Why did Atharv fans never hate Vividha?

I ask this question to myself too by the way.

We have seen Vitharv's love story, we saw the extent of Atharv's love for Vividha, he almost died because of that love too.

Yet what does Vividha do? She marries another guy! As a Vitharv/Atharv fan, how does that not make us angry? Just like Ravish fans say she could've done something else, found another option...why do we not think the same? Because that one decision brought along so much heartbreak for the fandom in Phase 2. Did Vividha not think how Atharv will feel once he finds out she married someone else? Why was the life he wanted (to marry Vividha & live with her happily ever after) compromised due to her?

Forget Atharv, Vitharv fans had to see her marriage with another man. How did we not feel anger towards this woman? Why didn't we? Even though many lived with the insecurity of her moving on. How come there's no hate from us?

My opinion . I have seen what type of girl she is. From the start. Those who started watching the show for ravish can never understand her fully. Neither can they understand atharva. That's y they r now expecting him to be negative and blame vivi so that she can go back to R.

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

My opinion . I have seen what type of girl she is. From the start. Those who started watching the show for ravish can never understand her fully. Neither can they understand atharva. That's y they r now expecting him to be negative and blame vivi so that she can go back to R.

She is basically very sensitive girl. Worries for everything and everyone. Thinks she should be in good books. In short others opinion matters to her.

During the time of marriage she for the first time saw how cruel can her father get. She was shocked beyond limit . But still as most ppl will believe their parents she too believed his word that if she gets married he ll leave atharva alone. That's y she went ahead.

After marriage no peace for her. No whereabouts of atharva. In a house full of unknown ppl and few trying to molest her she was so scared. No one she could trust. The husband was in his own problems diverted her saying it's her delusion.

She found no peace until she saw atharva back .her lifeline. Her reason to live. But when ravish asked her to fake the marriage act for his mom sake she couldn't disagree coz her nature. This man has helped her atharva. How could she not help him back.

Long post. She suffered beyond limits. How can i or anyone for that matter be angry? I just feel pity that she is stuck and proud that even after so much she still stands clear in her thoughts not compromising with the situation

Thanks for your answer 😃 Don't disagree with any of it.

I think for me, the 4 main factors for not even disliking her even if I disagreed with her were:

1) Which girl/human being would want to leave the love of their life suffering only to marry someone else? In what world or effed up version did Vividha look HAPPY doing any of it?

2) Her intentions - to me the intent is very important. Had she ever intended to hurt anyone? Where was the malice?

3) Everyone who read the articles from the beginning knew that this twist was meant to happen. It was clearly said that she is made to marry Ravish. So I knew this was going to happen, it was a high point in the show.

4) I don't think her feelings or emotions were ever compromised on. She was always clear to me so I had faith in her.

Vividha is a sensitive Girl and has a pure heart.Everybody has a situation and they are reacting according to it.Blaming Vividha Ravish or Suman or Sujata is just not fair.No one is wrong.Everybody is a different person with their own thought process.We cnt expect anyone to react according to us and they dont they cnt be wrong.I m proud of the fact taht each and every character is so different in jndsd.No one iz negative or evil but all react according to their personality not in a typical way.Suman may sound delusional and selfish but i think she was on point yesterday.She is getting hardtimes one by one.Atharv is the best character.Vividha follows her heart.And Ravish always thinks of Others.

Beautiful question put out there and I think the reply has already been given and I totally agree with all.

Because we didnt love her just coz she was paired against Atharv. We connected to Vv when she was not in lovr with Atharv, when she hated him and when she opposed him for everything. We have seen the real character development of Vv. From being the naive ideal daughter to a fierce lover who could take on the world for her love. We have connected to Vv since then.

Beautiful Question And all the Answers are superb .
As a vitharv\atharv Fan ,I can't hate Vividha bcoz I have seen her from beginning of the story .I Understand her .I know her .She has pure heart .She did not leave atharv for herself,she left him for himself .She Consider her dad as God's Reflection but When she came to know the Bitter Truth of his dad she broke down .As I can Feel atharv's pain,I can also feel her pain.sometimes I feel very sad for atharv but I don't think so that it is vividha fault bcoz she is also in pain .

Originally posted by: monu_tan

Because we didnt love her just coz she was paired against Atharv. We connected to Vv when she was not in lovr with Atharv, when she hated him and when she opposed him for everything. We have seen the real character development of Vv. From being the naive ideal daughter to a fierce lover who could take on the world for her love. We have connected to Vv since then.

We were mortified the way she was married off to other man and further all her struggles to know about Atharv. I did not feel anything when she started to watm up to V clan. Maybe i would also have been okay to watch her living with the fam or new husband had Atharv not appeared again coz to be frank how much shit could the girl take.

I felt bad when Vv celebrated birthday with ravish n fam but not because she played along with them but because Atharv was trying to reach her and wish her too. No anger or disappointment for Vv there just fidappointed coz Atharv was bundled up and thrown back in the room while Vv celebrated her birthday.

I am proud of my Vv she has been so clear about her preferences and love. The ferocity with which she opposed the samaaj ppl in phase 1 was there in subtle ways in phase 2 as well. Love her and we vitharvians own her. She is not good or bad she is just our Vv.

Reema,

Am glad you've made this thread as I can actually formulate an argument on this without getting my head chewed off!

If one was to think of it logically, we ie Vitharv or Atharv fans should hate Vividha. Why? Well because she married another man, when she promised she would never do so. Secondly, if she had listened to Atharva and not blindly trusted her father, that situation perhaps would not have arisen. So why don't we hate her? Well the answer is rather simple, we understood her stance, we've put ourselves in her shoes and understood her predicament. Which is rather hard to do when one is obsessed with just one character.

Ravish has suffered, as most people do in one sided love, but his suffering is nothing in comparison to what Atharva has been and is going through. Vividha wants to rectify her mistake (although she has made no mistakes as KK's betrayal was never a foreseeable matter for her) by ensuring Atharva gets better, to enable them both to live their lives as they promised one another.

Ravish's fans will hate Vividha because according to them, he is the sole sufferer on the show, which in itself depicts just how consumed they are in their fav character. Nothing else can be expected. (Just pointing out facts, in line with the forum rules).

(Appogies for typos)!