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Hello everyone,so posting another part of my personal series,and this one is going to be a very important one,as in this one I am going to write about the most irritating as well as trending topic of discussion which pisses everyone of us,"THE IMRAJ FIASCO".everyone out there just could'nt digest the sudden love realisation of Suraj for that Imli😡,or whether it was even love or not,but I have made myself secured with the fact.And so this post is my last sort of trial to resolve the issue for everyone.
So I had started writing this series,to celebrate the epic love story of second fav TV couple-'SUKOR',coz i have always believed that they are exceptional,they are extraordinary and their story just needed a sort of celebration.So in the part I,i had started in a prologue style.In part II,I had written about sukor's individual characterisation.In part III,I had written about the different forms of love and Imvaan's love story.But i realised that the series just cannot be progressed without clearing the mess of Imraj.So here Igo...
Now to start with.We all know that after leap Imli was KN's bandhua or more clearly Suraj's personal assistant.Whatever she felt for Suraj,infatuation or love is entirely her matter,we are least bothered about it,we are concerned about Suraj's feelings for her.One must have noticed that whatever her condition be,Imli had always been subjected to a certain sort of pampering by everyone in the show,be it her parents or Chakor or Vivaan or Chagan,the bastiwaale and even Suraj.Among the 4,according to the story Suraj is the eldest and Imli the youngest,The age difference between Suraj-Imli is greater than the age gap between Suraj-Chakor or Vivaan-Chakor or even Vivaan-Imli.Thus he always turned out to be her caretaker sorts.Yes,he yelled at her,he treated her as his "jaagir" or private property,he always used her for his own good,she was a mere toy for her.But one fact can never be denied by anyone that,he actually CARED for her,as an elder,as a protector,or as a friend.There was strictly nothing called love kinda feeling ever from his side.And this attitude of Suraj for Imli was mistaken by Chakor that she had affirmed herself that he secretly loved her and coaxed him for that post marriage.Its not her fault as well,its simply called common people's age old mentality that,'Ek ladka aur ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte'.Its as simple...
Yes,I agree that the guy was such low that he made the innocent poor girl to perform an item number in front of his drunk friends.But its just HIS OWN WAY to vent out his frustration,he did'nt liked the fact that his father had made a deal with Chakor to free Imli,he feared that she would agree to the deal,and he might lose Imli..The reason for that was not because he liked her but he was aware of the fact that losing Imli would not reap any good for him,as he was very much dependent on her,she was his right hand.But I clearly remember that during the dance perfomance,his expressions told another story,it seemed that he himself was not happy doing that, there was a sort of 'sharmindagi' in his eyes,he seemed very uncomfortable and uncomposed,It looked that he was doing something knowing its wrong...its like purposely cheating in an examination hall or lying to parents for secretly watching a movie with friends...and,yes the very next day he went to apologise to her for his deed and too along with movie tickets..i know its not enough but its just HIS OWN WAY...!
Yes,I agree that he was so low that he had once gambled with that dud Yogi bear and had put Imli in the bet and lost her as well.The scene was never shown,and we are very much unaware of the situation but i am sure it suraj must have gambled just out of his sheer overconfidence,He for once must not have thought of losing,and so must have continued.But he lost,and then mu GENTLEMAN did'nt sent her as well,and even fear of the fact when he was going to meet that Yogi days later.Can anyone not sense just CARE in the side of Suarj...is there anything called love here?
And now coming to the main topic,his sudden love realisation for her that has left all of us IRKED😡...I am personally fully affirmed that it was just nothing called LOVE,so what it actually was?
Now to give a valid explanation for it i must write a story,somehow thinking about Imraj,i just remembered this story I had read in 2013 in an anonymous journal where people shared there real life experiences,titled,'The various aspects of human relations'.[this story is a real one and dates back to 2002]...so read on...
The story is set up in a semi urban district in UP and this is the the story of Shalu.She was the daughter of a poor cobbler and their family belonged to an inferior caste,where girls were not privileged much and were even denied high education as well,But her life was different,she was the family's eldest and had two young brothers and one youngest sister as well.She had grown with only one ambition in life-one day to be a doctor,her family was also supportive,when she turned 18 and passed 12,everyone in their community wanted her marriage,but she wanted to study,going against all odds she studied very hard for 3 continuos years,and after 3 years her labour reaped good results and she got selected in state medical entrance examinations,She was at cloud nine,seeing the right oppurtunity,Amit proposed her.Amit was the only son of the small shoe factory owner where Shalu's father worked.They belonged to a upper middle-class family and Amit had always liked her.So Shalu also agreed,the duo got engaged and their marriage was fixed after the completion of Shalu's 5-year MBBS course.
But everything turned out to be doomed the very first day of her college when Pawan entered her life.She was going to attend her very first class when some seniors encounterd her.They were behaving very rudely and Shalu was also a somewhat rebellion kinda girl and thus she also did'nt and entered in a verbal spat with them,Just then Pawan entered the scenario and calmed evrybody[he was in the 5th yesr,and president if the college;s union as well],ahe talked politely with her and in telling about the course details,he tricked her and took her to the topmost floor and locked her inside an isolated dark room in order to teach her a lesson,The room had just on small window for ventilation and a door.She kept on shouting,but screams fell on deaf ears,as no one ever came near the room.While coming downstairs,Pawan ordered his friend to open the room after one hour as has has to go somewhere,but the guy forgot.
