My perception abt Saanjh

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desigirl_aabida

@desigirl_aabida

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Posted: 9 years ago

Loved the comments of Arya supporters in online ,agar CVs Arya ko nahi end banayenge toh online ki trp kam hogi cause all support Arya and it's Arya for sure cause all ship for Arya

Finally coming to the title of my post

And one thing I wanna speak about Saanjh in my perspective as coming to the title of my post ,I can understand how it is to be in love with your first love since childhood and I can understand the pain but I don't understand why she is over acting upon loosing her love like as if he also is in love with her but Maya took him away . Seriously Saanjh ,even I went through the same like you but I moved on and thought it was destiny who didn't wanted me and that boy together and look am happy .Saanjh when I saw you falling in love with Arjun ,I thought you were just like me but when you thought that Maya is stealing your happiness and love I felt you are ain't like me .Am not supporting Maya here and am just saying that what Saanjh is doing is not maturity and it's immaturity .Even I have seen open dreams with that boy and that once I propose him and he accepts ,we will get married and stuffs like that and plus that boy sister was also supporting me and plus because of this I was maintaing friendly connections to his family and getting in their good books but at the end I realised am being too much and he is happy that he has found his right partner so I stepped back but I didn't let go of being his friend only

Saanjh there are many girls like you but they won't be like you either cause you are so possessive and pycho that you want your love at any cost

Edited by desigirl_aabida - 9 years ago

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abhiya23

@abhiya23

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Posted: 9 years ago

You are one brave soul to be honest. I see people saying it is not easy to rise from such heartbreak which is absolutely true but the pain Saanjh is facing is nothing compared to what people often face like not having proper shelter, some don't get parents love due to their workaholic nature and here Saanjh can at least stay friend to Arjun. I don't really blame Saanjh here because it is in parent's hands to let their child face the world or make her stay in a fair tale, it is Vandana and Suman who are solely responsible for Saanjh's condition.

My story is quite similar to you but at least you are also friend to that person. I am more like Saanjh who don't have guts to confess love and rather stay away from the only guy I had crush in my whole life.

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Japrilforever

@Japrilforever

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Posted: 9 years ago

Again, Saanjh is being judged a little too much. Did she hold Maya or Arjun responsible for her state? Did she say that I will make sure I have Arjun at any cost? Il make him mine? Didn't she accept her destiny? Now can't she even cry? I don't see the point of this post as none of ur points seem valid.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: lumos_31
Again, Saanjh is being judged a little too much. Did she hold Maya or Arjun responsible for her state? Did she say that I will make sure I have Arjun at any cost? Il make him mine? Didn't she accept her destiny? Now can't she even cry? I don't see the point of this post as none of ur points seem valid.

Valid or not. Is it wrong to discuss something related to show on this forum. She wasn't any bias to maya or any other characters.

Just said her perception. So there's no point in saying u r judging saanjh.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

I really appreciate you brave girl. You have got over & moved on & still friends with him that's great .

Yeah saanjh is obsessed abt arjun.

Saanjh has only happiness till now in her life in all ways since childhood. She's lucky that she didn't had maya like parents.

For the first time she experienced something bad in life.

But in life it's natural we have ups & downs, Happiness & sadness Dbut arjun is destined to maya.

And the irking thing is her family & vandana behaving as if he broke her heart. I feel it's more like she brought it on herself.

Life doesn't go as it planned & here the parents are to be blamed for giving false hopes to that girl rather shud give practical things of life.

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@TheUnique

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Posted: 9 years ago

Oh God you opened a topic on the selfless Saanjh based on your perception !!! The problem is that if you can't appreciate the mahaan Saanjh you are called judgemental & topics will open on why can't everyone stand Saanjh! 😆

While Maya's years of suffering from Child Abuse in a dysfunctional family with unfit parents cannot be the cause enough for her to turn the way she is... cuz no matter how much hardship or hatred u face from parents & surroundings nobody gives you the right to be selfish will be put forth as reason to not tolerate her... But Saanjh coming from a stable loving family has every right to be obsessive about Arjun cuz she's heartbroken!

TM any normal girl would have done what u did . I think you are a brave girl to have dealt with heartbreak & then accept it. & move on

Maya saying ""main tumhari jagah lena nahi chahti aur run meri jagah le nahi sakti "" sounded arrogant but saanjh"s threatening her that she will not return her thing the next time Aldo sounded equally rude to me. If she had good intentions she could have said please keep your thing properly cuz u don't know how valuable it is & u r lucky to have it...someyjing along this line but no! Saanjh will not move on or let gof her love easily... She's gonna fight with Maya... .& viewers will put forth their views! So calling people judgemental cuz they don't agree with you is ridiculous

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Jesmina

@stranger.67

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Posted: 9 years ago

Wait for the judgemental replies for not liking Sanjh 😆

OT I am really proud of you. You understood that its better to move on then sticking to something we might never get. If the guy you loved doesn't love you back you don't need to expect anything from him. You did the right move and Am sure you will find someone even better then him.
As for Sanjh Agree witj you. I really find her annoying acting more psychotic and possessive then Maya. I don't connect to her character. Its like she owns Arjun and like he cheated on her. Like seriously, Writer should work on her character

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Jesmina

@stranger.67

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: TheUnique
Oh God you opened a topic on the selfless Saanjh based on your perception !!! The problem is that if you can't appreciate the mahaan Saanjh you are called judgemental & topics will open on why can't everyone stand Saanjh! 😆
While Maya's years of suffering from Child Abuse in a dysfunctional family with unfit parents cannot be the cause enough for her to turn the way she is... cuz no matter how much hardship or hatred u face from parents & surroundings nobody gives you the right to be selfish will be put forth as reason to not tolerate her... But Saanjh coming from a stable loving family has every right to be obsessive about Arjun cuz she's heartbroken!
TM any normal girl would have done what u did . I think you are a brave girl to have dealt with heartbreak & then accept it. & move on
Maya saying ""main tumhari jagah lena nahi chahti aur run meri jagah le nahi sakti "" sounded arrogant but saanjh"s threatening her that she will not return her thing the next time Aldo sounded equally rude to me. If she had good intentions she could have said please keep your thing properly cuz u don't know how valuable it is & u r lucky to have it...someyjing along this line but no! Saanjh will not move on or let gof her love easily... She's gonna fight with Maya... .& viewers will put forth their views! So calling people judgemental cuz they don't agree with you is ridiculous

⭐️ Exactly! Very well said!

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Sandy

@StardustSandy

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

You are one brave girl and did the right choice by backing out, atleast u managed to keep friendly with him, i on the other hand severed all ties from my crush and couldnt even look him in the eyes until i got over him, he kept asking whats wrong but i didnt had the guts to tell him (so childish i know 😆) You'll find your true match soon if u havent already cuz love cant be forced, its always a two way street and i agree with u abt saanjh, shez behaving as if she was cheated which is not true, from day 1 she knew that arjun doesnt love her, why did she ever get close to him as if she was his gf? she shud've stayed in her limits till arjun propesd her atleast, anyway with all things said and done the girl should move on now and get a life for herself

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sigmundfreud

@sigmundfreud

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Posted: 9 years ago

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just 1 reply to your post.. u r not sanjh and sanjh is not you... every person has her own way of dealing.. and when emotion overpowers maturity it can affect many individuals.. and I think sanjh dealt the situation very good later when she actually accepted the fact that arjun loves maya..

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