gemini54 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#1
"The thing about real life is, when you do something stupid, it normally costs you. In books the heroes can make as many mistakes as they like. It doesn't matter what they do, because everything works out in the end. They'll beat the bad guys and put things right and everything ends up cool.
In real life, vacuum cleaners kill spiders. If you cross a busy road without looking, you get whacked by a car. If you fall from a tree, you break some bones.Real life's nasty. It's cruel. It doesn't care about heroes and happy endings and the way things should be. In real life, bad things happen. People die. Fights are lost. Evil often wins.
I just wanted to make that clear before I begun." This is n excerpt from the book 'living Nightmare' by Darren Shan


In this story some of us ( me included ) are trying to relate this to real life incidents of ours but this is NOT real life it is just a story a figment of imagination by a writer, sold to a TV channel hoping it will make money. Of course for all of this to happen they need phenomenal actors and this show has that.

I was wondering why this show was causing me to have strong feelings ( not positive ) for hero ,the heroine and the mother character. It is because I want to see my Hero in the Hero , me in the heroine and me again in the mother character but this is fiction and a dramatized one as such so really does not warrant me to have this strong feelings. When we start to want or seek to see reality in these shows than we get disappointed

I think this story has kept its characters intact have they grown I think no , have some regressed in my opinion maybe but for the most part stayed consistent. If I watch it just as a story a fiction , me being an avid reader I can see that this is good storytelling old wine in a new bottle but still good story telling because if it was not good story it wouldn't hook so many people. Is the execution of the story sloppy you bet it is, has it been dramatized for effect it has

An example of the good story telling ( only my opinion)

Dev Dixit when he broke up with Sona did it with what we call Knee Jerk reaction , was I offended yes but nevertheless he did. In reality when we have a knee jerk reaction we follow up with a process to remedy or nullify the effect but in this story Dev the hero did not and that is and will be my pet gripe. Now the writers are having Sona have the same knee jerk reaction to the slap yes the slap was bad and I feel they showed it to get maximum reactions kind of like shock value some time that sells on TV. So Sona now mortgages her dad's home in order to pay the loan not really thinking of the consequence like how Dev did when he broke up with Sona. ( Maybe it is apples to oranges but the emotions are the same) When people are pushed to the limit we do take knee jerk reactions and those do have consequences the writers have now come a full circle in showing that Sona too can get carried away with emotions and make bad decisions. This to me is good story telling

Another thing I want to mention is in yesterdays episode all the actors where phenomenal. Dev even though listened to his mom and her words and went thru the motions of assuring her he will never leave her was more concerned about how to get Sona back. Phenomenal piece of acting by the actor. Sona when her Dad says I will not let my daughter forget this had a subtle change of expression on her face again brilliant piece of acting. The actress who plays Easwari also was great yesterday she wanted to play the woe me character and she played it well . This serial does have stellar cast and maybe that is why people are not able to not watch or read the WU.

And bottom line this is a Fiction and a TV show ...and In Real Life...

Created

Last reply

Replies

9

Views

941

Users

9

Likes

43

Frequent Posters

havima thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#2
One word to ur post.. brilliant
Jade0001 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 8 years ago
#3
Excellent Post

I guess because we become so addicted to the show that we start analyzing it from realities view

Tia.0 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 8 years ago
#4
Excellent point you made, Sabita. Real life has consequences. Fiction doesn't.

In real life had we met someone like Dev, we'd call him wimp, coward and spineless. Had our family member or friend been married to someone like Dev, we would advice them to dump him and move on.

Had we met someone like Sonakshi Dixit in life, we'd tell her, "May be next time find a man and not a boy" or "Where did you left your personality? Don't you miss it?"

But that's not real life. In fiction, he is a hero and she is a heroine.

Just like in fiction, a stalker is a romantic man, an obsessed lover is intensely hot, a man who man-handles women is passionate...

But look at the power of fiction how it influences our day to day lives. No need to do much. Just open a newspaper.
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
pkbdas61 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#5
Sabitha, you write very well. you have captured all that i am thinking right now.. this is exactly my approach too and that is why i have stopped criticizing the show.. I will probably pan it if they indeed take a 7 year leap.. then i will heap on these guys my worst criticism.. but i know i will not have to do it.

till then i will enjoy every episode as it comes.. i just want to see Erica and Shaheer acting together.. that is the bottom line.
timbarucha83 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#6
That is the whole point. In my yesterdays post I have wrote the paybacks which the character should pay but after seeing the dev and sona my breain is saying that dev should have a pay back but my hart is not ready for another breakup and this is because of the great star cast and there acting skill.
desigirl987 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#7
Well said dear !!!
"

I was wondering why this show was causing me to have strong feelings ( not positive ) for hero ,the heroine and the mother character. It is because I want to see my Hero in the Hero , me in the heroine and me again in the mother character but this is fiction and a dramatized one as such so really does not warrant me to have this strong feelings. When we start to want or seek to see reality in these shows than we get disappointed "

This 👏👏👏

The reality is all these characters are not our at all , its the writers , so as much as I want them to behave like my ideals , it totally depends on the story the writer wants to tell . Otherwise its better for me to write the story as per my imagination 😛 , but evenif I do I'm not that talented to tell a story for so long and still able to hook up the people who initially liked my story . But as you mentioned this is pure fiction and not to mention a story they had to sell , so they may even need to change the intended story , depending on some external factors . So I get the writers challenges .I had made the mistake of relating it with my real life , only because the characters were developed like that and very rarely we get to see that in television . So now I'm watching it as a pure fictional show which may have all the cliches but because of the talented actors , I can tolerate 😉 . And evenif a minority of audience identified themselves as Ishwari or Dev or Sona and decided to rethink their outlook in life , I would say its a good thing !!!!

Edited by desigirl987 - 8 years ago
preethik thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#8
You have nailed it Sabitha! It is fiction after all.
Unfortunately we get so attached to the characters that any deviation by them in what we perceive as normal or conforming behavior disturbs us.

After a few years of watching Indian soaps I have realized that it is better to view this as pure fiction & the storytellers story. The problem starts when we have certain expectations which is true for a lot of aspects of real life too.

The actors of this show are brilliant & the chemistry is amazing & that has contributed to a lot of viewers hanging on to this serial.
deepsel thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#9
Fantastic post !! Take a bow TM👏

Very aptly said and a much needed post after I witnessed some help seeking posts from this series. We all got hooked to this show for its fresh content hoping to see some practical solutions to some real problems handled in mature way. They managed to keep that for first 100 episodes completely but unfortunately they lost course for various reasons and even I have stopped believing as this is some real life fantasy. Now all I watch is some exceptional acting and entertainment from yet another Indian show and it does entertain me😳

Let the makers show what they want, and I will enjoy what I like in that..win win for both I guess😆
gemini54 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#10
Thanks all for responding I wrote this post more for my sanity😉
Tia I know fiction does influence all I am saying is let us not be and hopefully it will not for an informed audience

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".