Why did Atharv fans never hate Vividha?

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monu_tan

@monu_tan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: mridula28

The point is we feel pain of people we love.This is the fact.So is the case with fandom War.Vitharv are relationshio Goals.But i am confused about one thing will Vividha will be loved by all if she actually start loving Ravish? I know there is remote possibility of this happening.But its just a thought.Then there will be real judgment about women free will.Is Woman allowed to be confused?Will she be said a cheater? Either way One lead will be hurt.

You are right, we feel the pain of ppl we love. Maybe our connection with Vv grew stronger due to the heinous way she was married and was made to go through the marriage forcibly. I somehow dont think a woman can love two mean at tge same time. Unless Atharv is not around for watever reasons, i dont think she will love anyone. If she could , she would have fallen for ravish already rather than being his friend. Dont u think so?

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Shweta13

@Shweta13

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Wow !! First of all I am being honest that I had my share of dissapointments with Vividha at times because of she losing herself confidence and weighing herseld down with guilt but I niether doubted her love for Atharva nor hated her anytime.

Firstly Vividha nevwr agreed to Atharva with respect to Kailash and I understand that because she was papa's girl and had blind faith on him since childhood, On the otherside Kailasha also never did anysuch thing to her in entire life which shall make her doubt on his actions. He was a good father who raised his daughter well in life.

Secondly Vividha married Ravish - That us not Vividhas fault at all, I mentioned in other post too today. VIVIDHA was ready to marry a dog to please kailash for saving Atharvas life, it was Kailash who got her married to Ravish. It doesnt matter to Vividha who is sitting with her in Mandap " Ravish or Dog". I wonder If she could have married to Dog then too some people on this forum must have objected that she ruined a dogs life... like seriously.

Vividha being Vividha, she realized she is married to a nice guy and family she is being good to them as they are behaving good to her but all that tearing her apart in two ways. She never stopped loving Atharva. Vitharv love is so strong that it never has any misunderstandings and they know each othwr in n out. Vividha knows Atharva will not judge her, they are one so thwy have to be together and live their dreams.

I can never hate Vividha becos I loved her from start, saw her looking at life in a diff way rather than being naive, saw her strength and what real Vividha is. Atharva loves his Vividha so am I, I am sure even with 0.0000000000001 percent If vivi wanna go to Ravish, Atharva will back out, he will never force Vivi. For him it has to Vivis choice. Joh aap chahengi wohi hoga aur joh aap nhn chahti woh nhn hoga.

Whatever Atharva suffered because of Vividha and because of loving her, those are struggles of their bod to triumph. It is not easy for a women to leave your love beaten to death, bleeding buckets and marry unknown person. She had her own share of sacrifices in this relationship and continuing lifeless life each day.

Too big, I hope it made sense ...

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@-JC-

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

TBH I do think i felt a bit of anger. I wanted her to use her brain and twart the plans of KK. But I can take the fact that she was distraught to be the reason her brains stopped working to get herself and Atharv out of the mess.

But I never thought Vivs to be a great character. She was the average Indian girl for me. It was her reaction to Atharv in her life that made her special. The spark that Atharv saw and no one else did. Then she proved him right be sparkling. That is the point when I started appreciating her as a character. But Phase 2 has compromised this sparkling girl's character for the sake of a lot of unnecessary drama. I cannot appreciate her the same anymore. But whenever she voices her opinions and refuses to believe what someone else tells her just because she is a human being with a brain to use...even if she is mistaken..the fact that she exerts that muscle in her head to keep it active makes a difference.

I was afraid that like in phase 1 her brain used to say "tata" every time KK uttered something, she would turn into the old Vivs and would start implicitly trusting everyone around her because of her guilt and "everyone is so nice in the vashisht family" phase. But now I can relax as that does not seem to be the case. All the weird happenings in Vashisht house better have an explanation. I think the CVs will close this loop too.

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*Reemz*

@*Reemz*

Trailblazer

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

I will come back to the rest of these in the evening. because the topic is very close to me! Will be back and thank you for your comments :)

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lakshmi

@ShasthaaPriyaa

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

I haven't watched the story from the beginning. But from what I know and what I have seen, Vividha has a nature which cares for everyone and loves everyone. When her father was her world, her everything had been dedicated to him. When she realized the same, it devastated her. She had to watch him destroying her world, her Atharva. To save him, she sacrificed her life. Anything wrong in that? I can safely say I would have done that do if I were in her place. Because all she wanted then was to see Atharva live. She stepped into Ravish's life as a living corpse.
Yes, she hurt him and his family. Albeit unintentionally. She has made it up to him, asked for their forgiveness, truly cares for them and has been wallowing in guilt since God knows how long.

