I now know what Arjun is!!!

Hello everyone,

woww!! 2 Topics in just a day?? 😲 I am improving!!😲 hahaa😆
I am coming straight to the Topic. Let's see.. Everyone.. when I say EVERYONE then I mean EVERYONE is thinking about Saanjh's happiness! They think Arjun is the best for her to get her happy. But wait... What about Arjun? How can they decide what he has to do any what not? This is what I hate about almost all the characters of the show! Now even Saanjh got to know, however what he feels for her.. it's everything but not love! What does she wait from him? To marry him.. to be with him whereas he doesn't love her? I understand Suman and Prem.. They think about their daughtes happiness.. But what about Vandana? She has to think about her son right? No one even said what about Arjun? What if he wants it or not? Does he really loves her? Does he really wants to marry her? No right? Why everyone is behind saanjh's happiness whereas Arjun ALSO is in this matter? When he is going to marry Saanjh.. he has to spend his whole life with her right? Not only saanjjh! This is really slefish!! Of all of them!! I find it good that Arjun doesn't listen to them.. and yeah.. why he should?? it's his life.. he can decide with whom he wants to spend his whole life.. and with not! He clearly said to SAanjh that he loves her only like a best friend.. not more.. They really behave like Arjun is just a property.. When you didn't know the whole characters.. the whole show!! When are person is gonna explain you the show you will definitely think that Arjun is like some dog.. 😆 that Maya and Saanjh can't share.😆 am I not right? 😆 To be honest... whatever Maya does, I find it somehow acceptable than Saanjh's behaviours!! Atleast Maya doesn't make him to do anything which is going to change his life! She always gives him chances to make his own decisions! And this is what I like about Maya! when Maya is obsessive.. and Saanjh is possesive, I would rather be obsessed than possesive!!

What do you think? Every kind of opinions are welcomed!

-- Violetta.

Yup vio mata . .

Well said. No one cares about arjun, arjuns happiness. I mean not even ayan or vandana. In one comment i said sanjh and her two mothers, i said this because vandana is more a mother to sanjh than arjun. Sanjh is living in a lala land and vandana suman are encouraging her more that arjun loves her even ayan. God ayan is Arjuns brother and woh itna close. He understands arjun well lekin ye nae samjh paya that arjun doesn't love sanjh.

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Yup vio mata . .

None cares about Arjun..poor boy..

I wish he had his own mother ..who would atleast try to understand her son's wish.. happiness..😕

Saanjh's family and Vandana.. even ayaan is after arjun..to get him married to saanjh..

I mean what if Arjun turns out to be a gay !!!nobody doesn't wanna understand...what arjun really wants..😆

Everyone say..maya is a psycho..obseesive..but at least she gives him his own time..to think..

And moreover she listens to him..😉

That's y arjun is gonna go to Maya than his whole family..

And I would rather like psycho obsessive than possessive wala pyaar 😉🤣

Who atleast understands me..gives me my value...

Be it for his/her own benefit...but atleast he/She tries to understand me!!than pressuring me every time..

Very well said dear!! This deserves a big wala applaus!!! 👏 This is what I wanted to say in my whole post! I would rather go to a person who atleast tries to understand me.. even when my whole family doesn't care about me and my thoughts. What can I do then? I would feel myself comfortable with that person who wants to listen to my decisions.. to my thoughts.. to my opinions.. rather to be with some people who wants to make me to do something what I actually don't want to do.. Hahaha..😆 arjun and gay??😆😆 let hm turn out to be a gay..😆😆 I wanna see Maya and Saanjhs faces then😆 🤣

Originally posted by: Sanjana212

Well said. No one cares about arjun, arjuns happiness. I mean not even ayan or vandana. In one comment i said sanjh and her two mothers, i said this because vandana is more a mother to sanjh than arjun. Sanjh is living in a lala land and vandana suman are encouraging her more that arjun loves her even ayan. God ayan is Arjuns brother and woh itna close. He understands arjun well lekin ye nae samjh paya that arjun doesn't love sanjh.

Yes! Even in my one post, I even said that people around Saanjh are making her think like that more and more.. have you seen how Vandana and Suman saying to Saanjh? *Arjun is the best for you* *Arjun and you are made for each otheR* bla bla... even if you hate that person, by such comments of your family members, you might get such a feeling that you like that person.. and that persn would get more special in your life.

Originally posted by: ..Violetta..

Very well said dear!! This deserves a big wala applaus!!! 👏 This is what I wanted to say in my whole post! I would rather go to a person who atleast tries to understand me.. even when my whole family doesn't care about me and my thoughts. What can I do then? I would feel myself comfortable with that person who wants to listen to my decisions.. to my thoughts.. to my opinions.. rather to be with some people who wants to make me to do something what I actually don't want to do.. Hahaha..😆 arjun and gay??😆😆 let hm turn out to be a gay..😆😆 I wanna see Maya and Saanjhs faces then😆 🤣

me too , prefer obsessive than posssive , suman only sees sanjh as a way to mend her relationship with arjun, she shares a good rapport with her and is scared dt if sm1 else cums in arjun's lyf she'll take advantange of d situation n will drive him away further from her, shez being wrong n selfish, arjun should be allowed 2 choose a lyf partener of his own, its his right afterall n hez d one who has 2 spend his lyf wid her not vandana

I kind of agree with Arjun's point of view, I know he looks immature and all,and technically all sympathy would go with vandana for her sacrifice, but I feel what was the need of it,to stay at someone 's house for four months for the child who doesn't respond to your love

Very well said why can't saanjh accept that arjun didn't love her neither maya up till now. She's making her friendship messy by her this type of acts she'll loose her friend definitely bt may be this will be the reason arjun will fall in love with maya bez u r right about that maya always give him chance to think nt like his family & all people who always ready to throw saanjh on him,idiots 😡 & that vandana going all waterworks dis she even try to understand what her son feels & think about both maya & sanjh bt anyways all r going to blame maya.

Vio, first of all, I would like to say that your post is very good. You have told many things that I've mentioned but you have also told those things which I could not say. I would rather go in for an obsessive lover who understands me, gives me space, respects my talent and values me rather than possessive and chipku type spouse who neither understands me nor values me but behaves like a nagging and dominating spouse. I feel bad for Arjun that no one cares about what he wants. Prem and Suman are interested in their daughter's happiness and encourage her to win Arjun's love but Vandana is really behaving like a step-mother for Arjun in this respect. She treats him like a baby. Even Ayan is bent on seeing Arjun and Sanjh together. He should mind his own business. Vandana and Ayan have no gratitude towards Maya for bailing Ayan. I wish Maya had allowed him to be behind the bars for 2 days before bailing him out. Maya promoted Arjun not because she loves him but because he does good work. Maya never mixes up work with her personal life.