This sounds like a sugar-coated insult. Kindly don't judge
anyone (actress, actor, forum member, etc.) without knowing them personally.
Losing someone is hard but you can't just sit and mope about it. They're gone and they're not coming back. Death is imminent. I've lost a fair share of people but I moved on and while it's sad, the hands of time continue to keep moving.
I've always found it intrusive and extremely rude when people say "OMG! That person just had a death in their family and look how happy they are!" Everyone deals differently with losing a loved one. Why the hell does anyone care about how they spend their lives?
Quit worrying about what others are doing in their personal life and focus on your own life. Read a book, help out at an animal shelter, do something for the community, or maybe just spend time with your own family. Just stop nosing into other people's lives.
Live and let live, folks. Live and let live.