Now why should I as a ViTharv fan hate her?? Why should I hate a girl who has unconditionally loved Atharv when he is now a man-child? Who does that? She is someone who has fought the entire society, her father and continuing to fight them. Her love for Atharv is as pure as fire. She has fulfilled all her promises to him. She has always been clear as to where her heart and her priorities lie. In her soul, he will always remain her husband even though she is married to Ravish. Yes, she has served Ravish's family. Only because she care. But what breathed life back into her when she was alone in that house? It was Atharv. This girl has been through a lot of sufferings!! Right from her father turning into her biggest enemy, to having to watch her soulmate going through living hell to being forced to marry someone else.

I would enough is enough. Even Ravish does not blame Vividha. Because he knows she never intended to hurt him. In one-sided love, you do not have the right to blame the other person if he/she never intentionally hurts you, instead respects you as a person. Vividha respects Ravish.
I do not know why his fans can't see that.

Vividha, a normal girl like us had love empower her. And when she is fighting for that very love,standing by him like he always did, I truly believe she is one of the best female leads we have ever witnessed!

P.S. Did I also just write an essay?😆

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mridula28

@mridula28

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: monu_tan

You are right, we feel the pain of ppl we love. Maybe our connection with Vv grew stronger due to the heinous way she was married and was made to go through the marriage forcibly. I somehow dont think a woman can love two mean at tge same time. Unless Atharv is not around for watever reasons, i dont think she will love anyone. If she could , she would have fallen for ravish already rather than being his friend. Dont u think so?

I know dats y i said there is a remote possibility of Vividha falling for Ravish.But I was thinking If we actually support free will of a woman.I know all love Vividha but will people love Vividha if she falls for Ravish? This is a hypothetical situation? If not then what free will are we talking about if we start hating a woman for not loving our Fav.Free will is respected by people till it doesnt hurt our loved ones.Once it start affecting the person we love it loses its meaning.This is the fact of Life.

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whispa

@whispa

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

I think everyone knows how much I love Vividha and that she's my absolute favourite, so whatever I say will probably sound biased.

I fell in love with ViTharv and their love story from day one. It was only later I found out that Ravish would be entering and I was heartbroken because like most people, I know what a marriage means in tele land. .

And the dreaded marriage happened. It devastated me the way ViTharv were so harshly separated. And of course Ravish was the unknown factor. Would she fall in love with him especially as he was shown to be so nice and understanding? Would we follow the 'done to death' HDDCS story which pretty much every show follows.

And Vividha began to respond to his kindness. She became the perfect bahu for his family, even becoming his friend. She began to become comfortable around him, not flinching from his touch. This was so hard for us to see as we knew how much Atharv loved her and had given up for her. So why couldn't I start hating her? Start doubting her?

Because I could understand why she did what she did. At the time her father gave her no choice. Marry or Atharv dies. How could we hate someone who went through the mental torture that she did.

But most importantly, I empathised with her. I understood how difficult it must be for her to maintain every single relationship, not knowing what the future has in store for her.

Vividha is a kind, strong and compassionate woman who, when she loves, loves with all her heart. And most of all, she feels bad when she hurts people. Whatever Vividha has done has not been to deliberately hurt anyone. Circumstances made her make the choices she made. How can you hate her for that?

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whispa

@whispa

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Oh by the way, I forgot to add that when Vividha shouted at Atharv and slapped him too, we still didn't hate her or call her names.

We didn't feel the need to make post after post mocking and degrading her. We understood her circumstances even then, as she was being manipulated by her father. We could have hated her when she didn't turn up at the mandir to get engaged to Atharv or when she blamed him for shouting at Chintu. But we didn't. Because we always knew that whatever Vividha did was never out of malice, but it was always to protect the people she loved.

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prabharajani

@prabharajani

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

vitharvians never hated vividha nor can never hate her, vividha is a beautiful character etched, i fell in love with that vividha who passionately even loved a cow, she is that girl who is empowered by her man to such extent that she stood against whole society

but honestly i was disappointed at her in times, when she always wanted Ravish permission to meet atharv, after she had already told whole truth to him on his birthday, to go to ambulance where she was most needed

but who can hate that badaas girl who drove a bike to save her man, who is so compassionate towards others, oy i sometimes feel there is no need to be tooo good at times

i even did not like when atharv forced vivi to open up abt him, i hv not supported atharv there, it is not easy for a girl to go out suddenly again family, atharv wants everyone white but situation always doesnt exist

we r such good fandom we always stand by them, we may get disappointed some times, we nvr blindly follow, but we follow for right

atharv wld never decide anything for vividha and vividha has all the right to choose anything for her

vividha can never love anyone else than atharv, he is so connected to her soul