the sly. He loses his sanity in front of his mothers directions.

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