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sweetygirl28

@sweetygirl28

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

am copy pasting my reply to that particular post...i didnt mention vv shud nt move on anywhere..

with or without atharv the first thing vv want to do is to focus on her career...she dreamed of becoming an accountant...she can fullfill it...coming to love or marriage...considering vv's devotion to Atharv i dont think shel give his place to anyone else

there r some members who just want to bash vitharv fans not evn reading their posts just lyk not evn watching the show from beginning n commenting on others perspective..

Basically we all said vividha giving importance to her vachan will live her life.no one said she should live with atharvs memories. Even if she marries someone else she ll have that special place in her heart forever.

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Hima219

@Hima219

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

It's completely depends on vividha. But in serial they showed vitharv love is very deep and cannot be separated by anyone. Removing soulful love from heart is not a easy thing. For that she need some time. In that time, if she finds a person who understands her, respects her, love her truly from heart like atharv...it's her decision to move on with him or not.

Other than setting our life with someone there are many things to do. Vividha need to achieve her dreams. She should be financially independent. She should take care of her family uma and dadi and become their support system. She should know about people mindset like atharv so that she can save herself from problems/dangers in society.

If vividha heart and soul is still with atharv, then no one has right to force her into a relation which she don't want.

Women can live happily and bravely without men. Women can share their happiness/sad/problems/anything with their parents,friends and well wishers. For that they no need to have a relation with man. Empowerment is nothing but leading our lives with our thoughts, rules and decisions.

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Karaali

@Karaali

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Thank you all for responding. It is heartening to read that everyone recommends giving her space and choice on how to move on.

I personally would actively recommend her to find 'new' love after some healing. She does not have to forget atharv but make place for someone else in her heart. In the end it will be her choice only.

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monu_tan

@monu_tan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

I would want Vv to follow her heart.

She need not be told who to fall in love with. She need not be guilt tripped coz some else loves her, it should be her mind and her heart. When someone loses a soulmate, its not easy for them to love someone else again. So if she wants to remain single that should be her choice too.

Edited by monu_tan - 9 years ago

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anjs

@anjs

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Ideally, she should do, what she wants to do... even if it means living her life alone with Atharva's memories. If Thats what she wants forever, then no-one can or should force her, cause forcing her into marriage that way, wud again mean ruining her husbands life alongwith hers.

Best way in such situations is mostly to become independent, start a career or study further, according to one's situation.

But then, if in due course, she finds someone who would become her best friend. Understand her and Atharva's place in her heart and is ready to accept the situation and if she is also ready to give it a try. Then there is no harm in a new relationship. It wont mean she is cheating Atharva.

Honestly, i don't believe in one true love for life. Yes, love is very very deep. But people don't die or stop living when their love their spouse or their husband die. Some do fall in love again. And it is possible that Vividha might also fall, if she eventually meets someone who is like-minded.

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13thwish

@13thwish

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Speaking from personal experience, some relationships are irreplaceable. And there are certain parts one's self (or heart, whatever you may call it) that once given, cannot be recovered. Depending on the depth of a relationship, it is very possible to live as an extension of another soul, and if/when that connection is lost, to feel like oneself is lost.

However, as Vivi's well-wisher, I would always want her life to be filled with love and happiness. Whatever form that may take. If after a certain amount of time has passed, she finds herself able to "move on" and rediscover such an equation, then I will cheer her on.

But if she is not, then I will only urge her to ensure that her life does not remain bereft of the human connection. Maybe she could adopt a child. Children can be the ultimate source of joy and selfless love. And they can definitely give meaning and purpose to one's existence.

P. S: I have avoided all mention of material pleasures, because I personally believe those are lesser joys and can never replace the comfort of human relationships.

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Hima219

@Hima219

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

But in this show atharv didn't disappear. He is there infront of her eyes. And she knows what atharv went through. In this scenario there would be no question of moving on with someone.

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ViTharvforever

@ViTharvforever

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Hima219
But in this show atharv didn't disappear. He is there infront of her eyes. And she knows what atharv went through. In this scenario there would be no question of moving on with someone.

yaar its wild imagination...v all know atharv is safe infront of his vividha...n theyre gonna b togethr 4 ever...the post was just an imagination

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@-JC-

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

There was a song in Dear Zindagi, "yeh aadha sa dil, mein kaise lagaaun?" That will be Vividha's dilemma if Atharv were no longer in her life. If anyone were to be her partner other than Atharv she would not be able to do justice to that relationship with all her heart. She will have a half hearted relationship and that would not be fair to the other person or to Vivs.

Edited by -JC- - 9 years ago

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