The room was opened 2 days later by a cleaner when he saw Shalu lying in an unconcious state and informed the officials,There was total panic in her family as well as in her in-laws family as well.They had lodged a police complain as well,when she they were finally informed after 2 days that she has been admitted in college's hospital.The room in which she had been locked was famous as the college's lovers point.She was there for two days and nobody believed that she was alone,She was dismissed from the college,Amit also questioned her character and there marriage was broken.Shalu's father had a previous heart ailment,and he got a heart attack.When they were rushed to the hospital,somehow Pawan turned out to be the assistant doctor.He saw her and asked her,Seeing him the poor girl just could'nt control herself and started spilling her anger on him.He came to knew about the entire matter from the college officials and police.He immediately called his friend whom he had orderd to open the room.The Guy said that he had forgotten.Pawan just could'nt believe his ears,how could he do that,He was solely responsible for turning the poor girl's world upside down.Unintentionally,he was responsible for all the trouble that she had to went through.
He went to her house,tried to explain everything to her family,but everyone just humiliated him,abuse him.Shalu did'nt said a word,she was just crying,On his way back home Pawan just could'nt forget the innocent girl's pretty face,the tears in her eyes,He promise himself to put everything in order,his family had political influence through which he made her readmiitted to the college with due respect.By the time her family and Shalu had forgiven him at his trials.But ther was only the problem of her marriage,as know one in their caste was ready to marry her.So Pawan went with Shalu's father at Amit's home to make things work,but they demanded a medical test of her virginity.This totally shattered Shalu's father and he had heart attack which took his life.Pawan just could'nt forget this,once again he had become the cause of her troubles as well.He just could'nt forgive himself.By the time he had developed a sweet friendship with Shalu,but whenever he saw her he remembered hi mistake.His only ambition in life had become to keep her happy,he always pampered her.He could only think of keeping hr happy,and whenever he saw her smiling,he felt some light.He had started to believe that he loves her.So after few months of her father's death,he proposed her.Shalu was very upset at this,She said some very beautiful lines-"Tum jaante ho Pawan aaj yeh kehkar ke tum mujhse pyar karte ho,tumne us din se bhi zyaadah badhkar mera dil dukhaaya hai.Maaloom hai yeh kya hai,asal mein tum aaj tak khud ko maaf nahi kar paaye ho ki,woh jo tumne anjaane mein mere saath kiya,uski wajah sw meri zindagi barbaad ho gayi,Sirf isliye apne aap ko is pachtaave ki bhavna se azaad karne ke liye tum khud ko yeh bharam de rahe ho ki tum mujhse pyar karte ho.Sirf apne aap ko maaf karne ke liye tum mujhse shaadi karna chaahte ho.Yeh pyar nahi hai...!"
Pawan understood what she meant to say.Some years later both Pawan and Shalu got married to different individuals and both had love marriage as well.Both are happy in their marital lives and very good friends as well...😊
So friends,did'nt u all understood my purpose of writing such along story,Did'nt u noticed some sort of similarities between Pawan and Suraj...
Its that simple,GUILT,REGRET,and SYMPATHY are such strong feelings.and when this 3 feelings together take over a person,they can give u many false affirmations as well,Just as in the case of Suraj,Chakor was also not behind in making him falsely believe that he had always loved Imli,,,which was just not true,,,IT may happen with anyone of us,we sometimes just listen to others rather then asking ourselves...
And,yes one more thing,i remember that he insanely fought with the guards to bring an icecream which she wanted to eat.During the bomb scare he was just all the way concerned about Imli's safety first...But answer my one question guys...Suppose you went to a beautiful garden where u came across a very pretty tender,flowering bud or 'kali',you just want the flower to be full blown and prosper...What would u do then? would u nourish the flower or plant.Naturally u will nourish the plant,water it,care for it,would pay attention to all its needs and that too with love...but that will just not mean that u are in love with the plant,
So the 'kali' was Suraj's unborn child and Imli the plant.Whatever he did for her was just the concern of a would-be father for the mother of its child.There was nothing like love...
And last the scene in the hospital where Imli was lying unconcious after her miscarriage,and the way he tenderly put his hands on her forehead and said,"Vivaan ke saath hamesha khush rehna".The scene was so pure,it never seemed to me that LOVER SURAJ his handling over his ladylove to another guy...for me it was the CARETAKER side of Suraj for Imli...
How can anyone say that he ever loved her...just because he had claimed to do so...come on guys we all know that Suraj is the biggest fool when it comes to understand his emotions,,...😛
So friends,how did u liked my post.was I able convince u all or not?
Please to make me know,and if there is still any query left about this "IMRAJ" mess,then u may ask me and if i am still not able to convince anyone then i bow...i said this is my last attempt...!😕
Please do reply,Vikor love story would be discussed in Part V.Till then enjoy life,take care and enjoy the magic called SUKOR...🤗
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